you\u2019re going to give her the world<\/a>.<\/p>\nPensa che tu porti il tuo cuore sulla manica. Pensa di aver trovato quello giusto.<\/p>\n
\u00c8 una sciocca come lo ero io.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Nothing was ever about me, was it? Everything was about you. If you had a bad day, I had to suffer. If your life wasn\u2019t going the right way, I had to pay for it.<\/p>\n
![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\")
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You had such power over me. I really can\u2019t imagine why and how I let you do that.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s either that I was too weak to fight you, or you were too strong in your mind-playing that I didn\u2019t even stand a chance.<\/p>\n
Mi stavate convincendo di cose che non sono reali. Mi hai fatto il lavaggio del cervello. Mi hai trasformato in un piccolo burattino obbediente. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I was the one who had to dance to the music you were playing. You\u2019re really something.<\/p>\n
You never managed to at least pretend you are not in love with yourself. I was a \u2018third wheel\u2019 in our relationship although it was just the two of us.<\/p>\n
![\"giovane](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-woman-crying-while-man-sitting.jpg\")
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Anche se ti incolpo per molte cose, incolpo anche me stesso. Avrei dovuto sapere cosa stava succedendo. In realt\u00e0, sapevo cosa stava succedendo, ma mi sono rifiutata di crederci.<\/p>\n
I refused to acknowledge that was happening to me. I refused to accept I\u2019d fallen into a trap. I refused to see you as you were\u2014a narcissistic piece of s**t.<\/p>\n
Ho cercato di far funzionare noi due. Tu eri una sfida per me e io non mi tiro mai indietro di fronte a una sfida. Pensavo di poterti cambiare. Ma mi sono sbagliato.<\/p>\n
I was addicted to you. You were my fix. Every time I needed a dose I would come back. I was afraid to be alone so I went back for a fix of you\u2014every single time.<\/p>\n
![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/sad-blond-woman-laying-in-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-who-sleeps.jpg\")
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The only thing that I got from you was humiliation. I got someone who thought he was better than me\u2014someone who thought he was better than anybody else.<\/p>\n
Nella nostra vita, sono sempre arrivata seconda. Venivo sempre dopo di te. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u201d!<\/i><\/b> \u201cYou\u201d <\/i> mi ha distrutto. Mi hai manipolato. Mi hai insultato. Mi hai portato via la vita.<\/p>\n
Mi hai privato di tutti i miei sentimenti. Mi hai reso insensibile. Mi hai reso indifferente.<\/p>\n
Le tue parole taglienti e fredde mi hanno insegnato a non provare assolutamente nulla. Durante i nostri litigi, me ne stavo seduto a fissare una macchia sbiadita sul muro, aspettando che tu finissi.<\/p>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-yelling-at-sad-woman.jpg\")
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I just moved my head like a zombie in an approving manner\u2014just to make you stop. I agreed to everything you said.<\/p>\n
Solo per farti fermare. Solo per godere di nuovo del silenzio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I really can\u2019t say at what point I gained enough strength and courage to call the things by their real names\u2014to see clearly for the first time after a long time.<\/p>\n
Was it because I had nothing left to lose? Was it because I was so indifferent that I didn\u2019t care what is going to happen to me anymore?<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know. The only thing I know is that I had enough. You took everything from me. You drained me. I had nothing else left to give you.<\/p>\n
![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/depressed-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg\")
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Maybe you were the one who let me go because I wasn\u2019t of use anymore. All that was left of me was an empty shell. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
You don\u2019t need empty shells. You need someone\u2019s energy to feed off of. And I didn\u2019t have it anymore.<\/p>\n
Now, it\u2019s her turn to feed you and to become a simple outline of the beautiful woman she was before.<\/p>\n
Ma sapete una cosa? Ho riempito la mia sagoma. Ho riempito il mio schizzo con bei colori. Mentre continuavo a vivere la mia vita senza di te, ho aggiunto i colori uno per uno.<\/p>\n
Dopo qualche tempo, ho terminato la mia opera d'arte. Ho finito il mio capolavoro. Ho finito me stesso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Vedi anche: <\/strong>Come superare il narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n![\"Lettera](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Narcissist-Who-Destroyed-Me-pinterest.jpg\")
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Dear \u201cYou\u201d , I don\u2019t even want to give you a name. You don\u2019t deserve one. You will be referred to as \u201cYou\u201d and that\u2019s the kindest thing I could have ever said to you. This impersonal, cold, distant pronoun. You don\u2019t deserve anything better. How are \u201cYou\u201d ? Is the sun still shining brightly…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":76674,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6109","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Narcissist-Who-Destroyed-Me-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6109","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6109"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6109\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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