{"id":65176,"date":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65176"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","slug":"stanchi-di-essere-single-consigli-per-abbracciare-la-vita-da-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stanchi-di-essere-single-consigli-per-abbracciare-la-vita-da-single\/","title":{"rendered":"Stanchi di essere single? 10 consigli per abbracciare la vostra vita da single"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le foto carine di coppie felici sui social media, i film romantici e le pressioni dei vostri amici e parenti pi\u00f9 stretti sul vostro stato di solitudine contribuiscono a farvi sentire stanchi di essere single<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Non importa cosa fai o dove vai, ogni piccola cosa inizia a ricordarti il tuo status di single. E vi stancate di questo!<\/p>\n

Vi siete stancati di tutti quei ricordi di merda che vi ricordano che le uniche persone veramente felici sono quelle che hanno una relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n

And even though you know that’s not true, you still get irritated about your single life and you wish things were different.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But I’ll tell you one thing: Lo status di una relazione non \u00e8 una misura della felicit\u00e0!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just because you’re not in a relationship (yet), it doesn’t mean you should feel tired or lonely or excluded from society.<\/p>\n

The only reason why you’re still single at the moment is that you’re ought to be. Each person has their own unique path and being single is a part of your journey!<\/p>\n

Whenever you’re feeling tired of being single, here are 10 things to help you understand and embrace your single life:<\/p>\n

1. Don’t lose hope<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tonnellate di gelato, sessioni di gelosia immaginaria verso le coppie, sentirsi soli e stanchi del proprio status di single<\/em>. This is probably how you’ve been feeling lately, right?<\/p>\n

And that’s more than okay! It’s totally fine to feel shitty from time to time, even when you have no valid reason for that.<\/p>\n

It’s totally okay to lose hope from time to time because you’re surrounded by all those happy couples and worried that you’ll never find the One.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

However, it’s not okay to feel like that every single day of your life. You shouldn’t lose hope no matter how shitty you feel about being single.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should open your eyes and realize that this is not a curse and you’re not missing anything in your life. Everything that happens in our life is in tune with time.<\/p>\n

Every single one of us has our own unique timeline and you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be at the moment!<\/p>\n

2. There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

We’re often unaware of this one but you know what they say: Tutto accade per una ragione<\/strong><\/em><\/a>. Potete negarlo, ignorarlo e non crederci, ma sar\u00e0 comunque vero.<\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment and those reasons vary from working on yourself to focusing on your career.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you’ve neglected your passions, which made you feel like you’re missing something in your life.<\/p>\n

All these things can make you feel unfulfilled to the extent of thinking that the only reason why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling is because you’re still single.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 convinti che una volta incontrato l'altro, ci si sentir\u00e0 finalmente liberi e completi.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, lo farete, ma solo quando sarete gi\u00e0 completi senza di loro.<\/p>\n

Being single is the right time to address all your issues and work on yourself because the only time you’ll be able to love others and be in a happy relationship is when you learn to love yourself first!<\/p>\n

3. It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong person<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One of my good friends recently complained to me that she\u2019ll never meet a ragazzo simpatico<\/a> perch\u00e9 tutti i buoni probabilmente sono gi\u00e0 stati presi.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, \u00e8 convinta che finir\u00e0 per avere una relazione con una persona di merda.<\/p>\n

E la mia risposta \u00e8 stata: Why do you even worry about that? Remember that it’s better to be single than with the wrong person!<\/em><\/p>\n

Chi \u00e8 stanco di essere single spesso dimentica il fatto che essere single \u00e8 dieci volte meglio che stare con la persona sbagliata.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

E se tutti quelli che ti circondano hanno qualcuno? E se tutti i vostri amici e familiari avessero una relazione felice o fossero sposati?<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you won’t meet your special one someday and this doesn’t mean you should enter a relationship with just anyone just for the title of being in a relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s better to be single and happy than miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Invece di preoccuparvi di uscire con gli altri, iniziate a uscire con voi stessi.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you’re tired of being single but also tired of dating, you shouldn’t force yourself. Instead, you should start dating yourself!<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably wondering how one can date themselves when dating is a concept that includes two people. Well, it’s not (I mean, not necessarily).<\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 uscire con se stessi nello stesso modo in cui si esce con gli altri, ma lo si fa da soli.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 un aspetto importante anche per la salute mentale, perch\u00e9 uscire con se stessi significa imparare ad amare il tempo trascorso con se stessi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Potete andare al ristorante, al cinema, a bere qualcosa, a fare una passeggiata o un picnic con voi stessi. Invece di preoccuparvi di uscire con gli altri, dovreste fare qualcosa con voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Anche trascorrere del tempo da soli e fare cose da soli sono elementi importanti della cura di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Once you learn to enjoy spending time with yourself, you’ll never even think about dating others (at least, for the time being).<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t lower your standards when meeting new people<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

Even if you’re not feeling stressed out about dating, you still need to remember one thing and that is: Non abbassate mai e poi mai i vostri standard, qualunque cosa accada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se pensate che l'unico modo per incontrare persone che abbiano le caratteristiche per una relazione sia abbassare i vostri standard, ripensateci.<\/p>\n

