{"id":61929,"date":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61929"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","slug":"segni-che-stai-vivendo-con-una-lesbica-clandestina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-stai-vivendo-con-una-lesbica-clandestina\/","title":{"rendered":"Moglie lesbica: 10 segni rivelatori di una convivenza con una lesbica clandestina"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi siete sposati con una ragazza che sembrava perfetta per voi. L'amavate con tutto il cuore e anche lei sembrava davvero innamorata di voi!<\/p>\n

But lately, you’ve started to seriously doubt her sexual orientation. So\u2026 What happened?<\/p>\n

Per quanto sia imbarazzante anche solo pensare a se stessi ”My lesbian wife is in love with another woman… What do I do?’<\/em>‘, it’s a brutal reality many men face.<\/p>\n

La invito caldamente a continuare a leggere e a scoprire tutti i segni rivelatori che indicano che sua moglie \u00e8 una lesbica clandestina.<\/p>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

It sucks to think that only last year you were planning a beautiful ceremony with your future wife, and now, you’re struggling with thoughts like ”My wife’s a lesbian, how could I not see the signs?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Sometimes, people who identify as queers just aren’t ready to admit it to themselves, let alone anyone else.<\/p>\n

Per fare coming out ci vuole molto coraggio e, in quanto lesbica non dichiarata, probabilmente sua moglie stava cercando di capire tutto.<\/p>\n

I’m sure it wasn’t her intention to hurt you by having a lesbian lover (who just happens to be her best friend) but a person’s sexuality is a very complex issue and some people just take longer to realize their true selves.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Perch\u00e9 non riesco a trovare l'amore? 10 problemi che vi impediscono di trovare l'uomo giusto<\/a><\/p>\n

Come comportarsi con mia moglie lesbica?<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Per prima cosa, dovete essere sicuri che vostra moglie sia effettivamente un membro di la comunit\u00e0 LGBT<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even if you’ve known her since high school, there are things people keep hidden until they’re ready to share them with the world.<\/p>\n

Per amore di trasparenza, anche il mio primo ragazzo si \u00e8 rivelato gay.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d been together for quite some time and not until I saw suspicious things on his Facebook page and our sex life became an issue did I start seeing the signs.<\/p>\n

It’s confusing, painful, and draining. As much as you want to understand it and be okay with it, you’re just so mad and heartbroken, and I want you to know that’s perfectly okay.<\/p>\n

Nobody teaches you how to deal with these things. There’s no rulebook on how to deal with such intimate and complex issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma l'importante \u00e8 che tu sappia che non si tratta di una decisione presa da tua moglie per ferirti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Se un tempo la situazione a casa era ideale, credete che lo fosse davvero.<\/p>\n

People who hide their true sexual orientation are confused and ashamed, which propels them to live a life they so deeply want to be true. But it’s not.<\/p>\n

Tutti hanno il diritto di essere se stessi in modo autentico, per quanto sia difficile accettarlo e abbracciarlo.<\/p>\n

Se avete il sospetto che vostra moglie possa essere gay, i segnali che seguono vi aiuteranno a fare chiarezza.<\/p>\n

Whatever you find out, please be kind and respectful. As painful as this is for you, can you even imagine what it’s like for your wife?<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 10 differenze cruciali tra amore e infatuazione<\/a><\/p>\n

10 segnali rivelatori che tua moglie \u00e8 gay<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Questi segnali vi faranno scoprire la verit\u00e0 su vostra moglie e vi aiuteranno a capire la vostra prossima mossa.<\/p>\n

Spero che questo vi porti un po' di chiarezza e di pace, qualunque sia il risultato.<\/p>\n

Instead of wondering why she didn’t tell you this before she married you, focus on helping her navigate this new reality.<\/p>\n

1. She’s the decision-maker in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

While this all on its own isn’t a reason enough to panic, it’s still one of many elements a lesbian wife would possess.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 assertiva e forte? Prende tutte le decisioni importanti?<\/p>\n

Be honest\u2026 who wears the pants in your relationship? If your wife’s indeed a closet lesbian, she probably tends to do things her way (or no way).<\/p>\n

She doesn’t easily let you have any control nor does she fully trust your judgment.<\/p>\n

In definitiva, non accetta un no come risposta e spesso ci si chiede quale sia il proprio ruolo nel matrimonio.<\/p>\n

