{"id":66699,"date":"2020-05-03T23:56:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T23:56:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=66699"},"modified":"2022-10-30T12:30:26","modified_gmt":"2022-10-30T12:30:26","slug":"perche-il-mio-ragazzo-mi-odia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-il-mio-ragazzo-mi-odia\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 il mio ragazzo mi odia? Segni da cercare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perch\u00e9 il mio ragazzo mi odia?<\/em> If I had a nickel for every time I asked myself this question with tears streaming down my cheeks… I’d be a millionaire.<\/p>\n

Listen… Relationships are hard work. Sometimes we sense hateful feelings, but I assure you that there are tons of possible explanations, and I’ll cover them all in this article.<\/p>\n

Gli esseri umani sono imperfetti e la nostra autostima spesso dipende dalle piccole cose che il nostro partner dice e che, in segreto, hanno un forte impatto emotivo.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Il vostro interlocutore pu\u00f2 dire cose offensive ma non pensarle davvero.<\/p>\n

Quando si attraversano momenti difficili, in qualsiasi relazione sana, i sentimenti di odio possono iniziare a insinuarsi involontariamente.<\/p>\n

What matters is that you get to the bottom of his behavior and try to make your relationship work. If your boyfriend does hate you (and you’re not imagining it), here are the telltale signs.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Citazioni sull'amore in attesa: 130 frasi che dimostrano che vale la pena aspettare l'amore<\/a><\/p>\n

9 segni che il tuo ragazzo potrebbe odiarti<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Ogni incontro termina con la minaccia di lasciarvi.<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

People fight and then make up the next day. It happens all the time and it’s a natural course of events.<\/p>\n

Ma non importa quanto grande sia stato il litigio, deve sempre esserci una soluzione se la relazione \u00e8 sana.<\/p>\n

Ma se il vostro ragazzo conclude ogni discussione con minacce di rottura, c'\u00e8 motivo di allarmarsi.<\/p>\n

Indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 accaduto e le cose che fanno male<\/a> that were said – if he loves you, he’ll make sure you know it through text messages, phone calls, or a social media message.<\/p>\n

He’ll reach out and initiate a conversation to talk it all through. But if you are in an abusive relationship (mental abuse is a thing) you need to acknowledge that.<\/p>\n

Anche se quest'uomo \u00e8 il vostro primo amore, la vostra autostima e il vostro benessere non dovrebbero mai essere messi a repentaglio ogni volta che il suo ego viene minacciato.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your mental health to suffer if your boyfriend truly does hate you.<\/p>\n

It is a big deal and you definitely don’t have to put up with it.<\/p>\n

Se vuole lasciarti, dovrebbe farlo e lasciarti andare.<\/p>\n

Unless there’s a legitimate reason why he’s acting this way, there’s no point in staying.<\/p>\n

2. Si allontana e vi nasconde il telefono.<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Credo assolutamente che due persone abbiano diritto alla propria privacy. Tu hai la tua vita e il tuo ragazzo ha la sua.<\/p>\n

Just because you’re in a relationship it doesn’t mean you can’t keep some things to yourself.<\/p>\n

But if he has suddenly started hiding his phone from you (and he never did it before) it’s a bad sign.<\/p>\n

Se all'improvviso cambia il codice di accesso e si assicura di non lasciare mai il telefono o il tablet vicino a voi, potrebbe esserci qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Il tuo ragazzo potrebbe davvero odiarti per qualche motivo.<\/p>\n

Perhaps this is his way of letting you know that the decision has been made. He’s just not man enough to articulate it with actual words.<\/p>\n

People start becoming passive-aggressive when they’re scared of being genuine.<\/p>\n

Forse hai fatto qualcosa che lo ha fatto arrabbiare molto?<\/p>\n

Maybe he’s just unhappy and he’s manifesting it in a shitty way?<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, it’s definitely a sign that he no longer loves you. When things take a turn for the worse completely out of the blue, there’s always a reason behind it.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Citazioni sugli obiettivi delle relazioni: 85 frasi che descrivono perfettamente il vostro amore ideale<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Sottolinea spesso i vostri difetti<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Quando avete iniziato a uscire, lui amava ogni singola cosa di te. Non ha mai cercato di cambiarti e ti ha sempre fatto sentire sicura e fiduciosa.<\/p>\n

