{"id":64274,"date":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64274"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","slug":"ogni-dolore-di-perdita-racconta-una-storia-damore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ogni-dolore-di-perdita-racconta-una-storia-damore\/","title":{"rendered":"Ogni dolore della perdita racconta una storia d'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rimanere vulnerabili dopo essere stati feriti \u00e8 come andare in battaglia senza armatura.<\/p>\n

No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again…and I was hurt again.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 spesso accompagnato dal dolore. Il dolore \u00e8 disapprovato e le persone lo evitano come la peste. Ma vogliono comunque l'amore.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, attraversare il dolore significa scegliere l'amore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

At one point, when I hadn\u2019t yet realized that, I cursed your name and I cursed love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi maledissi per essermi innamorata sempre della stessa cosa.<\/p>\n

I spent my days in bed, crying. I felt nauseous when I didn\u2019t eat for days.<\/p>\n

My head swam with thoughts I couldn\u2019t say out loud. My heart was in pieces. Stavo soffrendo.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In seguito ho imparato che il dolore emotivo si manifesta fisicamente per ricordarci che abbiamo bisogno di guarire. Il nostro corpo \u00e8 miracoloso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happened. Time passed and I started to heal.<\/p>\n

Ho accettato che la vita \u00e8 disordinata e difficile da capire.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But sometimes, at the moment when you\u2019re least expecting it little pieces start coming together and forming a coherent whole.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when you start to connect the dots of your experiences and understand the answer to the question you\u2019ve asked so many times: Perch\u00e9 io?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

In quel momento il vostro dolore si riempie di significato e capite che ci sono momenti in cui l'amore pu\u00f2 essere trovato solo attraverso il dolore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sebbene abbia imparato a conoscere il dolore attraverso la partenza, ho imparato che il dolore pu\u00f2 essere pi\u00f9 sottile.<\/p>\n

Pain can be uncertainty about the future, expectations we can\u2019t meet, unconscious trauma, a letdown.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, attraverso il dolore, l'amore vuole prepararci. Vuole che allarghiamo la nostra prospettiva e approfondiamo la nostra capacit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

It teaches us we can\u2019t be defeated.<\/p>\n

Sia l'amore che il dolore ci insegnano che la vita \u00e8 fatta di cose buone e cattive e che ogni cosa nella vita \u00e8 un'occasione per crescere verso qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grande o per tornare nella terra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dipende dalla nostra scelta.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per passare attraverso il dolore e guarire \u00e8 capire il vero significato dell'amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Love is unexpected and it doesn\u2019t know limits. Everyone has their own way of finding it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s okay to search for the kind of love you need.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to search for a person who understands the way you love and need to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, le vere qualit\u00e0 dell'amore sono sempre le stesse.<\/p>\n

True love doesn\u2019t hurt you on purpose. True love doesn\u2019t lie to you.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Il vero amore ti accetta nonostante i tuoi difetti. Il vero amore vede oltre il vostro corpo.<\/p>\n

True love isn\u2019t scared when the thing goes wrong. True love accepts the feeling of pain and every other imperfetto<\/em> emozione.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s wise enough to know that perfect doesn\u2019t exist and imperfection is always a chance for growth.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you meet the love you need, you\u2019ll know it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A man who gives you that love will make sure to choose you every day and won\u2019t make you question his feelings.<\/p>\n

Non mancher\u00e0 mai di ricordarvi quanto siete importanti e preziosi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Si prender\u00e0 cura di voi e vi dar\u00e0 fiducia solo perch\u00e9 ama vedervi felici.<\/p>\n

Vi rispetter\u00e0 sempre e per sempre perch\u00e9 vede il vostro vero valore.<\/p>\n

Nella sua mente e nel suo cuore, sarete l'unica persona che vedr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accadr\u00e0, ringrazierete il vostro dolore e abbraccerete l'amore ritrovato.<\/p>\n

Everything that happened before will be just a shadow that vanishes when you\u2019re surrounded by light.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll smile because rather than let the pain turn your heart into something ugly you allowed it to blossom into love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"OGNI<\/p>\n

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Remaining vulnerable after being hurt feels like going into battle without any armor. No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need. That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again…and I was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64274"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64274\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}