If this is so, keep reading, as you’ll likely recognize yourself in plenty more of these signs.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn’t care about being girly<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Your wife probably isn’t one to take up the bathroom for two hours while getting all dolled up for a night out.<\/p>\n

She’s much more chill. At home, she usually wears comfy sweats and when you go out, she takes ten minutes to get ready.<\/p>\n

She’s a girl, but she doesn’t really act girly at all. Most of the girls you know are obsessed with their looks, but not her.<\/p>\n

Anche ai tempi del liceo, non si era mai preoccupata di queste cose femminili, non era nel suo stile.<\/p>\n

E se ci pensi, quello \u00e8 stato il tuo primo segno (ma allora era la cosa pi\u00f9 lontana dalla tua mente).<\/p>\n

I hope as you’re reading this now, things are finally starting to make sense and you see that this is something your wife has been carrying for a long, long time.<\/p>\n

3. Le piace portare i capelli corti e disordinati<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Again, all by itself, it’s not a major concern, but mixed with all the other signs, you’ve got a reason to be alarmed.<\/p>\n

Sua moglie non \u00e8 mai stata una fan dei capelli lunghi. Non li ha mai avuti n\u00e9 ha voglia di mantenerli.<\/p>\n

It’s too much of a hassle. Short hair is her thing!<\/p>\n

Lo stile di Bieber \u00e8 sempre stato molto popolare tra i queer.<\/p>\n

If your wife has sported this do at any point in your marriage (maybe even now?) I’m sorry to say, but it\u2019s very likely she\u2019s not straight, as much as you want her to be.<\/p>\n

But hey, it’s better to see the signs now, before things go too far and everything becomes even more complex.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come dimenticare qualcuno: La guida definitiva per andare avanti<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Il suo linguaggio corporeo \u00e8 un indizio inequivocabile<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

A person’s body language will tell you more about them than words ever will.<\/p>\n

Even before you got married, she was never one to be delicate and gentle. She sat the way she wanted to and ate with no shame about who’s looking.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t politely cross her legs when you’re out and she’s always been a bit masculine when it comes to her movements.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che questo era ci\u00f2 che ti attirava a lei.<\/p>\n

Ti piaceva che fosse come uno dei ragazzi, che ti prendesse scherzosamente a pugni il braccio e che preferisse argomenti maschili a quelli femminili.<\/p>\n

Questo significava che potevi parlarle di tutte le cose che ti interessavano.<\/p>\n

But now, you’re starting to see that these were all huge red flags you’re only now starting to see for what they really are.<\/p>\n

5. She’s not into chick flicks<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Anche in questo caso, adoravi questo aspetto di lei! Tutte le altre ragazze con cui uscivi ti facevano assistere ai film pi\u00f9 insopportabilmente smielati che ti facevano rabbrividire. Ma non tua moglie!<\/p>\n

She dislikes them even more than you do (if possible). She can’t stand watching all those unrealistic romantic movie moments in the rain and seeing people embrace each other despite all odds.<\/p>\n

She’s much more into action thrillers and laugh-out-loud comedies.<\/p>\n

While this made for really fun date nights for you, it’s also a sign that you should worry about who you married.<\/p>\n

It might be fun in this regard, but it’s time to burst your bubble and come back to reality.<\/p>\n

If you can’t even make her watch one moderately cheesy movie on Netflix, isn’t it time to start questioning things?<\/p>\n

6. She can’t stand the thought of having a mani-pedi<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Lesbians aren’t as interested in having nail art as straight people are.<\/p>\n

They just don’t give a shit about having decorated, long nails. It’s annoying and unnecessary.<\/p>\n

She may have fooled you by saying that she can’t have long nails (as much as she ”wants to”) because they’re inconvenient for her work, the truth is something completely different.<\/p>\n

Short nails are much more suitable for lesbians (you can imagine why) and they simply aren’t as bothered with having the most artistic nails (especially not on their feet). Who has time for that?<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Amore all'universit\u00e0: 17 consigli per far funzionare le cose<\/a><\/p>\n

7. She’s always been one of the boys<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Upon seeing all these signs, I bet you’re wondering how the hell you didn’t connect the dots before, right?<\/p>\n

A volte ci vuole un po' di tempo prima che si vogliano vedere i segni.<\/p>\n

Chances are, you’ve probably wondered about these things before, but you just never allowed yourself to give it any serious thought.<\/p>\n

