{"id":64320,"date":"2020-04-19T17:44:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T17:44:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64320"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:37:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:37:07","slug":"stanchi-di-inseguire-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stanchi-di-inseguire-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Questo \u00e8 per tutte le ragazze che sono stanche di rincorrere qualcuno"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can&#8217;t live without that person?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He\u2019s the man of your dreams and you\u2019re hoping that one day he&#8217;ll feel the same about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64322\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola e preoccupata con pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After some time, though, you start to realize that it\u2019s impossible to make someone love you. You constantly tried to get closer to him, but it actually pushed him away.<\/p>\n<p>Avete dato il massimo per quella persona e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/non-perdere-te-stessa-con-qualcuno-a-cui-non-interessa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">da qualche parte lungo la strada, hai perso te stesso<\/span><\/a>. Vi siete stancati di dover dimostrare a qualcuno il vostro valore e il vostro amore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64347\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-herself-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che si guarda allo specchio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-herself-in-the-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-herself-in-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-herself-in-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You got sick of chasing someone who&#8217;ll never be able to appreciate all those things you did for him.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco alcuni consigli che vi aiuteranno a lasciarlo andare e ad andare avanti con la vostra vita.<\/p>\n<h2>1. You weren\u2019t meant for each other<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64325\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-in-conflict-standing-on-the-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia in conflitto in piedi sul ponte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-in-conflict-standing-on-the-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-in-conflict-standing-on-the-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-couple-in-conflict-standing-on-the-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n<strong>If you are destined to be together, then you won&#8217;t have to chase him. And if you are chasing him, it means that he isn&#8217;t the right guy for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Then you have only one option left: to let him go. Mr. Right will come someday and he&#8217;ll show you what true love is.<\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t have to try that hard to win and keep that person because he&#8217;ll choose you himself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64326\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta accanto al suo ragazzo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Give up on him. You deserve someone who&#8217;ll love you and choose you no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Chasing him will only bring you more pain because he won&#8217;t change. If you don&#8217;t want to spend your life in pain, you have to let him go.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Iniziare a inseguire l'amore per se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64327\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-attractive-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna attraente che guarda lontano\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-attractive-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-attractive-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-attractive-woman-looking-away-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nRemind yourself of your worth and never let anyone disrespect you. If you lack self-respect, then you&#8217;ll allow others to treat you how they want, without any respect.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you respect yourself enough, then you&#8217;ll be able to walk away from or let go of people who make you unhappy or unloved.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Meritate di essere inseguiti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64328\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"bella ragazza seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/meritate-di-essere-inseguiti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re the one who deserves to be chased<\/span><\/a>. Se dimostrate a un uomo quanto lo amate ogni giorno, \u00e8 davvero troppo aspettarsi che lui faccia lo stesso con voi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are a unique, one-of-a-kind girl and if someone doesn&#8217;t see it, then it&#8217;s his loss. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You don&#8217;t have to make him see it, because he&#8217;ll realize it once he loses you. <\/strong><strong>And then he&#8217;ll be left with a broken heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64329\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi meritate qualcuno che vi veda al peggio ma che scelga comunque di restare.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who&#8217;ll love you the strongest even when you are being the most difficult to love.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Don\u2019t ever humiliate yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64332\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa che guarda attraverso una finestra piovosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nInseguirlo vi far\u00e0 sempre sembrare disperate e patetiche.<\/p>\n<p>So che il fatto di perderlo e di non poter fare nulla ti sta facendo impazzire.  Ma non dovete mai mostrargli che siete alla ricerca disperata del suo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Siate coraggiosi. So che vedere un uomo che ami lasciare la tua vita fa molto male. Ma dovete sorridere e sopportarlo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che respira profondamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-taking-deep-breath-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn\u2019t even deserve you.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t do that to yourself. You know you are better than that \u2013 that you deserve more than that.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You can\u2019t force him to love you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64336\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-on-the-bridge-in-front-of-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in piedi sul ponte davanti al suo fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-on-the-bridge-in-front-of-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-on-the-bridge-in-front-of-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-on-the-bridge-in-front-of-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nChasing someone won&#8217;t make them love you. That&#8217;s only how you&#8217;ll push them further away. To be honest, no one likes pathetic people who just don&#8217;t know when to stop.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to understand that the harsh reality is you can never make someone love you. Love is something that can&#8217;t be forced.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se lo ami davvero, non puoi fare altro che aspettare. Smettete di inseguirlo e vedrete cosa succeder\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64337\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-on-the-balcony-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata sul balcone che guarda lontano\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-on-the-balcony-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-on-the-balcony-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-on-the-balcony-looking-away-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe it&#8217;ll make him realize that no one will love him as much as you do, and he&#8217;ll start to appreciate all those things you\u2019ve done for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe then he&#8217;ll start chasing you. If he doesn&#8217;t, then it means that it&#8217;s time to let him go forever.<\/p>\n<p>Accettatelo e andate avanti, non importa quanto sia doloroso. Il tempo guarir\u00e0 tutte le ferite.<\/p>\n<h2>6. You\u2019ll be left with a broken heart<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64338\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange con le mani sul viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nInseguirlo vi porter\u00e0 solo al crepacuore. E la colpa sar\u00e0 solo delle vostre aspettative.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you&#8217;re full of expectations that this time something will change \u2013 that he&#8217;ll finally love you the same.<\/p>\n<p>But every time those expectations will lead you to disappointment. Disappointment after disappointment, you&#8217;ll finally start losing hope.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64339\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-wall-alone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul muro da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-wall-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-wall-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-wall-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dovete sapere che potete fare molto meglio. Dovete apprezzarvi abbastanza da sapere quando \u00e8 il momento di andarvene. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lasciatelo-andare-e-mantenete-voi-stessi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Devi lasciarlo andare per non perdere te stessa. <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Chasing the man you love won&#8217;t bring you anything good. It will only lead you to an emotional handicap.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll be left with self-esteem issues and not be able to move on for a long time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64340\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-middle-of-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange in mezzo al campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-middle-of-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-middle-of-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-middle-of-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Chasing him is not how you&#8217;ll win him or keep him in your life. Some things are just meant to happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> And some people just aren&#8217;t destined to be in your life. As much as you try, you can&#8217;t fight destiny.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64344\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone.jpg\" alt=\"Questo \u00e8 per tutte le ragazze che sono stanche di rincorrere qualcuno\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can&#8217;t live without that person? You&#8217;re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He\u2019s the man of your dreams and you\u2019re hoping that one day he&#8217;ll feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":64342,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-For-All-Girls-Who-Are-Tired-Of-Chasing-Someone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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