{"id":62878,"date":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62878"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","slug":"non-perdere-te-stessa-con-qualcuno-a-cui-non-interessa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-perdere-te-stessa-con-qualcuno-a-cui-non-interessa\/","title":{"rendered":"Non perdetevi a trattenere qualcuno che non vi interessa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Don’t be confused between what people say you are and who you know you are.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/em><\/p>\n

This quote opened my eyes and made me realize the fact that it\u2019s not my fault if he doesn\u2019t care. That is when I slowly started to let go.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, he probably seemed like every other guy you liked \u2013 someone who will meet the real you, your needs and ideas as they are, recognize your essence.<\/p>\n

Ma il pi\u00f9 delle volte non \u00e8 cos\u00ec: per la maggior parte delle persone, non essere confusi su chi sono, soprattutto in questo momento, pu\u00f2 essere molto impegnativo.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That alone is a huge obstacle. How can we expect someone to accept us as we are when we don\u2019t know who we are ourselves?<\/p>\n

Riconoscere e soddisfare i bisogni di una persona a cui si tiene profondamente e che si ama pu\u00f2 facilmente portare a un compiacimento insensato basato sul nostro bisogno di approvazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When that happens, that means you\u2019ve lost your own approval and things become clear.<\/p>\n

He does not see your effort; he does not see he\u2019s using you; he does not see you\u2019re not yourself\u2026 he simply does not care.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you need to know one thing: You cannot make him care.If it doesn\u2019t happen naturally, it simply won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That is the moment I already mentioned \u2013 a moment to let go.<\/p>\n

Anche se pu\u00f2 essere doloroso e devastante, non dovete mai dubitare di voi stessi, perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai stata colpa vostra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alcune cose non sono destinate a durare e, una volta finite, non hanno niente a che vedere con voi: C'\u00e8 solo tanto tempo in questa vita.<\/p>\n

Il dubbio su se stessi \u00e8 qualcosa che accade da solo, in molti aspetti della vostra vita, e l'amore non dovrebbe essere uno di questi.<\/p>\n

Especially not because of one blind-street relationship and a guy who simply wasn\u2019t something you needed at the time.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La missione della vostra vita \u00e8 essere voi stessi e raggiungere il vostro pieno potenziale. Perdere se stessi significa intorpidirsi e perdere il proprio scopo e la propria felicit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Without purpose and happiness, meeting your potential is quite impossible.You shouldn\u2019t be quiet about what makes you an authentic human being.<\/p>\n

Dovete sempre dire la vostra verit\u00e0 e seguire il vostro cuore.<\/p>\n

This will surely make you vulnerable, but it will save you from pushing yourself to be someone you\u2019re not and living the life that\u2019s expected of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019ll be vulnerable but you\u2019ll be at peace with yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Luckily, when you are sincere about your life, people often recognize that, so it\u2019s true that when you care for yourself, others will follow.<\/p>\n

Le persone tendono a pensare troppo a tutto e a scatenarsi per le cose pi\u00f9 irrilevanti.<\/p>\n

Forse invece di chiedere Why doesn\u2019t he care for me?<\/em> provare a chiedere Why don\u2019t I care for myself enough to take some action and make my life happier?<\/em><\/p>\n

There is a quote by Jung that says that \u201cthe privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u201d That\u2019s why I think that in search of love, you should first care about yourself and know yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recognize your own wants and needs. Recognize the reason why someone\u2019s indifference is bothering you so much.What do we have to prove?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 non siamo soddisfatti di ci\u00f2 che siamo? La nostra dipendenza dall'approvazione degli altri ci dice di pi\u00f9 su di noi che su di loro?<\/p>\n

Solo quando siamo padroni di noi stessi e impariamo a prenderci cura di noi stessi, possiamo occuparci degli altri e dare loro l'amore di cui hanno bisogno.<\/p>\n

\"modella<\/p>\n

Amare se stessi. Siate gentili con voi stessi. Riconoscere i sentimenti che si manifestano in voi. Costruite l'empatia con voi stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La cura di s\u00e9 non consiste solo nel coccolarsi e nel mangiare il cibo giusto, ma anche nel perdonarsi per le cose che non si possono controllare. Si tratta di lasciar andare la vergogna.<\/p>\n

Shame is a soul-eating feeling. Maybe it\u2019s even the reason why you care about someone not caring. You\u2019re ashamed of not being enough.<\/p>\n

But you are enough \u2013 always \u2013 and the shortest way to find that out is by caring for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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