Ma ultimamente le cose sono cambiate molto. Ora non si fa problemi a oggettificarti come non aveva mai fatto prima.<\/p>\n

Now, whatever he feels about your appearance, he just blurts it out as if it’s nothing.<\/p>\n

You’re either too fat, too thin, or not attentive enough.<\/p>\n

O ti vesti in modo troppo provocante o ti vesti come una suora, e per lui \u00e8 un problema.<\/p>\n

You’ve started to feel like nothing you do is ever good enough for him. And judging by this behavior, you’re right.<\/p>\n

So per certo che il mio ex ragazzo mi odia. Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 non indosserei mai abiti corti come mi ha pregato di fare.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 non sono mai stata appassionata di moda e make-up.<\/p>\n

And believe it or not – that’s what broke us up (thank God!)<\/p>\n

Ma prendete il mio esempio come un segno di un punto di vista sbagliato. Lei \u00e8 una persona a s\u00e9 stante.<\/p>\n

Nessuno pu\u00f2 o dovrebbe mai dirvi cosa fare e come vestirvi.<\/p>\n

Your boyfriend might hate you for not being exactly how he pictures you in his mind, and that’s il suo problema<\/em>!<\/p>\n

Smettete di chiedervi: perch\u00e9 il mio ragazzo mi odia<\/em>, and start showing him who’s boss!<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s completely stopped being caring and attentive<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

He no longer does nice things for you. He no longer looks at you like you’re the only girl in the world.<\/p>\n

You used to be his best friend but now, it feels like you’re a mere acquaintance.<\/p>\n

When people suddenly start changing their ways without any explanation, there’s always a reason behind it.<\/p>\n

Perhaps it’s something on his part, or maybe he’s not happy with something you’re doing and he can’t communicate it.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, questo \u00e8 un chiaro segno che il vostro ragazzo vi odia e prova rancore per qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Quando si ama qualcuno, ci si assicura che lo sappia.<\/p>\n

Ma la mancanza di cura e di attenzione \u00e8 un segnale di seri problemi da parte sua.<\/p>\n

What’s left to do now is think about how you want to handle this. Are you going to talk to him or just let it keep happening?<\/p>\n

Cercherete di lavorare su alcune cose che potrebbero causare sentimenti di odio o non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla da salvare?<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi dica solo una cosa. Meritate di essere trattati con amore, attenzione e rispetto.<\/p>\n

Vi meritate qualcuno che faccia schizzare alle stelle la vostra autostima e faccia sparire le vostre paure.<\/p>\n

If your boyfriend doesn’t have that effect on you, then what are you still doing with him?<\/p>\n

5. Non vuole pi\u00f9 fare cose insieme<\/h2>\n

\"Primo<\/p>\n

Una delle cose migliori delle relazioni di coppia \u00e8 avere un partner fisso per tutta la vita.<\/p>\n

He’s your gym buddy, your game-night partner, your go-to secret keeper and so much more!<\/p>\n

Ma ora tutto questo sembra solo un sogno. Ha iniziato a evitare di fare cose con te.<\/p>\n

You no longer go to the gym together (there’s always an excuse) and he gets up before you.<\/p>\n

He no longer wants to go to friends’ for dinner dates as a couple and you’re always having to make up stories why he’s not there.<\/p>\n

Basically – he\u2019s completely bailed on you in all aspects of life. This means that he yearns for independence and he’s trying to separate himself from you.<\/p>\n

As hurtful as it is, your significant other wants nothing to do with you anymore. It’s always the little things that give it away.<\/p>\n

Yes, I’m afraid your boyfriend honestly might hate you and there is no getting around it.<\/p>\n

Ora, tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole \u00e8 stare da solo, con il suo migliore amico, in pratica, ovunque tranne che con te.<\/p>\n

In poche parole, il tuo ragazzo non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 emotivamente coinvolto in te.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Ti amo pi\u00f9 di quanto non faccia con le citazioni e le frasi che vengono dal cuore<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Ti mette in difficolt\u00e0 davanti ai tuoi amici<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 dolorose che ha iniziato a fare \u00e8 mostrarti una totale mancanza di rispetto, con tuo totale shock e devastazione.<\/p>\n

