{"id":62454,"date":"2020-04-14T08:55:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T08:55:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62454"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:27:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:27:36","slug":"ostacoli-che-non-possono-essere-trascurati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ostacoli-che-non-possono-essere-trascurati\/","title":{"rendered":"33 Grandi ostacoli che non possono essere trascurati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Quando un partner si aspetta sempre che voi siate l\u00ec per lui ogni volta che ne ha bisogno, ma non pensa mai a fare lo stesso per voi. <strong>Dover chiedere tutto \u00e8 un vero e proprio rifiuto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>2. If they are unable to say they\u2019re sorry. If someone is unable to apologize when they do something wrong, it\u2019s childish and unattractive.<\/p>\n<p>3. Quando il partner sembra avere delle illusioni sulla propria personalit\u00e0. Si pensa a se stessi come a un tipo di persona, mentre in realt\u00e0 si \u00e8 completamente diversi.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>Quando parlano troppo di loro stessi e non ascoltano mai veramente le vostre storie o qualsiasi cosa abbiate da dire sulla vostra vita.<\/strong> When they don\u2019t let other people speak in general or show no interest in anything unless it has come out of their own mouth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna annoiata che ascolta l&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>5. When a partner is too needy. I love being there for my loved one, but if they expect me to be there for them all the time and whine if I\u2019m not, it\u2019s a huge turnoff. Have a life even when they aren\u2019t around, and I intend to keep it that way.<\/p>\n<p>6. Quando dicono cose solo per dirle. Quando fanno promesse perch\u00e9 sembrano buone, ma non fanno mai nulla di ci\u00f2 che promettono di fare.<\/p>\n<p>7.<strong> When they share the most intimate details of your relationship or stuff you\u2019ve told them in confidence with their friends or family.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>8. When they stereotype. If someone judges others based on their skin color, sexual orientation, religion, or gender &#8211; that\u2019s unacceptable to me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata che parla con un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>9. Anche quando giudicano gli altri in modo troppo severo senza guardare prima a se stessi.<\/p>\n<p>10. <strong>When you\u2019re excited about something or in a super amazing mood &#8211; whether you have a reason for it or not &#8211; and they put you down<\/strong>. Perch\u00e9 dovrebbero farlo? Sono infastiditi dalla vostra felicit\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>11. When they have low self-esteem it\u2019s a huge turn-off. If you feel like you always have to carefully watch every word you say so you don\u2019t hurt their feelings, that\u2019s way too much drama.<\/p>\n<p>12. When they don\u2019t know how to have an adult conversation or argue in order to resolve an issue. <strong>Quando urlano sempre o se ne vanno immaturamente quando le cose vanno male.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62461\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che discute con una donna in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-man-arguing-with-woman-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n13. When they\u2019re so full of themselves and think that you\u2019re lucky to have scored them at all.<\/p>\n<p>14. <strong>When they don\u2019t act like you\u2019re a team<\/strong>. Also, when they don\u2019t support you in front of others or don\u2019t defend you if others talk about you behind your back.<\/p>\n<p>15. Quando imbrogliano o pensano che imbrogliare vada bene. Anche la menzogna.<\/p>\n<p>16. When you think about your relationship and realize that you\u2019re the only one making plans and initiating things, <strong>and they just let go and don\u2019t really do any work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62462\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pigro sdraiato sul divano a guardare la tv\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lazy-man-laying-on-the-sofa-watching-tv-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>17. When they always have to talk or do something. If a person can\u2019t be with you sitting silently and doing nothing from time to time, it just gets annoying.<\/p>\n<p>18.<strong> Quando sono eccessivamente negativi.<\/strong> Tutti ci lamentiamo con i nostri partner e condividiamo le nostre emozioni negative, ma avere costantemente un atteggiamento negativo verso tutto \u00e8 davvero troppo.<\/p>\n<p>19. When they have no clear opinions about anything. It\u2019s okay not to have an opinion on everything, but having no thoughts at all about the world is such a turnoff.<\/p>\n<p>20. <strong>Quando parlano troppo dei loro ex<\/strong>. If a partner insists on discussing their past relationships and just goes on and on about them, there\u2019s your red flag right there.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop.jpg\" alt=\"donna annoiata che ascolta l&#039;uomo nel bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bored-woman-listening-to-man-in-the-coffe-shop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>21. When your partner is that kind of person who\u2019s willing to cause a fight intentionally because they are bored at that particular moment and that is their way of bringing a spark and passion into the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>22. When they think it\u2019s okay to call you names. I just find this to be a huge turn-off: <strong>if you don\u2019t have anything nice to say, don\u2019t say anything at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>23. When they don\u2019t give their partner time alone. It\u2019s okay to want to be with that special someone all the time, but if your partner gets mad because you went out with friends, or decided to watch a movie with family, that\u2019s just a huge turnoff.<\/p>\n<p>24. If they don\u2019t have any ambitions in life. Being casual and free I get, but having no ideas and dreams about how your life should look is not attractive. <strong>I sure can\u2019t imagine myself in your future if you can\u2019t imagine me there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata che si lamenta con un uomo al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/angry-woman-complaining-to-man-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>25. If they don\u2019t have a sense of humor and don\u2019t know how to take a joke. Taking stuff way too seriously is not fun.<\/p>\n<p>26. Quando masticano troppo forte e non hanno buone maniere quando mangiano o nel loro comportamento in generale.<\/p>\n<p>27. If they are unable to express their emotions at all. Some people can be more of a closed book and that\u2019s fine,<strong> ma il fatto di non condividere mai nulla di ci\u00f2 che provano con voi vi fa sentire completamente esclusi dal loro mondo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>28. When they don\u2019t take care of personal hygiene. Seriously, what\u2019s with that?<\/p>\n<p>29. Quando una persona \u00e8 cos\u00ec ossessionata dal denaro, o spende troppo per mettersi in mostra o \u00e8 troppo rigida con i suoi soldi e non paga mai nulla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62466\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo alla ricerca di un conto sulla cena con la donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-for-a-bill-on-the-dinner-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>30. Quando sono noiosi. <strong>If there\u2019s nothing about a person that\u2019s special or out of the ordinary, I just can\u2019t see myself being attracted to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>31. Quando sono scortesi con il personale di servizio. \u00c8 cos\u00ec imbarazzante e ti fa passare la voglia di uscire con loro.<\/p>\n<p>32. When your partner thinks it\u2019s okay to make fun of others. Being a bully is not attractive.<\/p>\n<p>33. When they try to make you jealous, and it\u2019s so obvious they are doing it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"33 Grandi ostacoli che non possono essere trascurati\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/33-Biggest-Turnoffs-That-Can\u2019t-Be-Overlooked-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. When a partner always expects you to be there for them whenever they need you, but they never really think about doing the same for you. Having to ask for everything is such a turnoff. 2. If they are unable to say they\u2019re sorry. 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