{"id":63767,"date":"2020-04-22T09:52:11","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:52:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63767"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:43:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:43:26","slug":"il-mio-cuore-e-stanco-dei-tuoi-segnali-contrastanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-cuore-e-stanco-dei-tuoi-segnali-contrastanti\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio cuore \u00e8 stanco dei tuoi segnali contrastanti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se non mi vuoi, dimmelo. Posso gestirlo. \u00c8 un'opzione migliore che lasciarmi pensare troppo a tutto fino a farmi rinunciare.<\/p>\n<p>My heart is not for someone who\u2019s unsure if he wants it. I worked too damn hard to be treated like this. My heart is for someone who can be devoted to me.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who can accept me fully. One who isn\u2019t afraid to commit and calls me his.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63777\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couples-closing-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che chiude gli occhi con il viso vicino all&#039;altro\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\"><\/p>\n<p>My heart is not for the weak. I\u2019m a strong woman and I want <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-comportamenti-che-rivelano-che-stai-uscendo-con-un-uomo-mentalmente-forte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">un uomo forte<\/a> che sa cosa vuole.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Voglio un uomo che sappia toccare il mio cuore e renderlo felice, non stanco. Un uomo che pensi in grande e che ami in grande.<\/strong> A man who isn\u2019t afraid to take a risk; one who does what he says no matter the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che sceglier\u00e0 sempre me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63779\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hand-in-hand-walking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia mano nella mano che cammina lungo il ponte\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of pretending I understand your games. I don\u2019t and I don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of random text messages sent out of the blue and then disappearing afterward. The only thing you want is attention and I\u2019m done wasting it on you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of you talking to me but never making the first move. What is that supposed to mean? Do you want me or not?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63781\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-blond-woman.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna bionda che si copre la bocca con il suo maglione nella fotografia a fuoco\" width=\"800\" height=\"510\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of having the best time with you and then not hearing from you. It feels like you\u2019re some other person as soon as we can\u2019t see each other.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m tired of you saying one thing and then doing another; that\u2019s the kind of selfish behavior I can\u2019t tolerate anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m tired of thinking there are maybe other girls you\u2019re talking to. I don\u2019t deserve that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/attractive-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna attraente che pensa in vista laterale vicino a un muro bianco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>If you need space, then don\u2019t text me. If you\u2019re <em>non pronto per una relazione<\/em>, then don\u2019t take me out on dates.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t want me to date other people, then call me your girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La sua incoerenza mi ha quasi fatto dubitare del mio buon senso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-face-hidden.jpg\" alt=\"il bel viso nascosto e ricoperto di piccoli fiori e foglie bianche\" width=\"800\" height=\"515\"><\/p>\n<p>When I confront you, you say I have misunderstood something. I don\u2019t think so. You\u2019re the one with the problem and you should work it out.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not ready to commit, say it. If you\u2019re afraid to commit and you deal with it by pushing people away, then say so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not clingy, I\u2019m not too attached. I\u2019m a perfectly normal woman just wanting to be loved like I deserve to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blonde-wavy-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda dai capelli mossi che indossa un top nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a booty call. I\u2019m not your option. I\u2019m not someone you can lead on.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t be overlooked, then suddenly showered with attention out of nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Your mixed signals are now clear! You don\u2019t deserve me and I\u2019m better off without you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-make-up.jpg\" alt=\"donna truccata e vestita in modo formale guarda lontano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m worthy of effort. I\u2019m worthy of being cared for. I want to be spoiled by my lover.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che il mio cuore sia al sicuro e che il mio corpo sia sostenuto con amore e passione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life\u2019s too short to waste it on a man who can\u2019t decide what he wants.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-staring-outside.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda fuori attraverso la finestra rotonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been through enough to know I deserve someone better than you.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t settle for a date with no effort, calling only when you need me or doing the work for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your mixed signals mean that you care but only when you need me. That\u2019s not enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-with-beard-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con barba che indossa un cappellino in una vista laterale\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>They mean that I\u2019m your backup plan.<\/p>\n<p>Well, this backup plan hasn\u2019t worked for you. Go find someone else.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve to be someone\u2019s <em>piano di vita.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lady-leaning-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"signora che china la testa sorridendo con una tazza blu davanti a s\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"518\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re someone\u2019s life plan, they have nothing to hold back or hide. They are persistent in their goals.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Comunicano con voi in modo gentile, autentico e amorevole.<\/p>\n<p>With them, you\u2019re going to finally be yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63799\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-womans-face.jpg\" alt=\"un volto di donna messo a fuoco tenendo in mano delle luci di serie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t want to waste my days wondering if I\u2019m just someone\u2019s toy\u2013 I want to be someone\u2019s everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I\u2019m shutting off your mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>From now on, all I want to be getting is a clear signal. A clear signal that I\u2019m loved as I am and enough as I am. Someone to fearlessly pursue me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/red-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna dai capelli rossi in grigio e marrone top con alberi su sfocato sullo sfondo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Voglio vivere la mia vita con la certezza che il mio partner mi ami con tutto il cuore e non veda altro che me. Merito di essere la loro unica e sola.<\/p>\n<p>I want my heart to be filled with love and joy. I\u2019m too young to feel tired.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I have decided to leave you in the past and make a place for a man who will love me like there\u2019s no tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-63802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MY-HEART-IS-TIRED-OF-YOUR-MIXED-SIGNALS-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"Il mio cuore \u00e8 stanco dei tuoi segnali contrastanti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you don\u2019t want me, just tell me. I can handle it. It\u2019s a better option than letting me overthink everything to the point where I just give up. My heart is not for someone who\u2019s unsure if he wants it. I worked too damn hard to be treated like this. My heart is for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63767\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}