{"id":64697,"date":"2020-04-21T08:57:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T08:57:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64697"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:27:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:27:22","slug":"e-tempo-di-lasciarti-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tempo-di-lasciarti-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel profondo sapevo che era ora di lasciarti andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

For a long time, I wasn’t happy. I knew that something was missing. You weren’t the same. That sparkle you had in your eyes when we talked was gone.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t help but notice it, you changed and so did your feelings. You weren’t man enough to tell me that you’d stopped loving me.<\/p>\n

You became so cold. I couldn’t recognize you anymore. Sometimes it seemed to me like I was dating a complete stranger. I knew it was time for me to leave.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I couldn’t. I couldn’t let you go even though, deep down I knew it was time to do so.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every time I wanted to do it, my heart would skip a beat, like it was trying to say that it still wasn’t ready.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I couldn’t go against my heart. I knew how much love for you it had carried all these years.<\/p>\n

\"Nel<\/p>\n

Chi pu\u00f2 biasimarlo, it didn’t know that you would break it<\/span><\/a> in un milione di pezzi.<\/p>\n

La colpa \u00e8 mia. Sono stata cos\u00ec ingenua a fidarmi di te e a darti tutto il mio cuore. Hai tenuto il mio cuore nelle tue mani. In un certo senso, ti ho permesso di spezzarlo.<\/p>\n

I am so very sorry for that. I should have let you go the moment I realized that you didn’t love me in the same way. Before you broke my heart.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Now that ‘sorry’ doesn’t mean anything because the pain is here. It’s still here, it still hurts like the first day and I don’t know when it is going to stop hurting.<\/p>\n

Honestly, sometimes I fear that it will never stop. Sometimes I’m worried about my future because what if I never gather the courage to move on?<\/p>\n

A volte ho questi pensieri oscuri che mi spaventano a morte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Just like the thought of losing you scared me once. I thought that I wouldn’t survive if I lost you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma io l'ho fatto. E so che  Un giorno andr\u00f2 avanti<\/span><\/a> and leave you in the past. I just need time. Time to grieve. Time to heal. Time to forgive. Time to forget…<\/p>\n

Oh, forget. Trust me, that’s all I want right now. I want to forget everything. I want to forget you, your sweet face, and all the good things you did for me because they are making me miss you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Queste cose mi fanno soffrire ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Voglio dimenticare tutte le volte che mi hai detto che mi avresti amata per il resto della tua vita e che nulla avrebbe mai potuto separarci. Quelle parole sono impresse nel mio cuore.<\/p>\n

E soprattutto voglio dimenticare come mi sento ora. Tutto questo dolore e questa rabbia.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Questa delusione e frustrazione. Voglio dimenticare tutto ci\u00f2 che mi impedisce di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

I really thought that we were meant to last forever. Now it’s hard for me to accept the fact that our relationship ended. It’s hard to accept that you are no longer a part of my life.<\/p>\n

Ho aspettato troppo a lungo un qualche segno da parte tua. Qualcosa che mi dicesse che mi sbagliavo e che mi amavi ancora come un tempo.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Speravo davvero di essere paranoica, che sarebbe passato e che saremmo stati di nuovo felici come prima. Che saremmo stati follemente innamorati, come all'inizio.<\/p>\n

That was my mistake. I should’ve listened to my inner voice. It told me that it was time to let you go. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Diavolo, mi stava gridando che avevo bisogno di salvarmi e l'unico modo per farlo era lasciarti andare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Delaying the fact that I needed to let you go didn’t change anything. In fact, it even brought me greater pain.<\/p>\n

I believed that love is the only important thing in life. But it’s not. Self-respect is also important.<\/p>\n

E nessun tipo di amore varr\u00e0 mai la pena di sacrificare la propria dignit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La mia decisione lasciarti finalmente andare \u00e8 stato un cambiamento di vita.<\/span><\/a> Ammetto che \u00e8 stato doloroso e che fa ancora male, ma sto lentamente imparando a trovare conforto nel mio stesso dolore.<\/p>\n

Sto imparando lentamente a continuare la mia vita, senza il tuo amore.<\/p>\n

\"Nel<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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