{"id":61991,"date":"2020-04-13T09:53:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T09:53:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61991"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:47:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:47:19","slug":"non-andrai-mai-avanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-andrai-mai-avanti\/","title":{"rendered":"Potete lasciarlo andare, ma senza perdono non riuscirete mai ad andare avanti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da quando lei e il suo ex vi siete lasciati, ha fatto tutto ci\u00f2 che era in suo potere per buttarlo fuori dal suo sistema.<\/p>\n

You played by the rules\u2014you went no contact, cut all possible ties with him, blocked him everywhere.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014you even stopped talking about him to your friends, you stopped mentioning his name or listening to songs that remind you of him.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You did everything by the book. You didn\u2019t repress your emotions, you grieved and allowed your heart to heal.<\/p>\n

You followed every piece of advice you could find. You didn\u2019t jump into new rebound relationships but you didn\u2019t put your guard up either.<\/p>\n

Hai smesso di aspettarti di ritornare<\/span><\/a>. Hai ucciso tutte le speranze che voi due possiate risolvere le cose.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non sei nemmeno alla ricerca di una chiusura<\/span><\/a>. You accepted that it\u2019s the end and don\u2019t obsess over all the could-have- and should-have-beens.<\/p>\n

Sembra impressionante, vero? It seems that you let go of this man and that you\u2019re completely cured<\/strong>. Almeno, \u00e8 cos\u00ec che dovrebbero essere le cose.<\/p>\n

However, somehow, you are not getting the desired result. One thing is for sure\u2014you don\u2019t love him anymore.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you know what\u2019s the problem?<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Lo odi ancora<\/strong>. You want to get even and you hope that he\u2019ll suffer the same way you did.<\/p>\n

This hatred is eating you alive. It\u2019s overwhelming you the same way your love for him did.<\/strong>After all, it doesn\u2019t really matter what you feel for this guy; the point is that you\u2019re not indifferent toward him.<\/p>\n

Il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che amarlo e odiarlo \u00e8 la stessa cosa e ha lo stesso effetto. In entrambi i casi, egli \u00e8 presente nella vostra mente e nel vostro cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In both cases, he still exists inside of you even though he is out of your life physically. Either way, you\u2019re overwhelmed by thoughts of him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not trying to make you feel guilty about this. Who could blame you for feeling this way, after everything this jerk put you through?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just here to ask you to forgive him because it\u2019s the only way for you to truly move on<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to forget everything he\u2019s done but you must find the strength to get rid of this bitterness that\u2019s been killing you.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real here\u2014you\u2019re not harming your ex in any way by staying angry at him. This man doesn\u2019t have a conscience and he couldn\u2019t care less about the way you feel.<\/p>\n

He is not ashamed of what he\u2019s done to you. In fact, he is probably out there, looking for his next victim whose life he is about to destroy.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Pertanto, l'unica persona che state ferendo con questo odio \u00e8 voi stessi. L'unico a subire le conseguenze di questo pesante rancore siete voi.<\/p>\n

Significa che indirettamente, quest'uomo controlla ancora la tua vita.<\/strong> Vuol dire che ha ancora un modo per rendervi infelici e miserabili, senza che lui muova un dito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quindi, in pratica, ha vinto, giusto? He\u2019s proven that he is so powerful that he has the ability to be present in you after so much time that he\u2019s been physically absent from your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the only way to remove him forever is to forgive him. It\u2019s to lasciarsi andare<\/b><\/a> dell'odio, della rabbia e del risentimento nello stesso modo in cui avete lasciato andare lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, forgiving him doesn\u2019t equate to giving him a second chance. It doesn\u2019t mean applauding him for his misdeeds and it\u2019s not the green light for him to come back into your life.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Perdonare chi vi ha fatto del male significa liberarsi del suo impatto una volta per tutte. Significa lasciar andare la negativit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Solo quando riuscirete a perdonarlo sarete liberi. Solo allora ogni emozione che provate per lui svanir\u00e0 completamente.<\/p>\n

Solo allora vi purificherete dalla sua tossicit\u00e0. Solo allora uscirete dalla gabbia in cui vi ha messo.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014Solo una volta che lo avrete perdonato davvero, potrete andare avanti con la vostra vita e lasciarvi il passato alle spalle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Potete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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