{"id":62245,"date":"2020-04-13T18:16:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T18:16:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62245"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:39:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:39:54","slug":"lascia-un-uomo-che-non-ti-merita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lascia-un-uomo-che-non-ti-merita\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come si lascia un uomo che non ti merita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Almost every girl has been crazy in love with a man who didn&#8217;t deserve her. And, we\u2019ve all had a man who didn&#8217;t treat us well but we loved him blindly, anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving that man is probably the hardest thing you\u2019ll do, even though you clearly know that he is going to hurt you someday for sure if you don&#8217;t end it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio pensavate che il vostro amore lo avrebbe cambiato. Gli avete dimostrato ogni giorno quanto fosse importante per voi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-si-puo-cambiare-luomo-amando-di-piu\/\">Lo amavi ogni giorno di pi\u00f9<\/a>. Volevate disperatamente che funzionasse.<\/p>\n<p>You really hoped that he&#8217;d realize that no one will ever love him the way you did and that would make him change and appreciate you more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62257 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You hoped that for your anniversary he&#8217;d get you something special, maybe even an engagement ring. But that didn&#8217;t happen.<\/p>\n<p>He didn&#8217;t get you anything because he forgot.He has failed you again. You&#8217;ve even stopped counting how many times he failed you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life can be so unfair sometimes. A person whom you love completely and for whom you would give your life doesn&#8217;t give a damn about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Leaving him may seem like the hardest thing for you to do right now, but you&#8217;ll realize one day that it was the best decision you ever made.<\/p>\n<p>Here is how you&#8217;ll finally leave a man like that and leave him in the past once and for all.<\/p>\n<h2>Parlare onestamente con se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62258 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-woman-in-hat.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna con cappello\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-woman-in-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-woman-in-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-woman-in-hat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The most important thing is that you have to be true to yourself. Admitting that he doesn&#8217;t deserve you is the first and the hardest step.<\/p>\n<p>Devi essere consapevole di quanto sei coraggiosa. Puoi lasciarlo. Potete continuare la vostra vita. Un giorno, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-come-ci-si-sente-quando-si-trova-lamore-che-si-merita\/\">you&#8217;ll meet someone who will treat you the way you deserve.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Lavorare sulla propria autostima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62260 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-closing-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna che chiude gli occhi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-closing-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-closing-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-closing-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His behavior has affected your self-esteem. He\u2019s made you believe that you don&#8217;t deserve to be treated respectfully and that you don&#8217;t deserve love at all.<\/p>\n<p>Now it&#8217;s time to improve your self-esteem. You have to know that you are worthy of everything and that every other man would be more than happy to have a girl like you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La persona allo specchio \u00e8 la vostra migliore amica. Parlate con lei. Fatele dei complimenti. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Comment on her looks and give her fashion advice whenever she&#8217;s getting ready to go out.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ditele quanto \u00e8 bella. E quando piange a causa di lui, ditele che nessun uomo \u00e8 degno delle sue lacrime e che non vale certo la pena di rovinarsi il mascara.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Prendetevi un po' di tempo da soli<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62261 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-head-wearing-white-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna che tiene la testa e indossa un top bianco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-head-wearing-white-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-head-wearing-white-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-head-wearing-white-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have to be alone with your thoughts. You are aware that he doesn&#8217;t deserve you and you know that you should leave him.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s easier said than done, right?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t listen to other people and their advice. You shouldn&#8217;t even listen to your friends and family.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s your life and you are the only one who can make the decision.<\/p>\n<p>Prendete un paio di giorni di pausa dal lavoro e andate in un posto dove potete stare completamente soli.<\/p>\n<p>Un luogo dove poter pensare a tutto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62262 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-leaves.jpg\" alt=\"donna in foglie verdi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-leaves.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-leaves-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-leaves-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bring all the photos you have of you two. Turn off your phone and don&#8217;t answer it for anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che questo \u00e8 il vostro tempo libero, il tempo per prendere la decisione finale.<\/p>\n<p>Guardate al passato. Quante volte avete pianto fino ad addormentarvi per colpa sua?<\/p>\n<p>Quante volte vi ha rovinato la serata perch\u00e9 doveva flirtare con altre ragazze?<\/p>\n<p>Ha mai fatto qualcosa di folle solo per dimostrarvi quanto vi ama? Ha mai dimostrato che siete la sua priorit\u00e0 assoluta?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pensate a tutte queste cose. Soppesate gli aspetti positivi e negativi della vostra relazione. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Prendete la decisione finale. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ricominciare-e-amare-se-stessi\/\">Scegliete di amare di nuovo voi stessi.