{"id":62631,"date":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62631"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","slug":"facendo-di-te-una-priorita-quando-ero-la-seconda-scelta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/facendo-di-te-una-priorita-quando-ero-la-seconda-scelta\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio errore \u00e8 stato quello di renderti una priorit\u00e0 quando sono sempre stato la tua seconda scelta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ti amavo pi\u00f9 di quanto amassi me stesso e l'unica cosa importante per me era che tu non mi avresti mai lasciato.<\/p>\n

I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love.<\/p>\n

Ogni giorno che passava faceva crescere il mio amore per te, anche se non mi hai mai dato motivi per amarti cos\u00ec fortemente.<\/p>\n

I still can’t understand why people fall in love that much when it’s clear that the other side doesn’t feel the same for them.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Nel nostro caso, era pi\u00f9 che chiaro che you didn\u2019t share the same feelings for me.<\/a><\/p>\n

My mother said that it’s a half love, a love that makes you blind and all you can see is that other person but not their actions.<\/p>\n

Ha detto che tutte le persone devono provare un amore come quello una volta nella vita.Per me era una specie di fenomeno. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 mi maltrattavi, pi\u00f9 ti amavo. Pi\u00f9 trascuravi i miei bisogni, pi\u00f9 io davo priorit\u00e0 ai tuoi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il tuo rifiuto ha causato l'ossessione che avevo per te. Forse te ne sei accorto e hai iniziato a sfruttarla. Hai usato la mia ingenuit\u00e0 e i miei sentimenti sinceri per te.<\/p>\n

Consideravo miei i tuoi amici e la tua famiglia ed ero felice ogni volta che mi invitavi a uscire con loro. Sono ancora in contatto con tutti loro.<\/p>\n

Ho dovuto pregarti di uscire con i miei amici e la mia famiglia perch\u00e9 non volevi mai farlo.<\/p>\n

And every time they’d invite us over or to go out, I had to make an excuse for why you didn’t show up again.I always had time for you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Voi e le vostre esigenze erano le uniche cose che contavano.Sono sempre stato presente per te quando avevi bisogno di me<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pensavo che fosse l'essenza di ogni relazione sana, ma mi sbagliavo: la nostra relazione non \u00e8 mai stata sana.<\/p>\n

I’ve seen so many girls who poured themselves into a relationship. Girls who didn’t appreciate themselves enough to say stop to the man who didn’t deserve them.<\/p>\n

I always considered those girls stupid. And look what’s happening now. Karma knocked on my door and laughed so hard in my face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I apologize now to all of those girls because I understand what made you stay with a man who didn’t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

L'amore. Un amore cieco, strano, malsano, incondizionato, inspiegabile.<\/p>\n

I’ll always remember my last birthday, when you stood me up once again and stabbed me right through my heart. It was one disappointment too many.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata la notte in cui qualcosa si \u00e8 rotto dentro di me. Anche se \u00e8 stata la notte pi\u00f9 difficile della mia vita, mi ha fatto capire che non sei assolutamente degno del mio amore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quella notte ha cambiato la mia vita. Ho capito che dovevo spostarti dal trono e rimetterci me stesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ho capito che la mia vita \u00e8 un libro.<\/p>\n

I am the author of it and you shouldn’t be the main character anymore. Hell, you never deserved to be in it in the first place.<\/p>\n

However, I truly believe that God has his reasons for everything that’s happening. Maybe I needed this experience to serve me as a lesson.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Forse avevo bisogno di imparare in questo modo che Sono la persona pi\u00f9 importante della mia vita<\/a> and that I shouldn’t let someone take that place ever again.<\/p>\n

Realizing and admitting that you’ll never be able to love me like I love you broke my heart into a million pieces.<\/p>\n

Trust me, I’m still trying to put them back together but now, it doesn’t hurt anymore.I look at our relationship as the lesson of my life.<\/p>\n

Per quanto possiate amare un'altra persona, il primo amore della vostra vita siete e sarete sempre VOI e non dovrete mai tradirlo.<\/p>\n

\"Il<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I loved you more than I loved myself and the only thing that was important to me was that you would never leave me. I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love. Every day that passed by made my love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":62635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Mistake-Was-Making-You-A-Priority-When-I-Was-Always-Your-Second-Choice-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}