{"id":6422,"date":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","date_gmt":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6422"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-vi-state-complicando-la-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-vi-state-complicando-la-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui state rendendo la vostra vita pi\u00f9 difficile del dovuto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Confucio disse una volta: \"La vita \u00e8 davvero semplice, ma noi ci ostiniamo a renderla complicata\".<\/p>\n

Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily basis, we tend to make even more complicated, with our minds becoming gradually disillusioned by negative external influences.<\/p>\n

We hesitate and question our instincts, we\u2019re afraid of stumbling and falling down when a new obstacle arises. Life is becoming harder and harder, and the only thing we\u2019re doing is losing touch with who we really are and what we really need. Acknowledging the main reasons why you\u2019re making your life harder than it has to be will be your first step in simplifying things and living a happier life.<\/p>\n

1. Ci si confronta con altre persone<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Il confronto \u00e8 il ladro della gioia. Avere un modello di vita che vi aiuti a svilupparvi e a migliorarvi \u00e8 sempre una buona cosa, ma paragonarvi a persone che ritenete migliori di voi non fa altro che farvi sentire amareggiati e invidiosi. L'esistenza dei social media rende tutto questo ancora pi\u00f9 difficile, con tutti questi modi di vivere irrealistici, condivisi con tutti con la migliore illuminazione e il miglior filtro.<\/p>\n

Not a single person in this world is the same, has the same life or chooses the exact same path in life, so don\u2019t compare yourself to other people; instead, confrontatevi con la versione attuale di voi stessi e usatela per migliorare.<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Partecipate al dramma<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Start talking only about the good things in people, in life. Even if you don\u2019t feel like doing that – do it! Make yourself get used to that and slowly get out of all the drama circles around you. Imagine a life without gossip, verbal defamation.<\/p>\n

Encourage people around you to do the same, and those who don\u2019t support you in that can be ignored. Walk away from drama and incredible things will happen when you allontanarsi da tutta la negativit\u00e0<\/a> e coloro che lo creano.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re too afraid<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t take risks and let your fears make decisions for you. The list of fears an average grown-up has can go on forever, like fear of failure, or rejection, of other people\u2019s opinions, etc. Things like that will only hold you down and make you miss out on so many things in life.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che le paure esistono solo nella vostra mente<\/a>e pi\u00f9 ci credete, pi\u00f9 le vostre paure scompariranno. Sarete pi\u00f9 sicuri di voi stessi, correrete pi\u00f9 rischi e non vi lascerete mai sfuggire un'occasione.<\/p>\n

4. Vi preoccupate molto di ci\u00f2 che pensano gli altri<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

People are talking behind your back? Don\u2019t worry about that – worry about the moment they stop. There will always be people who like you and people who don\u2019t; that\u2019s just how life works. The sooner you realize that and stop caring about it, the sooner you\u2019ll be happier and have better control over your life.<\/p>\n

5. In attesa di un segnale<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Purtroppo, molte persone aspettano un segno da Dio, o da qualche altro essere spirituale, prima di prendere una decisione o una mossa importante nella loro vita. Prendete in mano la vostra vita, trovate un modo per trarne il meglio, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 meglio contribuire a plasmare il destino che esserne governati.<\/p>\n

6. Vi aspettate che la vita sia sempre felice<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The world is a cruel place and full of suffering, heartbreaks, and loss. These things can affect your happiness, but you should not lose hope. Also having unrealistic expectations will make you end up disappointed. This doesn\u2019t mean you should set the bar low – you should still have high standards for yourself and how others treat you, but there’s always a line where those high standards become excessive.<\/p>\n

Life is about balance. \u2018In suffering you can find great strength, in heartbreak, you can find resilience, and in loss you can find a renewed appreciation for life\u2019.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Confucius once said, \u201cLife is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.\u201d Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":6433,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lua-valentia-210488.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}