{"id":61757,"date":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61757"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","slug":"se-il-vostro-impegno-non-e-sufficiente-allora-lo-state-sprecando-per-luomo-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-il-vostro-impegno-non-e-sufficiente-allora-lo-state-sprecando-per-luomo-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Se il vostro impegno non \u00e8 sufficiente, allora probabilmente lo state sprecando con l'uomo sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/self-love\/girl-power\/alla-ragazza-con-lanima-stanca-e-arrivato-il-momento-di-salvarti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">la tua anima \u00e8 stanca<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried hard to make him love you, you\u2019ve done your best to make your relationship work, and that\u2019s made you feel like you aren&#8217;t good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Your feelings are selfless and he\u2019s only been selfish. You worry more about him than about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>He is all that&#8217;s important in your life. But unfortunately, you don&#8217;t get the same feeling from his side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sideview-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una donna che prega chiudendo gli occhi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You constantly feel that you don&#8217;t deserve him because everything you do is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete capire che se \u00e8 vero amore, se \u00e8 la vostra anima gemella, allora anche le pi\u00f9 piccole cose che fate saranno giuste per lui.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll appreciate your effort more than those gestures.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been waiting for him to change far too long. You are somehow still sure that he loves you and that it will make him change for you \u2013 make him be a better person for you.<\/p>\n<p>He isn&#8217;t changing. He\u2019s only there because he knows that he can control you and you&#8217;ll do everything he asks you to do because you want to stay with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/focus-photo-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto a fuoco di una donna con i capelli che coprono met\u00e0 del viso in scala di grigi\" width=\"800\" height=\"510\"><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll use your love only to feed his own ego, which is already inflated. And you&#8217;ll be left with low self-esteem issues.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s become the center of your life and now everything is about him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve lost your friends because of him. You\u2019ve even distanced yourself from your family. People who were always there for you. People who were your biggest support in life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve distanced yourself from everyone who tried to tell you <em>that man isn&#8217;t for you<\/em>. Perch\u00e9 pensavate che volessero solo separarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Do you believe them now? Do you see that everything they\u2019ve been telling you about him all this time is true?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che discutono vicino alle tende grigie e beige\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried so hard to make his family accept you and to get them to like you. And they have. They see how kind and good a woman you are.<\/p>\n<p>Quante volte avete fatto progetti per il fine settimana o organizzato una cena romantica, solo che lui vi ha mollato per uscire con i suoi amici? Non fareste mai una cosa del genere a lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 l'unica persona con cui puoi aprirti, ma non ha mai tempo per ascoltarti. Quante volte hai pianto fino ad addormentarti a causa delle sue azioni?<\/p>\n<p>Quante volte vi siete truccate la mattina dopo e avete fatto finta di niente?<\/p>\n<p>You are missing some great things that will be so much better for you. Maybe you are missing the one who&#8217;ll love you like he never did. Who will love and appreciate everything you do for him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-desk.jpg\" alt=\"donna alla scrivania che espone occhiali e lapto\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Great things are waiting for you and all you have to do is to let go of him. Let go of that wrong man who\u2019s proven to you so many times that he isn&#8217;t your destiny.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La vostra vita \u00e8 un libro e voi siete l'unico autore. Considerate questa relazione come una delle vostre pi\u00f9 grandi lezioni di vita. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Name that lesson \u201cWhat love should never feel like\u201d and close that chapter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fidatevi di me che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-segni-che-siete-troppo-buoni-per-lui-e-che-non-vi-merita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sei abbastanza bravo<\/a>. Tu sei migliore di cos\u00ec. \u00c8 un uomo cieco e niente di quello che farai gli far\u00e0 capire che tipo di donna ha al suo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>Until he loses you. Then he&#8217;ll understand. Then he&#8217;ll regret it. Then he&#8217;ll wish to turn back time and undo all those lousy things he put you through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-in-couch.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste in divano con top scuro e mano sulla fronte\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Every second of your life is precious, so please stop wasting it on the wrong man. You&#8217;ll only lose yourself that way.<\/p>\n<p>And there is nothing worse than that. To lose yourself in love. To lose yourself for someone who didn&#8217;t deserve you in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to pick yourself up after that. It&#8217;s hard to learn to love yourself again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fate la scelta giusta. Smettete di sprecare il vostro tempo prezioso. Per favore, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ricominciare-e-amare-se-stessi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">scegliete voi stessi per una volta<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ll see how beautiful life can be without him. His absence will bring back colors to your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IF-YOUR-ALL-ISN\u2019T-ENOUGH-THEN-YOU\u2019RE-PROBABLY-WASTING-IT-ON-THE-WRONG-MAN-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"SE IL TUO IMPEGNO NON \u00c8 SUFFICIENTE, PROBABILMENTE LO STAI SPRECANDO CON L&#039;UOMO SBAGLIATO PINTEREST\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now your soul is tired. You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color. You\u2019ve tried hard to make him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61757"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}