{"id":61017,"date":"2020-04-09T18:28:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T18:28:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61017"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:22:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:22:42","slug":"sei-stato-lasciato-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-stato-lasciato-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla fine, sei tu che sei stato lasciato indietro, non io"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Devo essere sincero. Ti ho amato come non ho mai amato nessuno prima. All'inizio della nostra relazione mi hai reso la ragazza pi\u00f9 felice del mondo, mi hai fatto sentire una regina.<\/p>\n<p>Eri sempre presente per me. Hai trovato il modo di sorprendermi ogni giorno con qualcosa di nuovo. Mi rispettavi e soddisfacevi tutti i miei bisogni.<\/p>\n<p>Avevi cos\u00ec <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/soprannomi-carini-per-la-fidanzata\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">molti soprannomi carini<\/span><\/a> for me&#8230; Do you remember? Babelicious, Queenie, Baby Boo, Cute Mama&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You were always complimenting me. You always talked about how beautiful I am, how you\u2019d never seen more beautiful, radiant eyes&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai anche fatto i complimenti per il mio naso che, a dire il vero, non \u00e8 poi cos\u00ec bello.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di una donna triste al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/silhouette-of-a-sad-woman-in-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I only had one nickname for you, Mr. Smarty Pants. Because you knew it all. And we always laughed at that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Diavolo, mi hai fatto innamorare di te cos\u00ec profondamente. E poi mi hai lasciato perch\u00e9 hai trovato lei. La tua nuova Queenie.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And I still can&#8217;t understand what your intention was.<\/p>\n<p>o emotionally destroy me? To make me think that true love doesn&#8217;t exist?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I\u2019m going to disappoint you. You failed if that was your intention. I still believe in true love. And I know that it&#8217;ll happen to me one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che cammina nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-walking-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Anzi, devo ringraziarti per tutto quello che mi hai fatto. Ho imparato una lezione. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now I know that the most important relationship I&#8217;ll have in life is the one I have with myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe I&#8217;ve learned it the hard way, but I have and it has helped me to save myself and to find my purpose. To find out what the most important things in life are.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that my time is precious and I shouldn&#8217;t waste it on men like you. That I shouldn&#8217;t waste it on the wrong men and cowards.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ve learned that the most important love is self-love<\/strong>. Che devo piacermi per sentirmi a mio agio nella mia pelle.<\/p>\n<p>That I shouldn&#8217;t blindly love anyone else ever again. That I shouldn&#8217;t put anyone except myself at the center of my world.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind.jpg\" alt=\"donna calma e felice nel vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-happy-woman-in-wind-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that I shouldn&#8217;t pour too much of myself into a relationship the wayI did with you. And after you left me, I was empty inside. I was lost.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, mi ha anche reso pi\u00f9 forte. Sono guarita. Sono andata avanti. Ho continuato la mia vita e ora sono proprio dove voglio essere.<\/p>\n<p>Io sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-cose-da-sapere-su-una-donna-forte-e-indipendente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una donna indipendente<\/span><\/a> who follows her dreams. I don&#8217;t depend on anyone. I don&#8217;t care who likes me and who doesn&#8217;t. All that\u2019s important is that I like myself and everything I do.<\/p>\n<p>I have all I\u2019ve ever wanted, all we ever dreamed about and it feels awesome. You know why?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ho fatto tutto da sola. E l'ho fatto quando ero nel punto pi\u00f9 basso della mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Ti ho perso, ma quella perdita mi ha portato molte cose belle. E alcune delle lezioni pi\u00f9 importanti della mia vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna bionda felice\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-young-blonde-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dopo tutto, posso dire che sono stata io a uscire vincitrice dalla nostra rottura e tu sei stato il perdente. Hai perso una ragazza che non ti avrebbe mai tradito.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Avete perso una ragazza che vi avrebbe amato incondizionatamente, fino alla fine della sua vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All this changed me a lot. But it changed me into someone better and stronger. I am a fierce woman now. And there is nothing in this world I couldn&#8217;t cope with anymore.<\/p>\n<p>E voi? Dopo tutto questo tempo siete ancora fermi allo stesso punto.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve found someone else but after some time, after you get bored, you&#8217;ll leave her as well.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane triste alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-young-man-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are still an immature boy who doesn&#8217;t know what he wants from life.<\/p>\n<p>A boy who doesn&#8217;t know that you shouldn&#8217;t play with other people&#8217;s feelings because you will hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>Sei sempre lo stesso uomo che ama inseguire le donne e trattarle come trofei.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And you&#8217;ll never change. That&#8217;s why I feel sorry for you. You&#8217;ll never be able to understand what life\u2019s true values are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sapro-che-il-mio-cuore-e-guarito-quando-ti-perdonero-per-tutto-cio-che-mi-hai-fatto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ti ho perdonato<\/span><\/a> and left you in my past. But you were a big part of my life and that&#8217;s why I don&#8217;t ever want to forget you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Alla fine, sei tu che sei stato lasciato indietro, non io\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have to be honest. I loved you like I never loved anyone before. At the beginning of our relationship you made me the happiest girl alive, you made me feel like a queen. You were always there for me. You found a way to surprise me every single day with something new. You respected&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":61032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/In-The-End-You-Were-The-One-Who-Was-Left-Behind-Not-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}