{"id":63277,"date":"2020-04-16T08:59:42","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T08:59:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63277"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:24:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:24:51","slug":"essere-una-brava-donna-per-luomo-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-una-brava-donna-per-luomo-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Non rimpiangere di essere stata una brava donna per l'uomo sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hai sprecato anni per un uomo che didn\u2019t deserve you.<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n

Avete sprecato tempo, energie e sforzi e avete dedicato tutta la vostra vita a qualcosa che non \u00e8 mai stato degno della vostra attenzione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Scommetto che quando si dice cos\u00ec, le cose suonano piuttosto dure e dolorose.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s the only truth. It\u2019s how everything went on.<\/p>\n

\"sposi<\/p>\n

In fact, if you take your rose-tinted glasses off, you\u2019ll know that your entire previous relationship can be summarized with this couple of sentences.<\/p>\n

Yes, you two had good and bad days. He wasn\u2019t always an asshole and maybe he cared for you to a certain extent.<\/p>\n

For what it is worth, you weren\u2019t perfect either. You had your share of flaws and behavior patterns that drove your ex crazy.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, in fin dei conti, voi avete fatto del vostro meglio per far funzionare le cose, mentre a lui non \u00e8 mai importato nulla della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Quando si mette tutto su una bilancia, the bottom line is that you gifted your entire self to the wrong guy who didn\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A nessuno fa piacere saperlo. Ti senti presa in giro e usata. Soprattutto, rimpiangi tutto quello che gli hai dato.<\/p>\n

Ti dispiace per gli anni che hai sprecato con lui.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Si rimpiange di essere l\u00ec per l'uomo che ti ha abbandonato quando avevi pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t perdonare se stessi<\/a> per aver dato la priorit\u00e0 a qualcuno che ti ha sempre trattato come una seconda scelta.<\/p>\n

Siete arrabbiate per il fatto di aver fatto dei sacrifici per un uomo che non ha mai mosso un dito per il vostro bene.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re resentful for choosing him over yourself. Finally, you regret loving someone who didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this point of view, you see it as you\u2019ve wasted your potential on a man who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Hai sprecato le tue qualit\u00e0 e la tua forza per qualcuno che non le ha mai apprezzate.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, se potesse tornare indietro nel tempo, avrebbe sempre scelto di non incontrarlo.<\/p>\n

O almeno, pensate che lo avreste trattato come una vera e propria puttana.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you could do it all over again, you assume that you wouldn\u2019t have been the nice girl you used to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have given this man your heart on your sleeve and you wouldn\u2019t have been so kind and loving, despite his awful treatment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Invece, saresti stata tu a prenderlo in giro. Avresti spezzato il suo cuore, non il contrario.<\/p>\n

Gli avreste fatto assaggiare la sua stessa medicina e vi sareste vendicati in tempo.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se poteste rifare tutto da capo, non gli avreste mai permesso di farla franca.<\/p>\n

However, let me ask you to do one thing: Don\u2019t go into all of those could-and-should-have-beens because they don\u2019t have any point whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t keep on going back<\/a> over the past because you\u2019re just ruining your present and future with it.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, please don\u2019t regret being your best self to a guy who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t regret being a good woman to a bad man.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t regret the choices you made because for that given situation, it was what you thought was the smartest.<\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t erase your mistakes now, so what\u2019s the point of contemplating them either?<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, la cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che la vostra coscienza sia cristallina.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You are aware that you didn\u2019t contribute to the downfall of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have the need to feel guilty about or to blame yourself for anything that has happened.<\/p>\n

Anzi, sapete di aver fatto del vostro meglio. Sapete di aver fatto tutto ci\u00f2 che era in vostro potere per far funzionare le cose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In questo modo, non vi chiederete mai cosa sarebbe successo se foste stati pi\u00f9 bravi, se lo aveste trattato con pi\u00f9 cura o se lo aveste amato un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sapete di aver messo tutta la vostra capacit\u00e0 e il massimo impegno in questa relazione.<\/p>\n

The fact that it wasn\u2019t enough for your ex is only his problem, not yours.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, pensate a questo la prossima volta che iniziate a rimproverarvi. S\u00ec, con lui avete gettato le vostre perle davanti ai porci.<\/p>\n

However, it was the swine\u2019s fault for not being able to see their brightness and worth.<\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You wasted years on a man who didn\u2019t deserve you. You wasted your time, energy and efforts and you put your entire life into something that was never worthy of your attention. I bet that when you put things like this, they sound pretty harsh and painful. However, it\u2019s the only truth. It\u2019s how everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":63309,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-Regret-Being-A-Good-Woman-To-The-Wrong-Man-.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63277\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}