{"id":6059,"date":"2020-06-04T09:41:36","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T09:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6059"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:31:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:31:05","slug":"lettera-ragazza-perso-valore-di-se-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-ragazza-perso-valore-di-se-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che ha perso la propria autostima"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Ciao a tutti,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know this is the last thing you want to hear but I want you to know that it gets better. There is always a rainbow after rain, so don\u2019t lose hope. I know what it feels like to live in a world like this.<\/p>\n<p>So che devi alzarti e combattere per te stessa. Devi dimostrare alle persone che non sei facile da gestire e che se cercano di farti del male gli staccherai la testa.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the only way to survive in a cruel world like this. I also know that you were much stronger before. I know that you went through so much shit in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, I understand you &#8211; I\u2019ve been there. But I also know that if you really want something, you can achieve it.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t sweat the small stuff. I know that you probably were hurt by a man or your friends and in those moments you lost your self-worth.<\/p>\n<h2>Let me tell you something &#8211; you are more than enough.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115063\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola in abito lungo bianco seduta nella foresta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/lonely-woman-in-long-white-dress-sitting-in-forest-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siete degni e siete speciali e unici cos\u00ec come siete. Quindi non lasciate mai che qualcuno vi convinca del contrario.<\/p>\n<p>So che non \u00e8 facile alzarsi e combattere. Ci vuole molto coraggio e forza per farlo. Ma se lo si vuole davvero, lo si pu\u00f2 ottenere. Cosa le impedisce di raggiungere i suoi obiettivi?<\/p>\n<p>Cosa vi impedisce di essere finalmente felici? Niente!<\/p>\n<h2>Quindi, alzatevi e mostrate al mondo che siete una regina e che dovete essere trattate come tale.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115064\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna giovane e pensierosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/beautiful-pensive-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siete intelligenti, belle, degne, forti e indipendenti. Tutto questo \u00e8 dentro di voi, ma dovete solo scavare un po' pi\u00f9 a fondo per risvegliare queste emozioni in voi stessi.<\/p>\n<h2>E se mai doveste chiedere a Dio perch\u00e9 vi sta facendo tutto questo, ricordate che l'insegnante rimane sempre in silenzio durante l'esame.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115062\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta da sola vicino al mare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-alone-near-the-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is just another life lesson, the one that will make you stronger. The one that will open your eyes so you can see things you weren\u2019t able to see before.<\/p>\n<p>So che forse siete troppo severi con voi stessi perch\u00e9 avete commesso degli errori in passato. E allora? Tutti commettiamo degli errori, ma grazie a Dio impariamo da essi.<\/p>\n<p>And yeah, forget about that story that you can learn something from other people\u2019s mistakes; it\u2019s bullshit!<\/p>\n<p>Solo quando sperimentiamo sulla nostra pelle qualche grave problema, possiamo imparare una lezione. E questa \u00e8 la regola d'oro.<\/p>\n<p>Infine, voglio che sappiate un'altra cosa: non siete soli in questa situazione.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono molte persone che dubitano di se stesse proprio come te e si chiedono se sono abbastanza degne di vivere in un mondo come questo.<\/p>\n<h2>Dovete accettare il fatto che avrete alti e bassi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115061\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta su una panchina nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the way that the cookie crumbles. So, I don\u2019t want you to give up. I want you to stand up and fight for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Trovate un motivo dannatamente valido e combattete per quello. Potrebbe essere vostro figlio, vostro marito o persino il vostro animale domestico. Ma avete bisogno di qualcosa che vi faccia sentire di nuovo vivi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/aim-high-dream-big-and-prepare-for-the-fall_us_5802c2b7e4b0f42ad3d262af\" rel=\"noopener\"><b><i>Sognate in grande e puntate in alto.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>L'unica persona che pu\u00f2 impedirvi di realizzare i vostri sogni siete voi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta in un parco che pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-sitting-in-a-park-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I know that you\u2019ve still got it, but you need to release it. And whatever you decide, just know that I believe in you.<\/p>\n<p>Sono sempre l\u00ec, dietro l'angolo, a controllare se scendete mai. Perch\u00e9 se lo fate, vi tender\u00f2 sempre una mano di salvezza!<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Con molto affetto,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Uno che c'\u00e8 stato<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lettera alla ragazza che ha perso la propria autostima\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there, I know this is the last thing you want to hear but I want you to know that it gets better. There is always a rainbow after rain, so don\u2019t lose hope. I know what it feels like to live in a world like this. I know you need to get up and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":115060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Lost-Her-Self-Worth-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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