{"id":63258,"date":"2020-04-16T07:50:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T07:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63258"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","slug":"alcune-cose-vanno-male-cosi-che-le-cose-migliori-possano-andare-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alcune-cose-vanno-male-cosi-che-le-cose-migliori-possano-andare-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"Certe cose devono andare storte, cos\u00ec che le cose migliori possano andare giuste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ogni volta che nella vostra vita accade qualcosa che non desideravate, la vedete come la cosa peggiore del mondo.<\/p>\n<p>You see it as failure and misery. After all, you\u2019ve always tried to be a good person.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve played by the rules and done your best not to hurt anyone along the way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63263 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sull&#039;erba verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-at-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Allora, perch\u00e9 dovete affrontare tutte queste difficolt\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t there a thing called karma that should repay you for all of your good deeds?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like this with everything bad you experience in life.<\/p>\n<p>You feel as if everything is pointless when a guy you cared for dumps you, when you lose a friend you trusted, or when you don\u2019t get that promotion you worked so hard for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63264 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights.jpg\" alt=\"donna con luci in mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-lights-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help but get the impression that life is simply unfair.<\/p>\n<p>Bad things happen to good people and vice versa and you don\u2019t have the power required to fight it.<\/p>\n<p>After all, who could blame you for feeling like this? In fact, it\u2019s perfectly natural for you to be shaken by the world\u2019s injustice.<\/p>\n<p>However, I\u2019m here to ask you to reconsider your point of view.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63266 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna in piedi in un campo di erba marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-brown-grass-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m here to beg you to look at the bigger picture and bear in mind that everything happens <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/forse-dio-ha-allontanato-il-tuo-cuore-da-lui-per-un-motivo\/\">per un motivo.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vedete, a volte, <strong>Alcune cose devono andare male perch\u00e9 cose migliori possano andare bene.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A man who doesn\u2019t deserve you has to walk away from you in order to clear the way for the right one.<\/p>\n<p>He has to show you what you don\u2019t want and need so you are able to recognize true love when you see it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63267 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si tiene la guancia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-cheek-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t get that job you applied for because your dream career is waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>O avrebbe finito per essere solo una distrazione da qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grande?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s possible that your best friend stabbed you in the back because it was the only way for you to see her true colors.<\/p>\n<p>The only way for you to finally kick her out of your life and to realize that you shouldn\u2019t trust everybody.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63268 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna vicino a un campo d&#039;erba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-near-grass-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A volte bisogna attraversare l'oscurit\u00e0 per vedere i veri colori delle stelle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dovete perdere qualcosa di indegno di voi per poter ottenere cose molto pi\u00f9 preziose.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, tutto questo fornisce un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-eri-la-mia-anima-gemella-eri-solo-la-mia-lezione\/\">lezione<\/a> e una nuova esperienza.<\/p>\n<p>Every storm you go through is there to prepare you for the sunshine that\u2019s about to come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63269 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-woman-4-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ogni sfida \u00e8 un'opportunit\u00e0 per migliorare e ogni battaglia un'occasione per diventare pi\u00f9 forti.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s there to build you into a mature, self-sufficient woman. There to show you that you can make it without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s there to test your faith. To help you believe and always hope for the best, even when everything looks hopeless.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So the next time you think that you\u2019ve had it rough, remember that every curse can actually be a blessing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63270 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top rosso off shoulder\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-off-shoulder-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s simply up to you how you perceive it. <\/strong><strong>A volte le cose che si vedono come peggiori si rivelano le migliori. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bisogna solo avere la pazienza di lasciare che il tempo faccia la sua magia e vi faccia vedere tutto con i vostri occhi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vi prometto una cosa: ogni lacrima che piangerete sar\u00e0 ricompensata da tonnellate di sorrisi.<\/p>\n<p>Sadness will be replaced with so much happiness you can\u2019t even imagine it. You just have to be ready for it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63271 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"donna vicino alla porta di legno in canottiera gialla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-near-wooden-door-in-yellow-tank-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tempismo-giusto-sbagliato\/\">I tempi devono essere giusti<\/a> e tutto andr\u00e0 al suo posto. <strong>Prima o poi, cominceranno ad accadere cose buone. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Once they do, you\u2019ll finally understand my words &#8211; that you probably don\u2019t believe right now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you get everything you deserve, you\u2019ll understand that this was the only way to acquire happiness.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll realize why you had to go through all of your hardships and why you had to experience so much pain.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63272 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi vicino all&#039;erba alta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-tall-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Finally, you\u2019ll perceive that your entire life was actually a sequence of events that were meant to bring you exactly to the point you are at now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll figure out that all the bad things you went through happened for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, in un solo istante, tutto avr\u00e0 perfettamente senso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63273 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Certe cose devono andare storte, cos\u00ec che le cose migliori possano andare giuste\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever something you didn\u2019t wish for happens in your life, you see it as the worst thing in the world. You see it as failure and misery. After all, you\u2019ve always tried to be a good person. You\u2019ve played by the rules and done your best not to hurt anyone along the way. So, why&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":63262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Certain-Things-Have-To-Go-Wrong-So-Better-Things-Can-Go-Right.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}