{"id":6430,"date":"2020-07-06T09:58:38","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6430"},"modified":"2022-02-28T12:18:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T12:18:21","slug":"per-favore-non-lasciatevi-spingere-via","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/per-favore-non-lasciatevi-spingere-via\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti prego, non lasciare che ti respinga"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/angelo-caerlang\/2017\/03\/a-final-letter-to-my-first-love\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Questa \u00e8 una lettera a<\/a> the person who I see is making an effort and this is a letter for the person I just don\u2019t know how to keep.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m so sorry, I know you\u2019re trying your best and I know you\u2019re busting your ass just to see a little sign coming from me and each time you leave, you leave disappointed more and more.<\/p>\n<p>Tu continui a provarci e io continuo a respingerti. Continui a evocare le mie emozioni e io continuo a rispondere con una faccia vuota.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, I don\u2019t know what to do with you. The ugly truth is I know you\u2019re a good person and I\u2019d hate to mess you up. And I will because that\u2019s what I do.<\/p>\n<p>Trovo difficile amare, dato che ho amato e sono finita distrutta. Da allora, se amo, lo faccio in silenzio. Mi difendo con tutta la forza che ho in me.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you haven\u2019t seen me respond to any of your emotions, that\u2019s why I keep remaining blank-faced.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96087\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-young-brunette-wearing-hat-and-brown-jacket-outside.jpg\" alt=\"bella giovane bruna con cappello e giacca marrone all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-young-brunette-wearing-hat-and-brown-jacket-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-young-brunette-wearing-hat-and-brown-jacket-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-young-brunette-wearing-hat-and-brown-jacket-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What you don\u2019t know is that I\u2019m everything but indifferent towards you. I want to let you in, I just don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, don\u2019t let my past push you away.<\/strong> Don\u2019t let what I\u2019ve been through scare you away.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I\u2019m like this because of what previously happened to me, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/steffi-erbilgin\/no-were-not-all-equal-and-no-you-cant-be-anything-you-want-to-be_b_9228200.html\" rel=\"noopener\">but I\u2019d love to believe that not everybody is the same.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d love to think that there are good men out there who\u2019ll fight for the people they love. If you love me, fight for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, don\u2019t let my doubts push you away.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get scared of my questions, don\u2019t let me terrify you with all the interrogation I subject you to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I just doubt everything there is and it takes time for me to get used to good people. There were too many bad ones and I just can\u2019t go with the flow.<\/p>\n<p>Se mi lascio trasportare dall'acqua ancora una volta, potrei finire per cadere su una cascata troppo alta. Se mi ami veramente, fai sparire i miei dubbi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96088\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hugging-couple-looking-outside-at-home-autumn.jpg\" alt=\"coppia abbracciata che guarda fuori a casa autunno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hugging-couple-looking-outside-at-home-autumn.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hugging-couple-looking-outside-at-home-autumn-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hugging-couple-looking-outside-at-home-autumn-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, don\u2019t let my fear push you away.<\/strong> Ho bisogno che siate coraggiosi. Ho bisogno che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-solo-bisogno-di-sapere-che-non-mi-lascera-andare\/\">non lasciarmi andare<\/a>. I need you to be confident and I know it\u2019s hard when all I\u2019m doing is projecting my insecurities on you.<\/p>\n<p>I know I\u2019ve said \u2018no\u2019 to you so many times, but I did it thinking it\u2019s better to save myself now, to cut it all in the roots before I\u2019ve fallen for you completely.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m only scared of the possibility that this, what we have, might end in the chaos, and truth to be told, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-se-sono-forte-non-riesco-a-superare-la-mia-debolezza-per-te\/\">I don\u2019t know if I\u2019m strong enough<\/a> per affrontare un'altra tempesta. Se mi ami, dimostrami che posso fidarmi di te.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please, don\u2019t allow me to stay in my comfort zone.<\/strong> I want to stay single not because I\u2019m afraid of dating, but because I\u2019m afraid of being broken again. It so much easier to not let anyone in.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s way easier to be lonely than to love and be betrayed. But if I don\u2019t let anyone in soon, my warmth for people might be lost.<\/p>\n<p>Potrei diventare una causa persa e potrei dimenticare quanto sia sorprendente e riscaldante amare ed essere amati.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza seduta in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I might forget how incredible my hands feel in the hands of somebody else I love and how it\u2019s amazing to have someone\u2019s arms to crawl into after a long day. If you love me, make me want more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ti prego, salvami da me stesso.<\/strong> You\u2019re the only one who cared to come this close. I know I\u2019m a tough fortress and that my walls are hard to breach, but I might just open the door to my life if you help me.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2016\/08\/if-you-love-me-dont-let-me-get-away\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>If you love me, don\u2019t give up on me.<\/strong><\/a> Show me how love feels again. Show me that your love is worth the risk. Actually, don\u2019t make me gamble, make me play safe.<\/p>\n<p>Far sparire i miei dubbi, dire addio alle mie paure, rompere la mia zona di comfort e cacciare il mio passato dalla mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019re not guilty of my previous heartbreaks, but neither am I. I didn\u2019t deserve all the pain I got. The only way to save myself was to guard up and that\u2019s what I did.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola seduta sul tetto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now that you\u2019ve come along, I don\u2019t know what to do. I feel like a sleeping beauty who needs your kiss to wake up. I\u2019m not going to let you in on my own. But you can help me. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I promise you, once I feel free to love you, I\u2019ll love you like nobody loved you ever before. I\u2019ll love you with my whole body and soul.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What you don\u2019t know is that broken girls love beautifully. But only if somebody tries hard enough. I want you to be that somebody.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/5-motivi-per-allontanare-un-amore\/\">5 motivi per cui si allontana la persona amata<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96086 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ti prego, non lasciare che ti respinga\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a letter to the person who I see is making an effort and this is a letter for the person I just don\u2019t know how to keep. I\u2019m so sorry, I know you\u2019re trying your best and I know you\u2019re busting your ass just to see a little sign coming from me and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96085,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Please-Don\u2019t-Let-Me-Push-You-Away.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6430"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6430\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}