{"id":6584,"date":"2017-10-10T12:17:07","date_gmt":"2017-10-10T12:17:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6584"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:45:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:45:59","slug":"prima-di-innamorarsi-della-ragazza-che-ha-attraversato-linferno-sappiate-questo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/prima-di-innamorarsi-della-ragazza-che-ha-attraversato-linferno-sappiate-questo\/","title":{"rendered":"Prima di innamorarvi della ragazza che ha attraversato l'inferno, sappiate questo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 vero che tutti noi abbiamo un passato, ma alcuni di noi abbiamo vissuto tante cose brutte nella nostra vita.<\/a>. Una ragazza dal passato oscuro lo sa fin troppo bene.<\/p>\n

She has been through so much severe shit in her life but she didn\u2019t let that bring her down. Instead, it made her even stronger, so now she knows that life has its own rules and we need to play by them.<\/p>\n

A girl like this is not like the rest of the girls you meet. She is more than that – strong and independent but at the same time complex and difficult to handle.<\/p>\n

Se avete l'opportunit\u00e0 di uscire con lei o di innamorarvi di lei, ci sono alcune cose importanti da sapere.<\/p>\n

1. She won\u2019t open up to you immediately<\/span><\/h2>\n

It is very difficult to talk about your dark past to a stranger. That\u2019s why she won\u2019t open up to you at the beginning<\/a> ma se le date un po' di tempo si rilasser\u00e0 e passo dopo passo vi racconter\u00e0 la sua storia. Il fatto \u00e8 che lei sa che il suo passato \u00e8 fatto di dettagli terribili e se ve li racconta subito, rischia di perdervi.<\/p>\n

Se giocate d'astuzia, potete aiutarla a superare i traumi della sua vita e a tornare la vecchia lei. Alla fine, \u00e8 ancora quella bambina spaventata che ha solo bisogno di qualcuno che le mostri come trovare la sua enorme forza.<\/p>\n

Spero che sia tu a farlo!<\/p>\n

2. \u00c8 una persona che pensa troppo<\/span><\/h2>\n

She will be overthinking a lot. But don\u2019t be too harsh on her because that is just a consequence of her dark past.<\/p>\n

Se vede che qualcosa non va nella vostra relazione, cercher\u00e0 di parlare con voi e vi far\u00e0 cos\u00ec tante domande che penserete che sia un agente della CIA.<\/p>\n

That is just her defense mechanism, so answer all her questions and make her believe that everything is okay and that she needs to relax a little bit more. If she continues like that, she will burn out in a short time. Be her support and don\u2019t let that happen.<\/p>\n

\"Prima<\/p>\n

3. She thinks she doesn\u2019t deserve love<\/span><\/h2>\n

Just because of her dark past and all those scars in her heart and soul, she feels that she is broken and that like that, she doesn\u2019t deserve love.<\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa di cui ha bisogno ora \u00e8 che la giudichiate e le diciate che avrebbe dovuto fare qualcosa di diverso.<\/p>\n

Invece, siate la sua forza e siate l'uomo che valeva la pena aspettare. Siate la sua mano di salvezza e presto vi accorgerete che la ragazza con un passato oscuro ama il meglio, a modo suo, in modo diverso.<\/p>\n

4. Ha i suoi fattori scatenanti<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sometimes it will be a song or a movie that will make her cry. A scene from a trailer can remind her of the terrors that she had in her past relationship with a man who wasn\u2019t ready to accept her just the way she was.<\/p>\n

Trust me, she doesn\u2019t want you to see her falling apart but sometimes she can\u2019t control her emotions.<\/p>\n

Se lei \u00e8 abbastanza forte da piangere con voi, voi dovreste essere abbastanza forti da tenderle la mano e dirle che la accettate con tutte le sue imperfezioni, perch\u00e9 la rendono cos\u00ec perfetta e unica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Si gode appieno la propria felicit\u00e0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Una ragazza con un passato oscuro ha vissuto tante cose brutte nella sua vita e tutte queste cose l'hanno resa una donna forte e indipendente. Proprio per questo, riesce a godersi le piccole cose della vita.<\/p>\n

She knows that money can\u2019t buy happiness and that a good relationship with her friends and family is what is most important. Once upon a time, she didn\u2019t cherish small things but now, she has learned her life lesson.<\/p>\n

She knows that all that it needs for her to be happy is blue sky, the sun\u2019s rays and a hand that will hold her tight, for better or worse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is true that we all have a past, but some of us have been through so many bad things during our lives. That is something a girl with a dark past knows way too well. She has been through so much severe shit in her life but she didn\u2019t let that bring her down….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":6587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/christiana-rivers-258740.jpg",800,514,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6584","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6584"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6584\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}