No matter where you are and who you’re with, he has started to put you down like you’re nothing to him.<\/p>\n

La gravit\u00e0 emotiva di tutto ci\u00f2 \u00e8 enorme.<\/p>\n

Vi sentite in imbarazzo di fronte ai vostri amici. Vi sentite in imbarazzo anche solo a uscire in pubblico, perch\u00e9 sapete che lui potrebbe ricominciare a insidiarvi.<\/p>\n

He posts photos with other girls as if he’s single. He’ll call you out in front of anyone and make sure that you know your place.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 diventato un guscio di essere umano e s\u00ec, il tuo ragazzo ti odia chiaramente. Ma sapete una cosa?<\/p>\n

You don’t have to put up with it!<\/p>\n

Unless there’s an underlying issue that you’re denying to yourself, there is nothing left to stay for.<\/p>\n

Se vi tratta con mancanza di rispetto e con tanta vergogna, lasciatelo andare.<\/p>\n

This type of relationship should not be fought for. You need a guy who knows how to treat a woman, and he’s clearly not that person!<\/p>\n

7. Si rifiuta di parlare del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

There is no more ‘we’, now there’s just ‘him’ and his plans. You used to have big plans for the future.<\/p>\n

Prima pensavi di comprare una casa in periferia e di prendere un cane.<\/p>\n

You used to dream about growing old alongside him and now, he avoids any mention of the future as if it’s the plague.<\/p>\n

You can sense that he’s slipping away. You can feel the hate and the distance between you two. But what happened?<\/p>\n

What led to this? Not so long ago, you were two peas in a pod, and now… you’re like roommates who don’t even talk to each other anymore.<\/p>\n

Maybe it’s just not on the cards or maybe he’s just one of those guys who are scared of intimacy.<\/p>\n

Maybe this is his way of shutting you out so that you\u2019ll break up with him. He is too much of a wuss to even leave you with dignity.<\/p>\n

But you know what… don’t give him the satisfaction. Let him wallow in his own misery and if he wants to leave, he’s going to have to do it himself.<\/p>\n

Se il vostro rapporto \u00e8 salvabile, cercate sicuramente di avere una conversazione a cuore aperto.<\/p>\n

Ma se sentite che questa situazione \u00e8 troppo lontana, fate pace con le cose e andate avanti. Ci sono cose migliori davanti a voi.<\/p>\n

8. He doesn’t care about your needs<\/p>\n

You’ve come to realize that your boyfriend would rather hang out in front of the TV all day rather than be with you.<\/p>\n

He plays video games non-stop, and no matter what you’re going through, he never presses pause.<\/p>\n

He never asks if you’re okay. He never shows you he cares.<\/p>\n

You’re all by yourself and you could literally fall apart in front of him and he’d tell you that you’re blocking his view.<\/p>\n

Fa schifo e fa male. La distanza sta diventando insopportabile e la sua freddezza \u00e8 una lenta tortura.<\/p>\n

You are so desperate to make your relationship work, yet he’d rather go out, drink too much and act like a total ass.<\/p>\n

If this is your reality, your boyfriend really does hate you. I can’t tell you why, but I can tell you that without having your needs met, you cannot allow yourself to stay in this environment.<\/p>\n

Bit by bit, you’re going to fall apart. Your mental health is taking a big hit and every little thing will become a trigger.<\/p>\n

Avete pensato alle possibili cause del suo comportamento imperdonabile?<\/p>\n

Has something happened recently that you haven’t dealt with?<\/p>\n

Unless you know of a way to change things for the better, there is nothing left to do but leave his sorry ass and find somebody who’ll treat you right.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Mi ha bloccato: Cosa significa e cosa fare al riguardo<\/a><\/p>\n

9. You’re always the one to blame<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Infine, ti incolpa di tutto ci\u00f2 che non va nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

He takes zero accountability and you’re always in the wrong.<\/p>\n

You know that it wasn’t you, and deep down he knows it too. The thing is, he just doesn’t care.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t give a shit how it makes you feel.<\/p>\n

This is his way of letting you know he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.<\/p>\n

If he’d rather pin the blame on you instead of resolving the issues, things are pretty clear.<\/p>\n

Yes, human beings are complicated. but when people give you every reason to see their true colors – don’t be blind!<\/p>\n

