{"id":64682,"date":"2020-04-21T08:21:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T08:21:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64682"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:09","slug":"sei-con-luomo-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-con-luomo-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Gli appuntamenti moderni non fanno schifo, ma solo con l'uomo sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Con chiunque si parli, tutti vi diranno che incontri nell'era moderna<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 l'incubo peggiore.<\/p>\n

Rarely anyone knows what\u2019s going on in their lives, everyone sleeps around, and almost no one is in a real relationship.<\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, right? After all, you\u2019re the one who is fighting the same battles with your so-called boyfriend as well.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato cos\u00ec fin dal primo giorno. You\u2019ve been trapped in a seemingly endless circle of make-ups and breakups, vanity games, tears, laughter, and a whole rollercoaster of emotions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 accaduto fino ad oggi. Quest'uomo continua a lasciarvi e a tornare a suo piacimento.<\/p>\n

Silly you, you always take him back. After all, you\u2019re the one who agreed to this kind of relationship the first time when you took his sorry ass back, even though you should have sent him to hell.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019re perfectly aware of how things are. Yes, you hope that he will change, but you don\u2019t deceive yourself believing in his faithfulness and loyalty.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, he probably keeps on seeing other girls and you don\u2019t know where he spends most of his time. You\u2019re in no way involved in his life and you don\u2019t feel a part of it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent months trying to get to the bottom of his feelings and your main occupation in life has become decoding this guy\u2019s mixed signals.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Your entire existence has turned into waiting for him to remember that you exist \u2013 for him to text you or show the slightest sign of affection.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto questo tempo, you\u2019re not even sure whether he is playing mind games with you or just doesn\u2019t care.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sta facendo il difficile perch\u00e9 vuole che tu ti innamori ancora di pi\u00f9 di lui? O non vuole essere scoperto perch\u00e9 vuole rimanere un giocatore?<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un fobico degli impegni<\/span><\/a> o semplicemente non vuole impegnarsi con te?<\/p>\n

Is it true that he doesn\u2019t believe in labeling things? Or does he not want to get exclusive so he can have an excuse to keep on cheating on you?<\/p>\n

It would be logical to ask him all of these questions, right? Well, sadly, that\u2019s not possible.<\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019re not his girlfriend. Besides, the truth is you\u2019re too scared you\u2019ll chase him away if you open your heart to him.<\/p>\n

So, you accept this kind of almost relationship and pretend you\u2019re perfectly okay with it. You act like you couldn\u2019t care less about him either.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you\u2019re just trying to fit in.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Everyone around you lives similar lives, so there must be something wrong with you if you\u2019re the only one who can\u2019t seem to cope with the practices of modern dating.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, lasciate che vi dica una verit\u00e0 che apre gli occhi. Modern dating doesn\u2019t actually suck \u2013 your boyfriend does.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see, when you find the right person, the age in which you meet becomes completely irrelevant. When someone loves you, he doesn\u2019t care about trends and society.<\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>\n

In pratica, this guy you\u2019re with is a jerk and he would be one in all eras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s just using modern dating as an excuse. He\u2019s using it to justify his lack of emotions and morals.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ti ha amato<\/span><\/a>, he wouldn\u2019t have treated you this way. He would respect you and give you the place you deserve in his life.<\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>\n

Se fosse un vero uomo, non userebbe mai il tuo cuore gentile. Non continuerebbe mai a ferire deliberatamente i tuoi sentimenti e ti darebbe ci\u00f2 che meriti.<\/p>\n

If this guy was mature enough, he wouldn\u2019t have the need to boost his ego this way. He wouldn\u2019t have to humiliate you in order to feel like more of a man.<\/p>\n

Se avesse voluto stare con te davvero, lo avrebbe fatto.<\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, avere una relazione impegnata ed essere fedeli a una sola persona non passa mai di moda.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t blame modern dating for your pseudo-relationship. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Date la colpa al marmocchio immaturo che avete al vostro fianco e, alla fine, date la colpa alle vostre scelte sbagliate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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