{"id":61653,"date":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61653"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","slug":"non-osare-tornare-nella-mia-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-osare-tornare-nella-mia-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"Non osare tornare nella mia vita come se non fossi mai scomparsa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chi credi di essere? Chi ti ha dato il diritto di entrare e uscire dalla mia vita, come se fosse tua?<\/p>\n<p>Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-intelligenti-da-fare-dopo-essere-stati-ghosted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mi ha fatto da fantasma<\/a>senza mai darmi una spiegazione adeguata.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che mi ha scaricato senza chiudere e che mi ha lasciato a cercare delle risposte da solo.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who vanished out of my life, without the decency to break up with me in person.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che era troppo codardo per affrontarmi e che ha scelto di sparire, senza pensare alle conseguenze.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-adult-man.jpg\" alt=\"uomo adulto barbuto che guarda fuori attraverso una finestra rotonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t push you away from me, I didn\u2019t ask for a break and nor did I abandon you. Instead, I just let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, quale sembra essere il problema ora?<\/strong> Now, when I\u2019m just one step away from full recovery?<\/p>\n<p>Dovresti vergognarti troppo anche solo per provare a riapparire nella mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Come puoi guardarmi negli occhi e chiedermi di farti rientrare, dopo tutto quello che hai fatto?<\/p>\n<p>Sentivi che ti avevo quasi dimenticato e hai deciso di rovinarmi tutto? Sentivi che mi stavi perdendo per sempre e sei tornato per evitare che ci\u00f2 accadesse?<\/p>\n<p>What do you want from me now? Haven\u2019t you hurt me enough?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61656\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-desperate-man.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo disperato che si mette la mano in fronte vicino al porto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t you stick to your decisions? Be man enough and leave me alone. After all, that\u2019s exactly what you did the last time!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hate to break it to you but unlike you, I have strength of character. Once upon a time, I told you that you wouldn\u2019t get any second chances with me.<\/p>\n<p>I know better than to allow you to break my heart once again. I\u2019m wiser than to trust a douchebag like you.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, I\u2019ll be the one who is standing behind her words. I swear\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/era-tutto-a-posto-ma-non-ti-rivoglio-nella-mia-vita\/\">I\u2019m not letting you back into my life<\/a>, even if it\u2019s the last thing I do.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this has nothing to do with the emotions I might have for you. So, don\u2019t dare try to accuse me of never loving you enough just because I don\u2019t allow you to treat me like a piece of garbage.<\/p>\n<p>You see, I\u2019m not your second choice, your safety net or an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sono-ufficialmente-stanco\/?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=im-officially-tired\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ripensamento<\/a>. I\u2019m not someone you can come to when everyone else abandons you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo seduto alla finestra con un&#039;immagine cupa delle nuvole viste attraverso le finestre\" width=\"800\" height=\"514\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will put her life on hold, patiently waiting for you to come back. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-mendichera-scegliera-meritera\/\">Non una persona che vi implorer\u00e0 di scegliere lei<\/a> e di certo non qualcuno che vi dar\u00e0 infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not the type of woman who will put up with your crap, as long as she has you by her side. Not someone who will allow you to treat her the way you want, just so you wouldn\u2019t leave her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will give you the green light to keep on hurting her. A girl who will always keep her door and arms wide open for you, despite the way you treat her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not someone who will settle for breadcrumbs of your love and attention. Not someone you can play your little mind games with.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014I\u2019m no longer the girl who loved you more than she loves herself. What a shock, right?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-on-walkway.jpg\" alt=\"uomo seduto sulla passerella tra le colonne gialle e l&#039;edificio grigio in acciaio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Well, from now on, I\u2019m putting myself first. I\u2019m done wasting my time and energy on people who don\u2019t deserve it and on relationships that are doomed to fail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorry but I refuse to serve you as an ego booster, as proof that somewhere you\u2019re still loved and wanted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi rifiuto di servirti come piano di riserva, come persona a cui rivolgersi quando tutto il resto \u00e8 andato in pezzi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you something: I\u2019m worth much more than your deceptions. I will not allow you to play with me or to drag me into an endless circle of break-ups and make-ups.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t give a damn about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/basta-con-le-parole-dolci-e-le-promesse-vuote-voglio-onesta-e-impegno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">false promesse<\/a>, empty excuses and phoney apologies. You\u2019re too late!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61678\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-You-Dare-Coming-Back-Into-My-Life-Like-You-Never-Disappeared-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non osare tornare nella mia vita come se non fossi mai scomparso Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who do you think you are? Who gave you the right to march in and out of my life, like you own it? Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us. You\u2019re the one who ghosted me, without ever giving me a proper explanation&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61653"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61653"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61653"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61653"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}