{"id":6701,"date":"2020-02-12T10:33:49","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T10:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6701"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:12:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:12:45","slug":"8-motivi-che-causano-la-fine-di-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-motivi-che-causano-la-fine-di-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine\/","title":{"rendered":"8 motivi che causano la fine di una relazione di lunga durata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perch\u00e9 tante relazioni di lunga durata finiscono con una rottura?\" \"\u00c8 a causa del tempo, perch\u00e9 sono durate cos\u00ec tanto?\" \"Come si pu\u00f2 disamorare qualcuno che si ama?\".<\/p>\n<p>These questions puzzled me as I saw so many long-term relationships ending and so few of them succeeding. I couldn&#8217;t help but investigate why. I had long and thorough conversations. These are the reasons I got:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'amore si \u00e8 trasformato in abitudine.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108224\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373.jpg\" alt=\"La ragazza sussurra qualcosa all&#039;orecchio del ragazzo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You just get used to that person and can&#8217;t imagine not having them around. Love just faded away like it did to some of the old married couples.<\/p>\n<p>All'improvviso ci si rende conto di rimanere perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 gi\u00e0 speso troppo tempo e fatica per quella persona.<\/p>\n<p>Avete condiviso cos\u00ec tanto. Avete paura di cambiare e quindi rimanete qui. Ma a un certo punto dovete decidere se volete passare il resto della vostra vita con qualcuno a cui siete abituati.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Love vs. &#8216;In love&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108226\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178.jpg\" alt=\"La coppia di innamorati \u00e8 seduta sul tetto della casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando due persone <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/10-difference-love-someone-loving-someone\/795160\" rel=\"noopener\">si amano ma dimenticano come si fa ad essere innamorati.<\/a> You know they are good\u2014they are worth it, part of you doesn&#8217;t want it to end, but it&#8217;s just not working.<\/p>\n<p>You love them as you love your family but nothing more. The passion is gone and you don&#8217;t want to continue without it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Iniziare troppo giovani.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108227\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483.jpg\" alt=\"bella ragazza vicino al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t know who you are when you are alone because you spent most of your adult life with that person and you are starting to miss you. You feel lost and trapped.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cambiare.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464.jpg\" alt=\"una ragazza e un uomo seduti l&#039;uno di fronte all&#039;altro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You outgrow one another in every sense of the word. You simply become incompatible because you are not the same person you were when you started the relationship. You want different things now and it just doesn&#8217;t seem like you are on the same page anymore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mancanza di compromessi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108229\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia in conflitto nel parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Over the course of the years, people change and they fight a lot because of it. When the relationship feels more like the war zone and you are never at ease, it&#8217;s time to leave.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pressione familiare.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108238\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544.jpg\" alt=\"Una giovane coppia ha visitato una madre anziana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The person you are with becomes an integral part of your family\u2014they attend family reunions, weddings, they go out on a casual coffee get together.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s generally a good thing. But if the only reason you are staying in a relationship is not to disappoint your family members, you are not doing anyone a favor. That&#8217;s not the right reason to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imbroglio.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste perch\u00e9 il suo amante la ignora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si sono semplicemente innamorati di un'altra persona e sono stati abbastanza egoisti da pensarci prima di porre fine a una relazione che stavano gi\u00e0 vivendo. Oppure volevano rimanere in una relazione e avere qualcuno a fianco.<\/p>\n<p>So disrespectful. But it&#8217;s better to end a long-term relationship than to get married, have kids, and than realize what is happening.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abbassare le maschere.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108231\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna sola su una panchina nel parco\" width=\"799\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950.jpg 799w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 799px) 100vw, 799px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le persone si stancano di fingere e a un certo punto viene fuori il peggio di loro. Ci sono tutti i tipi di casi, dall'abuso fisico a quello mentale di qualsiasi tipo.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste essere grati che abbiano rivelato la loro vera natura, non importa quanto tempo ci abbiano messo, e ringraziare Dio per esservi liberati di loro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108435\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 motivi che causano la fine di una relazione di lunga durata\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Why do so many long-term relationships end in breakup?\u2019 \u2018Is it because of time, because they lasted for so long?\u2019 \u2018How can you unlove somebody you love?\u2019 These questions puzzled me as I saw so many long-term relationships ending and so few of them succeeding. I couldn&#8217;t help but investigate why. I had long and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":108239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End.jpg",1000,645,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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