{"id":65123,"date":"2020-04-22T08:22:14","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T08:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65123"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:51","slug":"non-ti-lascia-crescere-lascialo-andare-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ti-lascia-crescere-lascialo-andare-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non ti lascia crescere, devi lasciarlo andare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C'\u00e8 una verit\u00e0 che nessuno pu\u00f2 contestare: la maggior parte dei <strong>gli uomini hanno paura del successo e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/le-donne-forti-hanno-bisogno-di-uomini-ancora-piu-forti\/\">donne forti<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, not all men feel this way but weak and selfish men are definitely terrified of independent women who don\u2019t need them to survive or function.<\/p>\n<p>You see, when you\u2019re involved with a guy who hasn\u2019t made anything out of his life, he can\u2019t stand the fact that you are better than him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65143 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-orange-flower.jpg\" alt=\"donna con in mano un fiore arancione\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-orange-flower.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-orange-flower-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-orange-flower-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il fatto che tu guadagni pi\u00f9 soldi di lui, che la gente ti ami o che tu abbia costruito una carriera di maggior successo lo sta divorando.<\/p>\n<p>Di conseguenza, <strong>la sua invidia lo trasforma nel vostro peggior nemico<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Sfrutta ogni occasione possibile per tenervi fermi e per sabotare il vostro cammino verso il successo.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di rimuovere gli ostacoli dal vostro cammino, diventa il vostro pi\u00f9 grande ostacolo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65144 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-beige-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna in t-shirt beige girocollo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-beige-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-beige-crew-neck-t-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-beige-crew-neck-t-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Invece di aiutarvi a scacciare le vostre sfide, si assicura che passiate l'inferno prima di raggiungere qualsiasi obiettivo vi prefiggete.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo ragazzo \u00e8 chiaramente intimidito da te<\/strong>. Si vede come un uomo macho che ha bisogno di essere al di sopra della sua partner femminile.<\/p>\n<p>However, the situation is actually the complete opposite. He is a narcissist in disguise who feels threatened and vulnerable when you\u2019re in front of him.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, niente di tutto questo \u00e8 colpa tua, anche se lui fa del suo meglio per dare la colpa a te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65145 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You shouldn\u2019t feel guilty for being too much for the wrong men.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s his fault that he can\u2019t keep up with you. He is the weak one, the incapable one and the one who isn\u2019t enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, invece di lavorare su se stesso, sfrutta ogni occasione per sminuire il vostro valore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Invece di cercare di aumentare il proprio valore, fa di tutto per abbassarvi al suo livello.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65147 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-fence-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna appoggiata a una recinzione bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-fence-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-fence-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-fence-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This man is perfectly aware that sooner or later, you\u2019ll outgrow him.<\/p>\n<p>That one of these days, you\u2019ll take off your rose-tinted glasses and see him for who he really is\u2014an immature boy whose life isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>He is terrified that once the butterflies are gone and once you see his true colors, you\u2019ll realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65148 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-looking-sideways.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda di lato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-looking-sideways.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-looking-sideways-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-looking-sideways-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At that moment, you\u2019ll wonder what you have been doing next to someone so beneath you, that you\u2019ll walk away from him and never come back.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia,<strong> he can\u2019t afford to lose you. Not because he loves you but because he knows that you\u2019re a catch.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sa che non potr\u00e0 mai trovare un'altra donna come lei, quindi deve trovare un modo per tenerla al suo fianco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65149 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-in-front-of-wooden-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi davanti a una parete di legno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-in-front-of-wooden-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-in-front-of-wooden-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-in-front-of-wooden-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Infatti,<strong> il modo migliore per impedirvi di lasciarlo \u00e8 distruggere la vostra autostima.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s to cut off your branches in time and not to let you grow.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, in that case, it\u2019s time to let this man go as soon as possible. Unless you want to waste your entire life by his side.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to dump his sorry ass and turn to your personal improvement without allowing him to keep on holding you back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65150 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-hill-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sulla collina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-hill-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-hill-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-hill-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 ora di smettere di preoccuparsi di intimidirlo e di lavorare per diventare una versione ancora pi\u00f9 forte e potente di se stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Vi prometto che uno di questi giorni, un vero, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/a-mature-man-will-never-do-these-8-things\/\">uomo maturo<\/a> entrer\u00e0 nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo di successo che si concentrer\u00e0 anche sul diventare la migliore versione possibile di se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un uomo che sar\u00e0 il vostro pi\u00f9 grande fan. Un uomo che far\u00e0 il tifo per voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65151 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sulla montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-mountain-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo vi spinger\u00e0 ad andare avanti, qualunque cosa accada. Sar\u00e0 il vento sotto le ali e la vostra pi\u00f9 grande ispirazione per continuare a muovervi.<\/p>\n<p>Egli creder\u00e0 in voi, anche quando perderete la fiducia nelle vostre capacit\u00e0 e abilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>This guy won\u2019t try walking behind or in front of you. Instead, you two will go through life shoulder to shoulder.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65152 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-laptop-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna che usa il computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-laptop-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-laptop-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-laptop-3-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <strong>he\u2019ll never feel threatened by your successes. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>He won\u2019t have the need to compete with you or be jealous of something you managed to accomplish.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Instead, he\u2019ll be proud of the woman he has by his side. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>He\u2019ll be proud of himself for the fact that he can go through life hand in hand with someone like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65155 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se non ti lascia crescere, devi lasciarlo andare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is one truth nobody could argue against: most men are afraid of successful and strong women. Of course, not all men feel this way but weak and selfish men are definitely terrified of independent women who don\u2019t need them to survive or function. You see, when you\u2019re involved with a guy who hasn\u2019t made&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":65142,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65123","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-He-Doesn\u2019t-Let-You-Grow-You-Have-To-Let-Him-Go.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65123","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65123"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65123\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65123"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65123"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65123"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}