{"id":62022,"date":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","slug":"scegliere-sempre-di-perdere-un-uomo-piuttosto-che-perdere-la-testa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/scegliere-sempre-di-perdere-un-uomo-piuttosto-che-perdere-la-testa\/","title":{"rendered":"Scegliere sempre di perdere un uomo piuttosto che perdere la ragione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>sapete cosa \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 importante? Il rapporto che avete con voi stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che mostra il segno della pace\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-showing-peace-sign-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la relazione che deve essere sana, di successo e appagante se si vuole anche solo pensare al romanticismo.<\/p>\n<p>Allora, perch\u00e9 continuate a mettere il vostro uomo davanti a voi stesse e per quanto tempo pensate di continuare a farlo?<\/p>\n<p>So che lei si considera <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/things-define-tough-girl\/\">duro<\/a>. You\u2019re strong and, at first glance, it appears that you\u2019re handling this awful situation you got yourself dragged into surprisingly well.<\/p>\n<p>In qualche modo riuscite a gestire tutte le rotture e i riappacificamenti.<\/p>\n<p>You keep your head above the surface despite all the insults, arguments, and toxicity. But let\u2019s be real.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t go on like this forever. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll see the damage all of this is leaving on you and you\u2019ll start feeling the consequences of this hell you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62030 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che si guarda allo specchio di casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-looking-at-her-self-in-mirror-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, ask yourself if it\u2019s really worth it. <strong>Tenere un ragazzo vale la pena di perdere la testa?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, there will be plenty of men in your life, even though you probably don\u2019t think that way now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prima o poi dimenticherete quest'uomo e inizierete ad amare un altro con la stessa intensit\u00e0 con cui avete amato lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, non si pu\u00f2 mai sostituire se stessi.<\/strong> Time will do its trick and heal your broken heart. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll stop missing this guy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But you can\u2019t find a new woman to live your life, once you lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vi prometto una cosa:<strong> You can make it without anyone, including this guy. But you can\u2019t make it without yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62028 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di donna bionda sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-blond-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/self-love\/girl-power\/date-a-girl-who-wants-you-but-doesnt-need-you\/\">you don\u2019t need him<\/a> \u2013 you chose to give him a place in your heart \u2013 but you do need yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Sopravviverete anche se lo lascerete andare, anche se in questo momento le cose potrebbero non sembrare cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>So che in questo momento vuoi tenere quest'uomo al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just for him to remain in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, invece di farlo, per cambiare, concentratevi sul mantenimento della vostra sanit\u00e0 mentale. Concentratevi sul mantenimento della vostra salute mentale ed emotiva.<\/p>\n<p>Concentratevi sulla vostra felicit\u00e0 e considerate la vostra pace interiore come la priorit\u00e0 numero uno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62029 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di giovane donna sorridente con capelli ricci\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-young-smiling-woman-with-curly-hair-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per favore,<strong> essere abbastanza intelligenti da scegliere di perdere un uomo piuttosto che perdere la testa. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Trust me, nobody \u2013 and especially not someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you \u2013 is worth you going crazy over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 esattamente cos\u00ec che andranno le cose se rimarrete intrappolati in questo circolo senza fine.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what will happen if you stay in this toxic relationship, full of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and constant fights.<\/p>\n<p>Lo sai,<strong> if it happens, he won\u2019t stick around to help you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be there to give you a hand or pull you out of your darkness.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62033 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sdraiata sul letto l&#039;una di fronte all&#039;altra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-bed-oppoite-of-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t put an effort into fixing your heart, even though he\u2019s the one who broke it.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be there to glue you back together, even though he\u2019s the one who crushed you.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t have your back to catch you when you start falling.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t stand by your side to help you heal, even though he is the one who destroyed you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He won\u2019t be there to bring you back to life, even though he\u2019s the one who spiritually killed you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, this man will be gone and you\u2019ll be left all alone to fight with your demons and traumas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62034 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna depressa a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-young-woman-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t just lose precious years of your life, you\u2019ll also have to deal with depression, insecurities, and anxiety, which is much worse.<\/p>\n<p>Sooner than you might think, you\u2019ll look around and see that the girl you used to be is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll be replaced by a negative and bitter woman who\u2019ll need ages to fully recover from everything she\u2019s been through.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, per favore, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/self-love\/girl-power\/alla-ragazza-con-lanima-stanca-e-arrivato-il-momento-di-salvarti\/\">salvare se stessi<\/a> on time. Ditch his sorry ass and pull yourself out of this misery before it\u2019s too late to be sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-62040 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Scegliere sempre di perdere un uomo piuttosto che perdere la ragione\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back. It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":62026,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-A-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62026"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}