{"id":63158,"date":"2020-04-15T20:59:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T20:59:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63158"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:07","slug":"come-si-perde-una-donna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-perde-una-donna\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come si perde una donna che ha visto il tuo peggio ed \u00e8 rimasta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una cosa che mi ha sempre fatto sentire orgogliosa di me stessa \u00e8 che sono una donna che corre o muore. Quando amo, amo fino al midollo. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m there for you through the good times and the bad times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t count mistakes and I always find a way to make things better. My mind is open and my heart is big.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I know how to forgive and I know how to see through your pain. I\u2019m a one of a kind woman and all of that wasn\u2019t enough to make you realize that you should have treated me better than you did.<\/p>\n

Ti ho visto nel tuo momento peggiore. Ti ho visto quando eri al minimo, comportandoti come tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avevi paura.<\/p>\n

I saw you when you acted exactly like you said you would never act. Maybe that\u2019s what you couldn\u2019t stand.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Forse ti vergognavi di te stesso e te la sei presa con me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, the saddest thing is that your problems aren\u2019t mine but I would have gladly helped you with them if you hadn\u2019t ruined it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You started to act so insecurely. I wasn\u2019t allowed to do anything without you. You started acting selfishly.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Everything you said became a manipulation tactic and you wouldn\u2019t let me breathe.<\/p>\n

On top of all that, you didn\u2019t even care to make me feel loved or cared for. You were possessive yet cold.<\/p>\n

I got tired of giving my best to a person who didn\u2019t deserve me. I knew that life wasn\u2019t about constantly meeting the needs of others but mutual understanding.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sapevo che c'era di pi\u00f9 nella vita che vederti fare sempre lo stesso errore, senza mai cambiare e senza accorgerti di quello che stavo facendo per te.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ho sempre avuto problemi a lasciare le persone e questa \u00e8 stata la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile da fare, ma l'ho fatto.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t break my spirit so I still knew my worth. I knew that if I didn\u2019t leave you, I would end up broken and lost. And I\u2019m not that kind of woman.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not someone you can control, someone you can use as an emotional punching bag.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m very aware of myself and the things I can do and give. I\u2019m aware that I\u2019m rare. That\u2019s exactly why I know you will regret losing me once you realize I\u2019m gone forever.<\/p>\n

It takes me so much time to leave someone but once I\u2019m gone, I\u2019m gone forever. You have lost me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

My heart is broken but my spirit is whole. I\u2019ll find a way to mend my heart but you will never find a way back to me.<\/p>\n

Non avresti mai dovuto pensare che la tua debolezza fosse nel tuo dolore, ma nel modo in cui hai lasciato che ti controllasse. Hai lasciato che la tua paura diventasse insicurezza e poi hai lasciato che la tua insicurezza uccidesse il nostro amore.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t fear or control or walking on eggshells to stop yourself from triggering someone.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 una questione di onest\u00e0, di profondit\u00e0 dei sentimenti e di vulnerabilit\u00e0 di fronte alla persona amata.<\/p>\n

Vulnerability takes courage and you didn\u2019t have it. You let your bad side consume you and you sacrificed our love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you enough to know you won\u2019t change, so I needed to leave you. One day you will think of us and ask yourself how you failed to recognize the true love I was giving you.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

We could have healed together but you choose pain. I didn\u2019t. That\u2019s why I\u2019m here, writing this as I contemplate what was once our love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hope you\u2019re not doing the same thing to someone else. I hope my love has taught you to face your demons, rather than blame others.<\/p>\n

Nel frattempo, riconosco la forza della mia anima. Ho imparato ad avere dei limiti. Ho finalmente capito che non tutti sono degni del mio tempo o del mio amore.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Ho imparato che, affinch\u00e9 l'amore abbia senso, due persone devono lavorare insieme e scambiarsi energia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love takes two and it\u2019s about reciprocity. <\/strong>Una volta presa coscienza di ci\u00f2, il mio cuore ha iniziato a guarire lentamente.<\/p>\n

Today I can proudly say that I\u2019m moving on because now I know I didn\u2019t lose you but you lost me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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