{"id":62627,"date":"2020-04-22T12:24:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62627"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:52","slug":"5-domande-che-fanno-la-differenza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-domande-che-fanno-la-differenza\/","title":{"rendered":"5 domande \"make or break\" da porsi prima di dargli una seconda possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da quando vi siete lasciati, hai sempre sognato questo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been hoping that your ex will come crawling back, begging you to give him another chance.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on right now. The day has come: here he is, on your doorstep, asking you to take him back.<\/p>\n

However, instead of being thrilled, you feel clueless, confused and worried. You don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Despite the feelings you still have for this guy, you can\u2019t make up your mind.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not sure what the right thing is for you to do now.<\/p>\n

Ecco quindi una serie di domande da porsi prima di prendere una decisione definitiva.<\/p>\n

1. Is it the first time he\u2019s made this mistake?<\/h2>\n

\"Triste<\/p>\n

Prima di prendere qualsiasi decisione, deve essere chiara una cosa: \u00e8 la prima volta che accade una cosa del genere?<\/p>\n

O \u00e8 diventato un evento regolare?<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra questi due scenari.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: nobody is perfect. Whether we like to admit it or not, we all make choices we\u2019re not proud of.<\/p>\n

So, your boyfriend has the right to do the same. He\u2019s done something wrong and he\u2019s sincerely sorry for that.<\/p>\n

You might even forgive him for his wrongdoings if you believe that he won\u2019t repeat his errors.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, se questa \u00e8 diventata una sua routine, una seconda possibilit\u00e0 \u00e8 fuori discussione.<\/p>\n

If this man keeps on making the same mistakes over and over again and then ends up begging for forgiveness, it is clear that he\u2019ll continue with his behavior.<\/p>\n

In questo caso, non ha assolutamente senso tornare da lui.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 se continuare a perdonarlo<\/a>, you\u2019re just giving him the green light to keep on breaking your heart.<\/p>\n

2. Perch\u00e9 lo rivoglio?<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

The next make or break question doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with your boyfriend-it is connected with you and your feelings.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 rivuole quest'uomo?<\/p>\n

Do you truly believe that he deserves a second chance? Do you sincerely think that he\u2019ll improve his ways?<\/p>\n

O avete solo paura di stare da soli?<\/p>\n

Preferite rimanere con lui, che \u00e8 diventato la vostra zona di comfort, piuttosto che fare un passo verso l'ignoto?<\/p>\n

Lo rivuole solo per dimostrare a se stessa un punto di vista? Per dimostrare che puoi averlo ogni volta che ne hai voglia?<\/p>\n

That he\u2019ll always try to come back to you, no matter what he does?<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Are you willing to take him back because you\u2019re scared of losing him?<\/p>\n

Are you doing it to keep him by your side, aware that you didn\u2019t think things through?<\/p>\n

La vede come un'opportunit\u00e0 per vendicarsi<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Volete attirarlo a stare con voi e fingere che tutto sia perfetto solo per potervi vendicare?<\/p>\n

Answer each one of these questions as sincerely as possible. You don\u2019t have to give him the answers-just be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you: don\u2019t give your relationship another shot for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n

3. L'ho perdonato?<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what your ex did; whether he cheated on you, abused you, or hurt you in some other way.<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 che ti ha spezzato il cuore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He did you harm and it is natural that you can\u2019t pretend like nothing happened.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, chiedetevi: ho davvero perdonato quest'uomo?<\/p>\n

\"Pensando<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: nobody is forcing you to do so, especially if you\u2019re not ready.<\/p>\n

However, what\u2019s the point in rekindling your old romance if this issue will remain a problem between the two of you?<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, il perdono \u00e8 un processo e richiede tempo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you don\u2019t see yourself getting there and if you don\u2019t have any desire to eventually forgive him, you two getting back together will be in vain.<\/p>\n

4. Possiamo avere successo?<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

In questo caso bisogna essere assolutamente realistici.<\/p>\n

Non idealizzate, non romanticizzate le cose: trascurate il vostro cuore e parlate onestamente con la vostra ragione.<\/p>\n

I know you love this guy. You wouldn\u2019t be having these dilemmas if you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

However, what you should be aware of is that sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

After all, you loved each other before this happened and that didn\u2019t work out so well.<\/p>\n

Quindi, dovete essere onesti con voi stessi. Pensate davvero che la vostra relazione funzioner\u00e0 se farete un altro tentativo?<\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, nessuno pu\u00f2 prevedere il futuro. Non si pu\u00f2 mai sapere con certezza cosa accadr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 possibile capire se voi due avete una possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Vedete, nessuna di queste lotte \u00e8 utile<\/a> se vi lascerete prima di tornare insieme.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, cercate di risparmiarvi altre sofferenze e di togliervi in tempo gli occhiali rosa.<\/p>\n

5. Abbiamo raggiunto un accordo?<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019ve already had some talks regarding this matter with your partner. What was the final conclusion of all those conversations?<\/p>\n

Siete riusciti a raggiungere un compromesso? Avete trovato una via di mezzo?<\/p>\n

Ask yourself whether you\u2019ve reached an agreement on how your relationship will function in the future.<\/p>\n

Have you set some ground rules that you\u2019ll both have to stick to?<\/p>\n

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