{"id":62754,"date":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62754"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","slug":"ringraziare-chi-vi-ha-fatto-piu-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ringraziare-chi-vi-ha-fatto-piu-male\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 dovreste ringraziare chi vi ha ferito di pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando qualcuno ti spezza il cuore, \u00e8 naturale che tu lo disprezzi.<\/p>\n<p>Cos'altro potreste provare nei confronti di chi vi ha ferito e ha cercato di distruggervi?<\/p>\n<p>Questo vale soprattutto per le persone pi\u00f9 vicine.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, sono quelli che possono avvicinarsi di pi\u00f9 a voi e quelli le cui mosse vi influenzano di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>When someone you thought you could trust your life with backstabs you, you can\u2019t help but feel betrayed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62763 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"Triste donna afroamericana seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la persona per cui avete fatto sacrifici e a cui avete dato il meglio di voi stessi, quindi \u00e8 una reazione del tutto normale.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care whether we\u2019re talking about your ex-boyfriend who left you, about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/lettera-ragazza-usato-migliore-amico\/\">migliore amico<\/a> che vi ha usato o di un familiare che avrebbe dovuto essere presente ma non lo \u00e8 mai stato.<\/p>\n<p>Il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che questa persona vi ha ferito.<\/p>\n<p>Vi hanno ferito gravemente e hanno lasciato conseguenze incancellabili sulla vostra salute mentale ed emotiva.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That is actually what triggers you the most\u2014these scars they left behind, after they walked away, without thinking about the consequences of their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza bionda triste con camicia nera che tiene in mano un cuore di carta rotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La dolorosa verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che chi vi ha ferito vi ha anche cambiato in un certo senso.<\/p>\n<p>Avete lottato contro di essa e avete cercato di fermarla, ma alcune cose sono semplicemente fuori dal vostro controllo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ad ogni colpo di fulmine, la ragazza innocente che eri un tempo scompariva sempre di pi\u00f9. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S<\/strong><strong>scompariva ad ogni lacrima che piangevi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un giorno, \u00e8 stata sostituita dal nuovo te.<\/p>\n<p>She was gone for good and there came along this overly careful woman who decided that the only way to protect her heart was to act as if she didn\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62766 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg\" alt=\"Foto in bianco e nero di una donna sicura di s\u00e9 con lo sguardo rivolto verso l&#039;alto\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, chi pu\u00f2 giudicarvi per aver odiato coloro che vi hanno fatto questo? Chi pu\u00f2 biasimarvi per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/no-non-dovete-sempre-perdonare\/\">non essere in grado di perdonare<\/a> them? I know I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, anche se avete il pieno diritto di sentirvi cos\u00ec, lasciate che vi dica una cosa: dovreste anche essere grati a ciascuno dei vostri killer spirituali.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You heard it right\u2014you don\u2019t have to love them, nor do you have to forgive them but if you\u2019re smart enough, you\u2019ll be thankful for everything they did.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you might have changed. Maybe you\u2019ve become a pessimistic person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62768 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di bella donna bionda con occhi blu\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-non-crede-piu-nellamore\/\">ha perso la fede nell'amore<\/a> and kindness. Maybe you don\u2019t see the good in people anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al diavolo, potreste persino pensare di aver perso il vostro splendore. Tuttavia, tutto ci\u00f2 \u00e8 temporaneo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, le lezioni ricevute sono destinate a rimanere.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Each one of them was painful and tough but trust me\u2014they\u2019re all worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ogni persona che vi ha fatto del male era in realt\u00e0 un vostro insegnante.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62769 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna solitaria seduta su una panchina\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Erano l\u00ec per aiutarvi a imparare cose nuove sulla vita e soprattutto su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tutte quelle persone malvagie avevano uno scopo pi\u00f9 profondo nella vostra vita. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They were there to help you differentiate between the ones who deserve a place in your life and the ones who don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Erano l\u00ec per aiutarvi a riconoscere il male e per farvi capire che non tutti hanno buone intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014<strong>ringraziarli per avervi fatto diventare la donna che siete oggi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62771 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg\" alt=\"Carta per le mani con messaggio di ringraziamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real\u2014if it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the experience you do now.<\/p>\n<p>If it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the strength or the inner power you possess now. You wouldn\u2019t have known how much you can take.<\/p>\n<p>Non ti saresti mai reso conto di quanto tu sia un sopravvissuto.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t have known that you can defeat whatever life throws at you.<\/p>\n<p>Se non foste mai stati feriti, continuereste a pensare di aver bisogno di tutte quelle persone tossiche.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62772 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna felice che guarda in alto e sorride\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You would be convinced that you can\u2019t make it without them and that you are not capable enough to go through life on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014you should thank the ones who hurt you because they taught you the importance of prioritizing yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Vi hanno dimostrato che nessun rapporto pu\u00f2 essere pi\u00f9 importante di quello che avete con voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi,<strong> the next time you think about all these people, don\u2019t resent them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Instead, know that without the intention of doing so, they\u2019ve actually done you a favor. <\/strong><strong>Be grateful, for they\u2019ve helped you blossom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62776 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco perch\u00e9 dovreste ringraziare chi vi ha fatto pi\u00f9 male pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone breaks your heart, it\u2019s only natural that you despise them. What else could you feel toward the ones who hurt you and tried to destroy you? This especially goes for the people closest to you. After all, they are the ones who can approach you the nearest and the ones whose moves affect&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62761,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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