We all go through hard times, but that doesn’t excuse shitty behavior. That doesn’t give anyone the right to treat you like crap.<\/p>\n

Questi momenti sono quelli che vi faranno o vi faranno crollare.<\/p>\n

Scegliete di vederlo per quello che \u00e8 veramente. Se vi d\u00e0 continuamente motivi per lasciarlo, fatelo.<\/p>\n

But if there’s a reason behind all of this, consider working on making it right.<\/p>\n

Continuate a leggere per scoprire alcuni dei motivi pi\u00f9 probabili che fanno s\u00ec che il vostro ragazzo vi odi. <\/em><\/p>\n

Who knows, you might just realize that there’s hope for you anyway!<\/em><\/p>\n

5 motivi per cui il tuo ragazzo potrebbe odiarti<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Siete troppo controllanti<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You might be a control freak who doesn’t let him do his own thing. People, in general, don’t like being told what to do all the time.<\/p>\n

Avete considerato che questo potrebbe essere il motivo del suo comportamento di merda?<\/p>\n

Has he gradually started hating you because you don’t let him be his own person? It’s okay to give him advice and consult him, but it’s a problem if you’re making him feel trapped.<\/p>\n

Questo potrebbe indurlo a manifestare i suoi sentimenti in modo davvero negativo.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Il mio ex mi rivuole: 15 cose da fare a riguardo<\/a><\/p>\n

You don’t have enough time for him<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Guys can be like toddlers – if you don’t give them enough attention, they start acting out!<\/p>\n

La vostra vita lavorativa ha improvvisamente preso la priorit\u00e0 su di lui? Avete smesso di avere tempo per le serate e per la qualit\u00e0 del tempo trascorso insieme?<\/p>\n

If your boyfriend feels like he’s not a priority, he’ll start acting like he hates you. But in reality – he just wants your attention.<\/p>\n

Il suo disinteresse, l'avervi messo in difficolt\u00e0 e l'essersi comportato da idiota derivano dal fatto che si sente escluso. Considerate questo aspetto prima di prendere qualsiasi decisione.<\/p>\n

You’re always going on and on about your ex<\/p>\n

This might come as a shock… but guys really don’t like being compared to their GF’s ex in any way, shape, or form.<\/p>\n

It’s such a turn-off. And if your man feels threatened by being compared to your hot shot of an ex, he’ll start showing it.<\/p>\n

Every single shitty thing he may exhibit from the above list might be because you won’t stop talking about your ex.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if the tables were turned? It’s not comfortable and you should try to reassure him and smooth things over.<\/p>\n

You don’t respect his private space<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

People need to be allowed to have some ”me time”. You cannot function individually if you’re always in the company of others. It’s okay to want to be near him, but you must give him space to breathe too!<\/p>\n

Maybe he feels suffocated, Maybe he doesn’t know how to tell you this because he’s scared of hurting you. Which is ironic because his behavior is doing just that! Talk to him and consider taking a step back. We all deserve our own time.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come superare il primo amore: 13 passi per il successo<\/a><\/p>\n

Siete troppo civettuoli con gli altri uomini<\/p>\n

If you’re being a flirt with every man you see on the street, no wonder he’s acting this way! That makes him feel disrespected as hell. It’s okay to feel confident and beautiful, just don’t tease other dudes while your man is there.<\/p>\n

It’s nice to feel appreciated and seen by others. But if it’s going to cost you your relationship, it’s definitely not worth it. If you have a man, leave the flirty side for him! He needs to know that you only have eyes for him, as does he for you!<\/p>\n

Bisogna essere in due per ballare il tango!<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

You can’t expect to be treated with love, adoration, and respect if you refuse to abide by the same rules. Guys have feelings too. And when you hurt them, they don’t always know how to handle it.<\/p>\n

And that’s what occasionally makes you wonder: perch\u00e9 il mio ragazzo mi odia<\/a><\/em>, when in fact, he’s just silently hurting for something he cannot communicate to you properly.<\/p>\n

Make sure you are being a good girlfriend and I’ll bet he’ll go back to being the guy you fell in love with! If there’s hope, don’t let your relationship wither. Hard times teach us valuable lessons!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Per quanto tempo funzionano le relazioni di ripiego? (E dureranno?)<\/a><\/p>\n

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