{"id":65091,"date":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65091"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","slug":"smettete-di-lottare-per-lamore-e-iniziate-a-lottare-per-voi-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettete-di-lottare-per-lamore-e-iniziate-a-lottare-per-voi-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettere di lottare per l'amore, iniziare a lottare per se stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non voglio mentire e dirvi che l'amore romantico dovrebbe essere l'ultimo dei vostri pensieri.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being.<\/p>\n<p>Che vi piaccia o meno ammetterlo, una relazione sentimentale sana pu\u00f2 migliorare notevolmente la qualit\u00e0 della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 rendervi pi\u00f9 felici e soddisfatti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65105 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice con zaino\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-backpack-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should chase it at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you should make it the centre of your universe or that you should disregard all of your other successes just because you don\u2019t have a happy love life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It doesn\u2019t mean that you should fight for it, at the risk of destroying yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Because at the end of the day, it\u2019s always better to lose a romance than to lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65106 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"donna con berretto e giacca nera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-cap-and-jacket-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to claim that a mature relationship doesn\u2019t require time, patience, and energy.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, bisogna lavorarci su. Alcuni dicono addirittura che il vero amore va combattuto e che richiede molte battaglie per essere vinto.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>it is one thing to put effort into making your relationship function, it\u2019s another to put your entire life on hold just to prevent it from tearing apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo vale soprattutto se il vostro fidanzato non \u00e8 un vostro alleato e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/e-cosi-che-si-sa-di-aver-trovato-il-proprio-partner-nel-crimine\/\">partner nel crimine<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65107 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top nero che beve caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-drinking-coffee-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he is the one you\u2019re fighting against and your biggest opponent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In questo caso,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-lottare-per-lui-e-andarsene\/\"> smettere di lottare per l'amore<\/a> e iniziare a lottare per se stessi<\/strong>. Because you\u2019re the one who matters more than anything.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not selfish to understand that the relationship you have with yourself is more important than any relationship you have with someone else, including your romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65108 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna con camicia marrone a maniche lunghe\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-long-sleeved-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Smettete di fare sacrifici per salvare quest'uomo.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that your efforts are in vain because he doesn\u2019t want to be saved and that you can\u2019t be the one to rescue him.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, una volta constatato come stanno andando le cose, correte a salvarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Salvatevi, prima che sia troppo tardi per fare qualcosa e prima che diventi irrecuperabile.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65109 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappotto che indossa le cuffie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-coat-wearing-headphones-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Stop chasing him and accept that sadly, he doesn\u2019t want to be caught.<\/p>\n<p>Stop wasting your precious time and youth on this man who clearly isn\u2019t capable of giving you what you need and want.<\/p>\n<p>Smettete di accontentarvi delle briciole della sua attenzione perch\u00e9 <strong>at the end of the day, you\u2019re not actually <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ce-unenorme-differenza-tra-lottare-per-lamore-e-implorarlo\/\">lottando per il suo amore<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re begging for it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that: you\u2019re also losing your dignity and pride along the way. So <strong>invece di inseguire un uomo, iniziate a inseguire le vostre ambizioni e i vostri sogni<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65110 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna con maglione bianco che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-sweater-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Redirect all of your energy towards your goals and don\u2019t give up until you accomplish each one of them.<\/p>\n<p>Smettere di mettere lui al primo posto. Accettate il fatto che la vostra relazione \u00e8 una priorit\u00e0 solo per voi, mentre per lui \u00e8 sempre al secondo posto.<\/p>\n<p>Understand that you\u2019re dealing with a selfish jerk who only thinks of his needs and couldn\u2019t care less about your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65111 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna su un campo di girasoli\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-on-sunflower-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Smettete di pensare che il vostro futuro sia uguale al futuro della vostra relazione. Smettete di legare la vostra felicit\u00e0 in generale alla felicit\u00e0 in amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, una relazione sana pu\u00f2 migliorare la qualit\u00e0 della vita.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice having someone \u2013 someone who loves you no matter what and someone to hold your back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65112 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su sedia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-4-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/9-cose-che-succedono-quando-si-e-single-e-si-e-in-crisi\/\">happy while you\u2019re single.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to fulfill certain society standards and that once you do, everything in your life will magically fall into place.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what: it won\u2019t! If you&#8217;re miserable when single, you\u2019ll be even more miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Your problems won\u2019t go away the moment your romance starts to function and your life won\u2019t suddenly start to make sense in that second.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65113 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sotto un albero verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-under-green-tree-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, please stop being obsessed with finding the perfect match and a flawless romantic relationship because it won\u2019t bring you the changes you expect.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, work on the relationship you have with yourself and make it as amazing as possible since that\u2019s the one that matters the most.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto:<strong> iniziate ad amare e rispettare di pi\u00f9 voi stessi. Perch\u00e9 nessuno lo far\u00e0 al posto vostro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65118 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Smettere di lottare per l&#039;amore, iniziare a lottare per se stessi \" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I won\u2019t lie and tell you that romantic love should be the last thing on your mind. Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being. Whether you like to admit it or not, a healthy romantic relationship can significantly improve the quality of your life. It can make you happier&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":65104,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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