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Pensate al vostro futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62263 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sull&#039;erba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now that you&#8217;re done with thinking about the past, take a look at your future.<\/p>\n<p>Immaginate quanto sarebbe bello se poteste finalmente fare tutte quelle cose che vi ha proibito di fare.<\/p>\n<p>To wear all those dresses he didn&#8217;t like to see on you because he thought you were wearing them to seduce other men.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re an intelligent and successful woman. Focus on your job. Work on yourself. Go out with your friends.<\/p>\n<p>Travel &#8211; because it was your favorite thing to do, but he wasn&#8217;t a fan of traveling so you didn&#8217;t do it while you were dating.<\/p>\n<p>Think about all those things you\u2019ve always wanted to do but he didn&#8217;t like them or didn&#8217;t allow you to do them.<\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve broken up with him, you&#8217;ll be able to enjoy all those things.<\/p>\n<h2>Scrivetegli una lettera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62264 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-yellow-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top giallo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-yellow-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-yellow-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-yellow-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t mean that you&#8217;ll break with him via this letter. No. When the time comes, you&#8217;ll break with him in person.<\/p>\n<p>Writing a letter will help you to write down everything you\u2019ve felt over the years and everything he\u2019s made you feel with his actions.<\/p>\n<p>Sentitevi liberi di scrivere tutto ci\u00f2 che pensate possa aiutarvi a sentirvi meglio. Scrivete tutto quello che avevate paura di dirgli perch\u00e9 temevate che vi lasciasse.<\/p>\n<p>Scrivete quanto vi ha fatto sentire tristi ogni volta che ha dimenticato il vostro compleanno o il vostro anniversario.<\/p>\n<p>How awful you felt every time your friends sent you a text telling you that they\u2019d seen him with some girls at a club.<\/p>\n<p>Write down your deepest feelings. Write that you still love him, but that you&#8217;ve made the decision to love yourself more.<\/p>\n<p>E che l'amore che provate per lui non vi impedir\u00e0 pi\u00f9 di raggiungere i vostri sogni e obiettivi nella vita.<\/p>\n<h2>Sbarazzarsi delle sue cose<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62265 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-black-blazer.jpg\" alt=\"donna con blazer nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-black-blazer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-black-blazer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-black-blazer-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La maggior parte delle persone direbbe che dovreste restituirgli le sue cose e quelle che lui vi ha dato.<\/p>\n<p>But I say that you don&#8217;t have to take care of his stuff &#8211; just like he never cared about you.<\/p>\n<p>Getting rid of those things will be particularly difficult for you because that&#8217;s when you&#8217;ll understand that your relationship has come to an end.<\/p>\n<p>However, it&#8217;s something that you must do in order to properly move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, his stuff will only be a reminder of him and the past, and it\u2019ll be painful every time you see something that belongs to him.<\/p>\n<p>Mettete quelle cose in una scatola e buttatele via o, meglio ancora, bruciatele. Fate quello che vi fa pi\u00f9 piacere.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t force yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62266 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-brown-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna con camicia marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-brown-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-brown-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-brown-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve realized that he is wrong for you and that he doesn&#8217;t deserve you. I know that you want to break up with him and move on as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>There is no need to rush, though. You&#8217;ll move on but you need to give yourself time to heal properly first.<\/p>\n<p>You need time to think about everything so that you don&#8217;t let any man treat you less than you deserve ever again.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s opinions confuse you and make you break up with him before you&#8217;re ready to do it.<\/p>\n<p>You should take all the time you need to make it less painful for yourself. Even though he doesn&#8217;t deserve it, you love him.<\/p>\n<p>E questo \u00e8 qualcosa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-si-puo-costringere-se-stessi-a-smettere-di-preoccuparsi\/\">that can&#8217;t be changed overnight<\/a>Non importa quello che dicono gli altri. Fate un passo alla volta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62267 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-dress.jpg\" alt=\"donna con abito rosso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you break up with him before you&#8217;re ready, you&#8217;ll be the one who&#8217;s going to suffer.Love shouldn&#8217;t make us miserable.<\/p>\n<p>If it&#8217;s making you sad and if you&#8217;re doubting your partner&#8217;s feelings, then it&#8217;s not love. <strong>Il vero amore dovrebbe farvi sentire come in paradiso. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dovrebbe essere il vostro angelo, che vi incoraggia sempre a migliorare e non vi permette mai di sentirvi male con voi stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Always know your worth and don&#8217;t let anyone make you forget it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/self-love\/confidence\/stop-wasting-time-man-doesnt-deserve\/\">Don&#8217;t waste time on people that don&#8217;t deserve you<\/a> perch\u00e9 ogni secondo della vostra vita \u00e8 prezioso.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciare una persona che si ama, indipendentemente da come ci tratta, \u00e8 sempre difficile.<\/p>\n<p>But, it&#8217;s possible and it&#8217;s something you must do to leave space for something better to come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62268 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco come si lascia un uomo che non ti merita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Almost every girl has been crazy in love with a man who didn&#8217;t deserve her. And, we\u2019ve all had a man who didn&#8217;t treat us well but we loved him blindly, anyway. Leaving that man is probably the hardest thing you\u2019ll do, even though you clearly know that he is going to hurt you someday&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":62255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-How-You-Leave-A-Man-Who-Doesnt-Deserve-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62245\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}