{"id":62391,"date":"2020-04-16T10:58:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T10:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62391"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:06:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:06:44","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-gli-empatici-si-innamorano-sempre-del-potenziale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-gli-empatici-si-innamorano-sempre-del-potenziale\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui gli empatici si innamorano sempre del potenziale"},"content":{"rendered":"

Innamorarsi del potenziale di qualcuno significa idealizzare la persona che ci sta accanto.<\/p>\n

Significa non essere realistici su chi sono ora e concentrarsi su chi potrebbero diventare se raggiungessero la loro piena capacit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Significa aggrapparsi a ci\u00f2 che potrebbe e dovrebbe essere, invece di vedere e accettare la realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

However, sometimes it also means being blind to the present and putting all your hopes in the future \u2013 a future that may never pan out the way you imagined it.<\/p>\n

Tricky, right? Well, the truth is that many people out there do this: They love someone\u2019s potential instead of the actual person.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, gli empatici sono i campioni in questo caso. Commettono questo errore in quasi tutte le loro relazioni ed ecco 5 motivi per cui lo fanno.<\/p>\n

1. Vedono il meglio in ogni persona<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

The first reason why empaths have a habit to fall for someone\u2019s potential lies in the fact that they see the best in everyone surrounding them.<\/p>\n

Therefore, even if an empath meets a toxic person, somehow they\u2019ll manage to see their good sides.<\/p>\n

Anche se si innamorano di un narcisista, vedranno oltre i suoi difetti.<\/p>\n

Not only that, they\u2019ll also put a lot of effort into convincing themselves, the object of their affection, and everyone else that there is something good in this person.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll try hard to put the focus on their qualities.<\/p>\n

Sono le persone che hanno la tendenza a giustificare gli altri.<\/p>\n

Hanno la capacit\u00e0 di capirvi pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro, come se avessero camminato un miglio nelle vostre scarpe.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, riescono sempre a trovare scuse per tutti coloro che li circondano, soprattutto per quelli che amano.<\/p>\n

2. Attirano le persone che hanno bisogno di cure<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straightened out. It\u2019s not just an empath\u2019s fault when they happen to fall for someone\u2019s potential.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, queste storie d'amore, come tutte le altre, vanno sempre in entrambe le direzioni.<\/p>\n

Quando una persona \u00e8 danneggiata, chiede inconsciamente una mano.<\/p>\n

Even when they act like they don\u2019t need it, they will accept all the help they can get.<\/p>\n

\"Primo<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che accade in questo scenario: Le persone che hanno bisogno di essere riparate sono attratte dagli empatici.<\/p>\n

Broken people sense that the empath is one who won\u2019t judge them and the only one who will put an effort into getting to their core.<\/p>\n

So, when a damaged guy gets a hold of an empathic girl, he won\u2019t let her go easily. Instead, he\u2019ll stick to her with his life.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that this woman is the only one who can eventually help him see the light. He is aware that she is a once in a lifetime chance.<\/p>\n

3. Sono nati salvatori<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Another reason why empathic women fall for potential lies in the fact that they\u2019re born saviors.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an empath, you think of yourself as this superwoman who can make everything right.<\/p>\n

Sentite di avere il potere di aiutare chiunque incroci il vostro cammino.<\/p>\n

Not only that. For some reason, you think it\u2019s your duty on this earth to help lost souls reach their full capacity.<\/p>\n

You are convinced it\u2019s your job to show them the way and help them become the people they\u2019re destined to be.<\/p>\n

4. Desiderano il vero amore<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

You can be guarded and pretend to be heartless, but the truth is that deep down, we\u2019re all looking for love.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re fine with your single status at this point, but eventually, you hope to find your forever person, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Ebbene, gli empatici lo desiderano pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro. Desiderano un amore vero e incondizionato.<\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

So, once they meet someone they care for, they won\u2019t give up that special person.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, si batteranno per il loro caro, anche se ci\u00f2 significa accontentarsi di meno di quanto meritano.<\/p>\n

Vedete, quando un empatico raggiunge un punto in cui ogni altra persona si arrenderebbe, continua ad andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Spingono i loro partner ad andare avanti e credono di poter cambiare, anche quando tutti gli altri li abbandonerebbero.<\/p>\n

5. Non perdono mai la speranza<\/h2>\n

\"Mani<\/p>\n

Infine, gli empatici non perdono mai la speranza. Hanno una natura ottimista e sperano sempre nel meglio, anche quando tutto sembra senza speranza e perso.<\/p>\n

Un empatico vede il raggio di luce alla fine del tunnel, anche quando \u00e8 circondato dall'oscurit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 profonda.<\/p>\n

They will try pulling out the good in you and keep on inspiring you to become the best version of yourself, even when you lose all faith that it\u2019s even possible.<\/p>\n

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Falling in love with someone\u2019s potential means idealizing the person next to you. It means not being realistic about who they are now and focusing on who they might become if they reach their full capacity. It means holding on to what could and should be, instead of seeing and accepting reality. However, sometimes it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":62396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/5-reasons-empaths-always-fall-for-potential.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62391\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}