{"id":6724,"date":"2019-10-12T11:37:51","date_gmt":"2019-10-12T11:37:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6724"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:03:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:03:41","slug":"alla-persona-che-mi-ama-il-prossimo-ti-prego-di-perdonarmi-perche-sono-un-po-rotto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-persona-che-mi-ama-il-prossimo-ti-prego-di-perdonarmi-perche-sono-un-po-rotto\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla persona che mi ama il prossimo: Per favore, perdonami se sono un po' rotto"},"content":{"rendered":"

I promise you, it\u2019s not a big deal being a little bit broken.<\/strong> Dopo un po' ci si abitua.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a bit down sometimes and sometimes you have bad memories of what happened to you coming in waves and absolutely flood your head, but you learn to cope with it eventually.<\/p>\n

Those floods came a bit more often before, but now I’ve reduced it as much as I can. I\u2019m no longer broken,<\/a> I\u2019m just a little bit broken now.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che sono, quindi, per favore, risparmiaci tempo e don\u2019t try to fix me<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to erase my past because I\u2019m the only one who can do that. I erased as much pain as I could.<\/p>\n

I decreased the projecting of my insecurities on others as much as I was able to. But I\u2019ll always be a little bit broken.<\/p>\n

My broken ass was once very brave. I\u2019m not sure if I was brave or insane, but you get the point. I was fearless in everything I did and Non ho mai amato con met\u00e0 del mio cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ho sempre dato il meglio di me, alla mia famiglia, ai miei amici, alle persone che amavo. Ho puntato tutto su di me e ho scommesso molto con il mio cuore. E quando si gioca molto, bisogna essere pronti anche a perdere molto.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happened to me. Ho dato il mio cuore e in cambio l'ho avuto spezzato.<\/a> It\u2019s fine, not too big of a deal.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that I chose to be brave again and I chose to love you, too. I\u2019m saying that I\u2019ll always fight my past when it tries to stand between us.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll have to be patient with me.<\/p>\n

Vedete, quando mi sono rotto, ho implorato di essere qualcuno di diverso. Piangevo e volevo disperatamente non essere quello che ero. Volevo solo che il dolore sparisse.<\/p>\n

But if you have ever been as broken as I was, you\u2019d know that things don\u2019t really work that way. You can\u2019t make the pain go away.<\/p>\n

Potete permettervi di sentirlo, ma impedirgli di consumarvi.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, la mia rottura<\/a> mi ha trasformato nella persona che sono oggi. Ho imparato molto da questa esperienza una volta che sono riuscita a mettere a tacere il dolore e a concentrarmi sull'apprendimento e alla fine tutto ha avuto un senso.<\/p>\n

La lezione pi\u00f9 bella che ho imparato<\/a> after I got broken is that you can actually love even if you\u2019re broken. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Anzi, amate pi\u00f9 intensamente e meravigliosamente di un'altra persona che non \u00e8 mai stata spezzata. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti aggrappi all'amore cos\u00ec strettamente e senti tutto con un brivido tre volte pi\u00f9 grande.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At first, I didn\u2019t know how to put my heart back together and I had no idea if I was ever going to be able to love again. And then someone told me that I can\u2019t let the bad things that happened to me define me or define my future.<\/p>\n

Quel qualcuno ha anche detto che ho molto pi\u00f9 potere sul mio futuro che sul mio passato. E ho deciso di abbracciare questo concetto.<\/p>\n

I learned how to patch my heart back together, and although you can still see the cracks, I\u2019m ready for the new chapter of my life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because of the cracks that remain, because I\u2019m still a little bit broken, loving me won\u2019t be perfect. Loving me will be challenging and full of ups and downs and sometimes you might even ask yourself if what I\u2019m putting you through is worth it.<\/p>\n

But if you stick around long enough, if you decide to disregard my imperfections, I promise you, we’ll have the journey of our lives.<\/p>\n

Se mi perdonate perch\u00e9 sono un po' rotto, se mi accettate per quello che sono, vi prometto di impegnarmi di pi\u00f9 per essere ogni giorno un po' meno rotto.<\/p>\n

E prometto di non fare mai nulla di proposito per spezzarti. Perch\u00e9 so quanto faccia male e so che Alcune persone non si riprendono mai del tutto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I could never carry the burden of having broken someone’s heart on my shoulders. It would crush me.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se scegliete di amarmi, la me spezzata, prometto di amarvi a mia volta con il cuore pieno di crepe e con ogni crepa che vi ama pi\u00f9 di quanto io vi ami per intero.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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