Ma s\u00ec, sua moglie \u00e8 sempre stata una dei ragazzi. Non \u00e8 mai stata la persona pi\u00f9 femminile, la sua risata \u00e8 sempre stata forte e strana e non le \u00e8 mai importato di vestirsi in modo elegante.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 sempre stata pi\u00f9 a suo agio a frequentare un gruppo di uomini, il che era una boccata d'aria fresca quando uscivate insieme.<\/p>\n

But now, it’s all starting to become way too real.<\/p>\n

8. Ti ha raccontato di aver fatto esperimenti al college<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Ma tutti lo fanno, giusto? Inoltre, il pensiero di lei che se la fa con un'altra donna ti ha fatto eccitare da morire!<\/p>\n

Era cos\u00ec eccitante immaginare che tua moglie baciasse altre ragazze. Non aveva mai pensato che fosse un segno di qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Ma ora, facendo una passeggiata lungo il viale dei ricordi, vi accorgete che era tutto l\u00ec davanti a voi. Volevate solo ignorarlo.<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 la tua ragazza, la tua roccia e la tua partner nel crimine. E non \u00e8 chi pensavi che fosse.<\/p>\n

Ma perch\u00e9 ti avrebbe sposato se sapeva di essere gay?<\/p>\n

That’s the thing. She didn’t really know it. People experiment and over time, they start realizing who they really are.<\/p>\n

Sua moglie ha solo impiegato un po' di tempo in pi\u00f9 per permettersi di vivere il suo essere autentico.<\/p>\n

9. Ama essere civettuola con le altre donne<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

Ma avete pensato che tutte le ragazze sono cos\u00ec. Deve essere una sorta di codice femminile, giusto?<\/p>\n

Donne che sostengono le donne, e tu amavi il fatto che tua moglie fosse tutta una questione di girl power.<\/p>\n

Spesso si guardava negli occhi con altre ragazze nei club (cos\u00ec sexy, vero).<\/p>\n

Lei ha sempre si complimenta con le sue amiche donne<\/a> on their looks (she’s such a good friend).<\/p>\n

She never notices hot guys walking by, but there isn’t a hot girl that doesn’t catch her attention (and you often join her!)<\/p>\n

All those things that made you think you had the coolest, most understanding, girl-empowering wife are actually signs of a deeply hidden secret she simply wasn’t ready to dig out.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 12 motivi per cui il vostro secondo amore \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 bello di tutti<\/a><\/p>\n

10. La vostra vita sessuale \u00e8 diventata stantia<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

And now you know why, right? If anything, at least you know it’s not you!<\/p>\n

I know this doesn’t make you feel better, but it’s better to be faced with the truth than to keep hoping it’ll work out (which it really won’t).<\/p>\n

Your wife is a lesbian. This is going to take some serious getting used to, so don’t feel bad for needing time to gather your thoughts.<\/p>\n

Scegliete il momento migliore per parlare con vostra moglie e cercate di essere rispettosi nel chiedere risposte.<\/p>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Forse voi avete capito tutto, ma forse lei ha ancora bisogno di tempo per fare i conti con la sua realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

She’s the one who married someone outside her sexual orientation. If you’re in pain, she’s probably devastated.<\/p>\n

It’s up to you what happens next. Be kind and gentle, and give her the time and respect she deserves.<\/p>\n

She may be gay, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s got nothing but love for you.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 15 segni di attrazione femminile per le donne<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Le conseguenze<\/h2>\n

\"Schiena<\/p>\n

Non esiste un momento giusto per scoprire che il proprio partner \u00e8 gay. Non c'\u00e8 un modo giusto o sbagliato di sentirsi al riguardo.<\/p>\n

There’s just the brutal reality and coping with this unimaginable situation.<\/p>\n

Sua moglie \u00e8 sempre sua moglie. Forse non \u00e8 innamorata di te dal punto di vista sentimentale, ma ti ama ancora profondamente.<\/p>\n

Ricordatelo prima di fare o dire qualcosa di cui potreste pentirvi.<\/p>\n

You love this person and there’s a reason why you married her. Give her a chance to tell you her side of the story, and at her own pace.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be glad you did it the right way.<\/p>\n

In questo momento, fa un male cane e la vostra vita sembra una totale farsa.<\/p>\n

But sometime down the line, I promise things will look up again, and eventually, you’ll find your happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

Dopo ogni tempesta c'\u00e8 un arcobaleno! (E nella vostra situazione, in pi\u00f9 di un modo).<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Una raccolta di citazioni sulle rotture per guarire il cuore spezzato<\/a><\/p>\n

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