{"id":64961,"date":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","slug":"ragazza-abituata-agli-addii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-abituata-agli-addii\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che si \u00e8 abituata agli addii"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da quando avete memoria, le persone vi hanno abbandonato in un modo o nell'altro.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always the same; as soon as you  <\/span>abbassare la guardia<\/span><\/a> e inizi a credere a qualcuno, ti dimostrano sempre che ti sbagli.<\/p>\n

As soon as you get used to someone\u2019s presence, they make sure to show you it was the biggest mistake you could have made. Because people always leave and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ti lasciano per qualcun altro o perch\u00e9 non si sono mai interessati abbastanza a te.<\/strong> They forget that you ever existed while you\u2019re stuck with your memories.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been like this ever since you can remember, with your family, friends and, finally, with men. Sooner or later, everyone told you their final goodbye.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know why but everyone you ever loved abandoned you at one point in your life.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ti hanno lasciato da solo a combattere i tuoi demoni e nessuno ha mai mantenuto la promessa di restare al tuo fianco per sempre.<\/p>\n

All'inizio eravate convinti di essere voi il problema. Dovevate fare qualcosa per scacciare tutti.<\/p>\n

Vi siete sentiti in colpa e avete continuato a cercare una spiegazione. Why couldn\u2019t you be good enough for someone to stay?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

What\u2019s wrong with you? Why do people walk away from you?<\/p>\n

Poi, dopo un po', ci si abitua. Questo valeva soprattutto per i ragazzi, ai quali non permettevi mai di credere alle loro false promesse.<\/p>\n

Sapevi che tutte le tue storie d'amore erano temporaneo<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Che sarebbe arrivato un giorno in cui ognuno dei tuoi fidanzati ti avrebbe voltato le spalle e ti avrebbe lasciato come hanno fatto tutti gli altri prima di loro.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sapevi che la tua felicit\u00e0 ha sempre avuto una data di scadenza<\/strong>. Quindi, vi siete goduti il momento in cui \u00e8 durato.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, allo stesso tempo, eri sempre all'erta. Non importa quanto le cose andassero bene con qualcuno, non vi siete mai concessi di rilassarvi troppo.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, la fine era sempre vicina. Era meglio aspettarsela che lasciarsi cogliere impreparati.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Well, even though all of this sounds sad and it definitely did change the essence of your being, let me tell you that it\u2019s not so bad being the girl who got used to goodbyes.<\/p>\n

Non siete consapevoli di quanto tutto questo vi abbia reso forti. Tutte le persone di cui vi siete occupati vi hanno abbandonato a un certo punto, quindi cosa potrebbe farvi del male adesso?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s imaginable for you to always get heartbroken by some unimportant guy who goes through your life with you. But basically, it is impossible for anyone\u2019s departure to destroy you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019re still hurt by your losses. However, you know that no matter who you lose, you\u2019ll always keep on living.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Getting used to goodbyes made you completely independent. It helped you realize that you don\u2019t need anyone and especially not a man to survive this harsh world.<\/p>\n

It turned you into a girl who doesn\u2019t take crap from anyone. After all, when you\u2019re aware that you can make it without your partner perfectly well, why would you put up with him?<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, invece di accontentarsi di meno<\/span><\/a>, you became the one who said goodbye. The one who didn\u2019t stick around and the one who left when she was not treated right.<\/p>\n

Dovresti essere orgoglioso di te stesso per questo. Tutte queste persone orribili ti sono servite almeno per qualche motivo. Ti hanno insegnato a non avere paura degli addii.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to give you a different perspective on things. I\u2019m here to promise you that you don\u2019t have to get used to departures any longer.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to give you hope that one of these days, someone special will walk into your life. When he does, he\u2019ll never walk out of it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you that when you least expect it, you\u2019ll meet a man who will never leave your side. A man who will love you, no matter what.<\/p>\n

This man\u2019s love won\u2019t be temporary. It won\u2019t have an expiration date and it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

I promise you one thing: When this man comes, he\u2019ll come to stay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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