{"id":67022,"date":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67022"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","slug":"le-cose-di-cui-gli-uomini-sono-terrorizzati-quando-hanno-una-relazione-di-coppia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-cose-di-cui-gli-uomini-sono-terrorizzati-quando-hanno-una-relazione-di-coppia\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cose di cui gli uomini sono terrorizzati quando hanno una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ci sono alcune paure comuni a tutti gli uomini quando si tratta di relazioni, anche se non sempre sono disposti ad ammetterle.<\/p>\n

Sometimes they\u2019re not even aware of the exact reason they are blocked from moving on further in their relationships, but they can feel there\u2019s something stopping them from committing to one girl.<\/p>\n

Date un'occhiata a queste dieci cose che spaventano cos\u00ec tanto gli uomini da indurli a non perseguire affatto una vera relazione.<\/p>\n

1. Perdere se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest, relationships take a lot of our free time.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini temono che, passando molto tempo con le loro fidanzate, non abbiano abbastanza tempo per dedicarsi ai loro hobby e interessi.<\/p>\n

Giorno dopo giorno, questo pu\u00f2 portare (nella loro mente) a perdere completamente se stessi. In pratica, hanno paura che la relazione con una ragazza diventi la parte pi\u00f9 importante della loro personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

2. Non rispettare il codice dei fratelli<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 una cosa importante. I ragazzi hanno una reputazione da difendere. Una delle regole pi\u00f9 importanti del codice dei fratelli afferma che il ragazzo dovrebbe scegliere i suoi amici piuttosto che le ragazze in qualsiasi momento.<\/p>\n

When one particular girl becomes important to them and they actually prefer spending time with her over his buddies, this doesn\u2019t go unnoticed.<\/p>\n

His friends will begin calling him out for this, and even though they\u2019re probably only joking and messing with him, he still might be scared of what they actually think of him now.<\/p>\n

3. Impegno e attaccamento emotivo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Some guys are incredibly afraid of commitment. Even those who aren\u2019t in the red zone of commitment fears aren\u2019t completely insensitive to this one.<\/p>\n

Hanno paura di impegnarsi con una ragazza e di legarsi emotivamente. Questa paura si collega alla paura di essere feriti alla fine.<\/p>\n

This is the strongest in those men who have been hurt in the past and don\u2019t want to go through the same again.<\/p>\n

They prefer having many relationships in which they don\u2019t have the time to get overly connected to the girl, and therefore lower their chances of getting their heartbroken.<\/p>\n

4.(Perdere contro) la concorrenza<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Men are afraid of rejection. They are even more afraid of rejection that\u2019s connected to the girl picking someone else over them.<\/p>\n

This \u201ccompetition\u201d they are afraid of maybe completely fictional and have nothing to do with reality.<\/p>\n

Their jealousy and insecurities might get them to think a girl is choosing others over him, and this scares them \u2013 a lot.<\/p>\n

5. Movimento troppo lento o troppo veloce<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Moving too slow may cause a guy to wonder if he\u2019s good enough. He may start having doubts whether the girl simply doesn\u2019t like him enough to move forward in their relationship.<\/p>\n

Per quanto riguarda i movimenti troppo rapidi, di solito sono legati al fatto che non sono pronti a impegnarsi o a portare la relazione al livello successivo (trasferirsi, scambiarsi le chiavi di casa, sposarsi).<\/p>\n

The \u201cwhere is this relationship going\u201d talk freaks them out and they aren\u2019t ready for it to go anywhere.<\/p>\n

6. Antipatia nei confronti dei suoi amici<\/h2>\n

\"quattro<\/p>\n

Men are afraid of their girlfriends having friends they don\u2019t like. The truth is, each one of us is tied to our friends, sometimes even more than family.<\/p>\n

Ci rivolgiamo a loro per avere consigli, iniziamo a comportarci come loro e condividiamo con loro molti interessi e comportamenti.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t like the girl\u2019s friends, he might be afraid that she is a different kind of person then he imagined her to be, or might turn into one of those people he dislikes.<\/p>\n

7. Non avere interessi comuni<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I ragazzi hanno paura di non avere nulla di cui parlare con le ragazze o di non avere nulla da fare insieme.<\/p>\n

If a girl\u2019s interests are way too different from his, he will immediately imagine having no ways to spend his time with her.<\/p>\n

A guy also afraid of getting pushed to pursue her interests instead of his \u2013 something no guy wants to do.<\/p>\n

8. Il rapporto di coppia va in frantumi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Il tempo passa. La relazione che un tempo era fantastica si rivela impossibile da portare avanti. Lui si fa male.<\/p>\n

Yup, that\u2019s right, it all basically ties to guys\u2019 fear of being hurt in the end. They hate the thought of investing themselves and their emotions into something that\u2019s going to go to waste.<\/p>\n

9. Incontro con i genitori<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This one is obvious. They are afraid of meeting the girl\u2019s parents. There\u2019s this pressure to impress the girl\u2019s friends and family, but most importantly parents.<\/p>\n

They are scared that they won\u2019t come off great and that the girl\u2019s parents dislike of them will mean the girl will start to find faults in them too.<\/p>\n

10. Modifica<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

In definitiva, hanno paura del cambiamento. Ogni relazione porta dei cambiamenti nella vostra vita, che ve ne rendiate conto o meno.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re not talking about girls trying to change guys on purpose, but rather the common course of every relationship.<\/p>\n

Some guys hate the thought of their lives being different then what they are. They have their little rituals and the ways they want to go through the day, and changing this doesn\u2019t seem appealing to them.<\/p>\n

Devono accettare l'idea che il cambiamento \u00e8 necessario e di fatto positivo per loro, e trovare la ragazza per cui vale la pena cambiare la propria vita.<\/p>\n

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There are some common fears every guy has when it comes to relationships, even though they aren\u2019t always willing to admit them. Sometimes they\u2019re not even aware of the exact reason they are blocked from moving on further in their relationships, but they can feel there\u2019s something stopping them from committing to one girl. Take…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":67060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/67060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}