{"id":60691,"date":"2020-04-08T21:01:27","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T21:01:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60691"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:30:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:30:53","slug":"regole-di-relazione-di-cui-nessuno-parla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regole-di-relazione-di-cui-nessuno-parla\/","title":{"rendered":"10 regole relazionali indispensabili di cui nessuno parla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are oh-so-many rules out there on how people should behave in relationships: Wait three days to call her, don\u2019t kiss him on your first date, and many, many others.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s very weird to me is that other, so much more important rules get overlooked. Every relationship is different, but there are some common sense rules you should follow at all times.<\/p>\n<p>Vi proponiamo un elenco di regole d'oro che non dovreste mai ignorare.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Imparare dal proprio passato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60692\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna seduta sulla collina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nPotreste pensare che le vostre relazioni passate debbano essere dimenticate nel momento in cui ne intraprendete una nuova. Non \u00e8 assolutamente cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>While you shouldn\u2019t dwell on the past or talk too much about it with your partner, you should absolutely learn something from it.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni relazione \u00e8 unica, ma ci sono molte cose che potete imparare su di voi e che potrebbero aiutarvi a costruire una relazione pi\u00f9 felice e sana con una nuova persona.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Your partner can\u2019t read your mind<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che parla con una donna arrabbiata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nContate sul fatto che il vostro partner vi conosca cos\u00ec bene da riconoscere, in qualsiasi momento, ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno o che volete.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much they love you and how much they want to please you, it\u2019s impossible for them to always know what you need at any time.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste sempre parlare dei vostri sentimenti e dire direttamente tutto ci\u00f2 che volete o di cui avete bisogno da loro.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if something bothers you or you get angry at them for any reason, don\u2019t wait for them to figure it out on their own, simply tell them.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Nessuno pu\u00f2 essere perfetto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che beve un t\u00e8 insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-couple-drinking-a-tea-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nNo one is perfect. There will always be some flaws in your partner\u2019s character.<\/p>\n<p>You have your own flaws, right? Accept that your partner won\u2019t always be able to do the right thing and prepare yourself to forgive them.<\/p>\n<p>Mostrate loro che capite che possono sbagliare e assicuratevi di accettare le loro scuse. Naturalmente, se quello che hanno fatto \u00e8 qualcosa che potete perdonare.<\/p>\n<p>Also, make sure to forgive yourself and don\u2019t beat yourself up too much if you do something wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Pensare bene prima di dire e fare le cose<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza preoccupata che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-girl-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWords can really be hurtful. Especially when you\u2019re fighting, make sure you don\u2019t say something that would offend your partner, especially if you don\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se vi perdonano, le parole rimarranno impresse nella loro mente per sempre.<\/p>\n<p>Qualsiasi cosa si dica o si faccia pu\u00f2 essere difficilmente rimangiata, quindi pensateci bene prima di rovinare la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ci vuole molto tempo per conoscere veramente una persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sull&#039;altalena a guardare il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-sitting-on-swingset-and-watching-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou might be thinking that being in a relationship for a couple of months or even a year means that you know your partner perfectly, but that\u2019s really not true.<\/p>\n<p>Ci vogliono anni per conoscere veramente qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p>Per conoscervi veramente dovete aver affrontato molte cose diverse, quindi lasciate un po' di spazio per gli elementi inaspettati che potreste scoprire sul vostro partner.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Don\u2019t discuss your relationship in too much detail with others<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che parla con una donna in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-man-talking-to-woman-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nTalking a bit about your relationship with your friends is fine and expected, but going into too much detail is downright breaking your partner\u2019s trust. No one likes being talked about that way.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t want your partner to discuss everything about you with his friends, right? It\u2019s uncomfortable and embarrassing.<\/p>\n<p>Alcune cose \u00e8 meglio che rimangano tra voi e il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Non smettete mai di dimostrare che ci tenete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60698\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di innamorati che si coccola per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-in-love-cuddling-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nAs time passes, it can be easy to start taking your partner for granted. Make sure you don\u2019t do this. Continue to do all the lovely things you were doing at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Always act like they are the most important person in your life and you\u2019d never allow yourself to lose them.<\/p>\n<p>Keep acting like you\u2019re trying to get them to fall for you \u2013 that\u2019s the only recipe to keep them forever.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Value your partner\u2019s (and your own) personal time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time.jpg\" alt=\"Tre amici che si divertono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-friends-having-fun-time-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWhen you love someone, you want to spend a lot of time with them, that\u2019s a given. Make sure you don\u2019t overdo it.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019d like to be with them all the time, you need to let them have their life without you.<\/p>\n<p>They need to have time for their family, friends, and personal interests. The same goes for you. Just because you met someone amazing doesn\u2019t mean they have to be your whole life.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to continue to maintain your other relationships and hobbies, and have time apart from your partner.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Don\u2019t underestimate the power of thoughtfulness<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta in un campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-in-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nIt\u2019s amazing having someone who listens to you \u2013 someone who always remembers the smallest things you mention and then uses them to surprise you.<\/p>\n<p>Trovate sempre un modo per far sentire il vostro partner apprezzato. Le piccole cose possono essere molto utili.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only the grand gestures that are important in showing love. Being thoughtful every day is what counts the most.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Discutere pu\u00f2 essere molto salutare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata seduta sul letto allontanata dall&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-distanced-from-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Arguing is not the end of the relationship. One fight doesn\u2019t mean you guys have to split up.<\/p>\n<p>Discutere \u00e8 un passo molto importante per conoscere meglio il proprio partner e costruire una relazione che piaccia a entrambi.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure you don\u2019t hit under the belt when you fight, and always remember you\u2019re talking to the person you love and who loves you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s unhealthy to keep silent about the things that bother you, and arguing can really clear the energy between you and your partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60704\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 regole relazionali indispensabili di cui nessuno parla\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are oh-so-many rules out there on how people should behave in relationships: Wait three days to call her, don\u2019t kiss him on your first date, and many, many others. What\u2019s very weird to me is that other, so much more important rules get overlooked. Every relationship is different, but there are some common sense&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":60703,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Must-Know-Relationship-Rules-Nobody-Talks-About.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}