{"id":62457,"date":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62457"},"modified":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","slug":"alti-e-bassi-emotivi-della-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alti-e-bassi-emotivi-della-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"8 alti e bassi emotivi di una quasi-relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>All'inizio ci si sente eccitati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62470 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con in mano uno smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando le cose sono appena iniziate ci si sente eccitati, come all'inizio di ogni nuova relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Il loro nome compare sul vostro telefono e vi vengono le farfalle nello stomaco. Ogni volta che ti dicono qualcosa, arrossisci.<\/p>\n<p>La tua spalla che sfiora la sua per caso sembra un fuoco d'artificio.<em>The chemistry between you is strong &#8211; it\u2019s like a constant electrical feeling. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ci si sente vivi e si spera che questa sensazione non scompaia mai.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Poi, ci si sente confusi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62471 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata di donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You were convinced that you were heading towards a real relationship, but suddenly you feel like he\u2019s sending you mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer sure he cares about you as much as you care about him.<\/p>\n<p>It seems now like you\u2019ve been fooling yourself into thinking that one day you\u2019ll become a couple.<\/p>\n<p>You constantly try to figure out what\u2019s happening in his mind but it\u2019s all for nothing because one minute you feel like you have it all figured out and the next you\u2019re back to square one.<\/p>\n<p><em>They always have a way of doing something that keeps you on your toes, so you never really know where you\u2019re headed with them.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Non siete pi\u00f9 pazienti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62472 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you feel like you are still on the right track to becoming a real couple, and those days you\u2019re fine with the way things stand between you because you can see it all as a path to something better.<\/p>\n<p>Other days, you are really impatient for your \u2018almost\u2019 to make the damn move already.<\/p>\n<p>Siete certi di piacergli e di essere attratti da voi, e siete sicuri che gli piaccia passare del tempo con voi. <em>Cosa stanno aspettando?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>That\u2019s why you\u2019re constantly questioning yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62474 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg\" alt=\"donna con pollice sulle labbra\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dovete fare la prima mossa? \u00c8 questo che stanno aspettando?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they are just shy and want to wait and take things slowly and you\u2019re here blaming them for simply being the way they are. Hmm?<\/p>\n<h2>Si diventa gelosi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62475 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna che abbraccia uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see them flirting with other people and realize you have no right to be mad at them because you aren\u2019t committed in any way and you have no rights there.<\/p>\n<p>It makes you annoyed &#8211; to say the least &#8211; when they do that, but you aren\u2019t officially in a relationship so what can you do?<\/p>\n<p>They have no obligation to stay loyal to you, but that doesn\u2019t make you feel any better about things.<\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s starting to look like they have none of the obligations of a relationship, only the benefits of one.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Iniziate a spaventarvi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62477 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to feel your emotions for this person getting stronger every day and you get really scared that they\u2019re going to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>At the beginning, you had a huge crush on them and it was fun, but you weren\u2019t as involved as you are now and it was easier to just let it be an almost relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to fear that you\u2019ll leave this almost relationship with a broken heart, and you\u2019ll end up suffering over a relationship that was never even a real relationship.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ora sembra che sarebbe stato meglio se non aveste mai dato loro il vostro cuore.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Siete delusi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi contro una staccionata di legno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You imagined spending more time together, going places, meeting each other\u2019s friends and family but suddenly they\u2019re gone.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c8 molto strano piangere una relazione che non \u00e8 mai esistita.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nella vostra mente, le cose stavano appena iniziando a scaldarsi, ma in realt\u00e0 avevano gi\u00e0 chiuso con voi. S\u00ec, vi sentite tristi.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, per\u00f2, vi sentite delusi perch\u00e9 hanno interrotto le cose al culmine dell'eccitazione per la realizzazione del vostro nuovo amore.<\/p>\n<h2>Finalmente ci si sente sollevati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"donna in camicia verde che sorride\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve had some time to think it over you actually feel relieved.<\/p>\n<p>Ci si sente fortunati che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-brutta-verita-su-come-superare-un-quasi-uomo\/\">la quasi relazione \u00e8 finita<\/a>perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai stato un vero affare.<\/p>\n<p><em>You feel like you\u2019ve gotten your wings back and you can fly off and find new love.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer stuck wondering how they feel and what they are going to do next.<\/p>\n<p>Ora sapete che ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 una relazione onesta con qualcuno che vi ami, si prenda cura di voi e voglia le stesse cose che volete voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62483 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 alti e bassi emotivi di una quasi-relazione\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At first, you feel excited When things are just starting you feel excited, the same way you do at the beginning of every new relationship. Their name appears on your phone and you get butterflies in your stomach. Every time they say something to you, you blush. Your shoulder brushing against his by accident feels&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62469,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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