{"id":65159,"date":"2020-04-22T09:00:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65159"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:48:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:48:56","slug":"non-mettere-in-discussione-i-suoi-sentimenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-mettere-in-discussione-i-suoi-sentimenti\/","title":{"rendered":"Non turbare i suoi sentimenti solo perch\u00e9 non sei sicuro dei tuoi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\"<em>Don&#8217;t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019ve all been there. We\u2019ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dovete spingerli fuori da quel recinto e dalla vostra vita!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65162 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face.jpg\" alt=\"foto del volto di una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo-of-womans-face-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I spent way too much time giving my attention to someone who clearly didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>I wasted the precious time of my life on someone who didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>Why should I bend over backward for someone who isn\u2019t even sure if he loves me and wants to spend time with me?<\/p>\n<p>Chi ha bisogno di una persona indecisa nella propria vita?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65163 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere.jpg\" alt=\"donna con gonna blu che va da qualche parte\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-blue-skirt-going-somewhere-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re indecisive about your food order, that\u2019s fine, but if you\u2019re indecisive about love, why the hell should I be sure about you?<\/p>\n<p>Love isn\u2019t something to play with and then leave when you get bored. Love isn\u2019t a toy, despite how the epidemic of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-passi-per-battere-il-gioco-del-giocatore\/\">giocatori<\/a> lo ha fatto sembrare.<\/p>\n<p>Players aren\u2019t what you need; don\u2019t let them mess with your head.<\/p>\n<p>I loro sentimenti cambiano come il tempo e vi lasciano confusi, senza sapere cosa aspettarvi dopo. Un momento, ti stanno addosso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65164 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna con giacca di pelle sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-leather-jacket-on-the-beach-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next second, they go cold. One moment, they\u2019re saying I love you, and then they don\u2019t call you back for days.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t let anyone treat you like that.<\/p>\n<p>Giocare con i sentimenti \u00e8 un modo per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/10-tipi-di-manipolazione-emotiva\/\">manipolazione emotiva<\/a> and you can be sure that when they do that, they don\u2019t care about you, no matter what they said before.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65165 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito bianco con in mano uno smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-holding-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa peggiore di tutte \u00e8 la sensazione di costante indecisione; non riescono mai a decidere nulla o a dire anche la cosa pi\u00f9 semplice che potrebbe evitarti di pensare troppo.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s always something left in the air, regardless of how hard you try to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>They obviously have problems, but that doesn\u2019t mean you should let theirs become yours.<\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019ve been hurt before or even if they don\u2019t really like you, that doesn\u2019t give them the right to play with your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65166 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna appoggiata al muro bianco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-on-white-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The honest truth is always better than a lie. Because even if it\u2019s going to hurt you, at least you know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not a certified psychologist to resolve someone\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-3-principali-stili-di-attaccamento-e-il-loro-impatto-sulla-relazione-di-coppia\/\">problemi di attaccamento<\/a>Quindi, se la persona si comporta in modo indeciso, potete dirle di trovare una soluzione prima di cercare di avere una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>E anche se tu fossi un terapeuta, richiederebbe comunque un certo sforzo da parte loro, che chiaramente non fanno mai.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65167 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi su un campo coltivato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-crop-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>So, instead of scratching your head over someone\u2019s questionable decisions and statements, you could move on with your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Leaving all this mess behind will feel so good, trust me. Once you\u2019re over it, you won\u2019t let it happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Standing up for yourself is something you won\u2019t regret.<\/p>\n<p>If anything, you will know what you don\u2019t want and get a better idea of what you do want. You want someone who\u2019s determined to love you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65168 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che si abbraccia durante la golden hour\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-hugging-during-golden-hour-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno che sia sincero e che mantenga le sue parole. Qualcuno che sia onesto e che voglia la stessa cosa di voi.<\/p>\n<p>Volete qualcuno che vi faccia sentire bene e che sia orgoglioso di avervi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life\u2019s too short to waste it on a person who isn\u2019t interested in fully loving you, isn\u2019t ready to commit, and can\u2019t make time for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you should decide to direct your attention to yourself. Don\u2019t wait for someone else to do it for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65169 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair.jpg\" alt=\"donna con sedia da spiaggia in legno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-wooden-beach-chair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trattatevi come il vostro migliore amico. Rendetevi felici. Sappiate esattamente ci\u00f2 che volete e poi cercate di ottenerlo.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re sure of your worth, you won\u2019t be tempted to try another game with an immature man; you will know right away if he\u2019s the one for you.<\/p>\n<p>This whole problem highlights the importance of knowing what you want \u2013 in love and in life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-65170 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"donna con labbra rosse e occhiali da vista\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-lips-and-eyeglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sapere cosa si vuole significa accettarsi cos\u00ec come si \u00e8 ed essere abbastanza saggi da riconoscere i propri bisogni e l'importanza di soddisfarli.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everyone deserves to feel they are cared for and important in the life of their loved one. That\u2019s what love\u2019s about.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, it\u2019s just a waste of time. Decide to do what\u2019s best for you and let him go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non turbare i suoi sentimenti solo perch\u00e9 non sei sicuro dei tuoi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDon&#8217;t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.\u201d \u2013 Unknown We\u2019ve all been there. We\u2019ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what? You need to push them right off that fence and out of your life! I spent way too much time&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":65161,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Dont-Mess-With-Her-Feelings-Just-Because-Youre-Unsure-Of-Your-Own.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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