Maybe this will help you to enter a relationship but will you be truly happy once you lower your standards? I don’t think so.<\/p>\n

You’re probably familiar with the existing and new dating apps like Tinder that have made online dating a must if you\u2019re single (but have also increased the chances of meeting toxic people).<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When going on a date for the first time with someone you just met, keep in mind to preserve your standard levels. Don’t find excuses for their shitty behavior or personality.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto siano fastidiosi i primi appuntamenti, abbassare i propri standard \u00e8 una ricetta sicura per il disastro. Alcuni dei migliori consigli per tutti i single sono i seguenti:<\/p>\n

Stay consistent with yourself and maintain your standards because that’s the only sure path to true happiness!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Rimanete single finch\u00e9 non raggiungerete questi 10 obiettivi di vita<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Imparare a godere della propria compagnia \u00e8 la ricetta per non sentirsi soli.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Being alone and feeling lonely have become two interconnected terms lately but they don’t really have to be. Being alone has nothing to do with sentirsi soli<\/a> e tutto \u00e8 nella tua testa!<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re a single woman or man, this doesn\u2019t mean you should feel lonely.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, the reason why you’re feeling lonely is that you haven’t learned to enjoy spending time with yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you’re convinced that the only way to not feel lonely is to be with someone in a relationship. But the truth is otherwise.<\/p>\n

L'amore per se stessi \u00e8 la forza pi\u00f9 potente dell'universo e uccide la solitudine!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Once you learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company, you’ll see that all this time, the key to happiness was buried within you.<\/p>\n

You will no longer feel this void in your soul and you’ll understand that it is possible to be alone and not to feel lonely. After all, every single one of us came into the world alone.<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that we don’t need any other human being but it means that we’re perfectly capable of doing things on our own and enjoying our own company.<\/p>\n

Significa che abbiamo la capacit\u00e0 di essere felici mentre aspettiamo la cosa giusta!<\/p>\n

7. Esprimere le proprie passioni e trascorrere del tempo con le persone giuste<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Un altro killer della solitudine \u00e8 la passione. Imparare a esprimere le proprie passioni vi aiuter\u00e0 a entrare in sintonia con voi stessi e a dimenticare la vostra condizione di single.<\/p>\n

Instead of only watching Netflix, now is the time to work on expressing yourself. It\u2019s time to ask yourself what it is that makes you feel alive and happy.<\/p>\n

Quali sono le attivit\u00e0 che vi riempiono il cuore di calore e ispirazione? Vi piace disegnare, cantare, cucinare, ballare o creare arte?<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, if it’s something that makes you happy while doing it, then it’s your passion and you should focus on doing it as much as you can.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, dovreste passare del tempo con le persone giuste, con coloro che vi amano e vi capiscono.<\/p>\n

Instead of only focusing on what’s missing in your life, focus on embracing what you already have!<\/p>\n

8. Trovare il lato positivo in se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che penso al positivismo, mi viene subito in mente questa potente citazione in Il lato positivo del libro di Matthew Quick<\/em>:<\/p>\n

“You know what? EXCELSIOR, EXCELSIOR! It means you know what I’m gonna do, I’m gonna take all this negativity and use it as fuel and I’m gonna find a silver lining, that\u2019s what I’m gonna do. And that’s no bullshit. That’s no bullshit. That takes work and that’s the truth.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Trovare un lato positivo significa trovare un aspetto positivo in ogni situazione. Quindi, usate tutta la stanchezza dell'essere single come carburante per trovare un lato positivo!<\/p>\n

I also suggest watching this amazing movie or reading the book (if you haven’t yet).<\/p>\n

9. Invece di concentrarsi su trovare l'Unico<\/a>concentrarsi sul vivere il momento<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Vivere il momento \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 stimolanti che possiate fare per voi stessi e per gli altri.<\/p>\n

Instead of focusing on chasing what you don’t have (yet), focus on living in the moment and appreciating what’s in front of you.<\/p>\n

Life is a miracle. Just because you’re still single, this doesn’t mean you should feel less worthy or you should be persistent in finding the One at any cost.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 un vero miracolo e vivere il momento \u00e8 l'unico modo per vivere appieno la vita.<\/p>\n

After a year or more, you’ll laugh to yourself at all the things that bothered you now.<\/p>\n

You’ll realize that being single and godersi la vita<\/a> \u00e8 uno dei doni pi\u00f9 grandi, se solo lo si accetta come tale!<\/p>\n

10. Mantenere la pazienza<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

And the most important tip: Stay patient! Remember what we said about the timeline and that everything happens for a reason? Keep that one in mind because it’s the only truth.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you’re tired of being single, you need to stay patient!<\/p>\n

If you do things on impulse, you’ll risk being unhappy. But if you stay patient, time will reward you.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che le cose belle arrivano a chi aspetta!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No matter how clich\u00e9d it sounds, your love life will flourish and you\u2019ll find your loved one when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

You cannot know when it will happen or how but you know that it will. And when it does, you’ll be happy that you waited. So, wait and believe!<\/em><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 11 motivi per cui sono felice di essere single (e perch\u00e9 dovresti esserlo anche tu)<\/a><\/p>\n

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