{"id":6746,"date":"2020-05-13T08:35:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T08:35:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6746"},"modified":"2022-01-21T11:45:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T11:45:47","slug":"non-incolpare-le-chiamate-ubriache","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-incolpare-le-chiamate-ubriache\/","title":{"rendered":"Non biasimatela quando vi d\u00e0 dell'ubriaco"},"content":{"rendered":"

She would\u2019ve never called you sober. <\/b>She could never have made herself send you that text she just typed while she was sober. Her fingers write it, her heart desperately wants to send it, but her mind and her pride won’t let her do it.<\/p>\n

Whenever you cross her mind while she\u2019s sober, she successfully fights you. Each time you show up as an uninvited guest, she sees you off because she\u2019s strong enough while she\u2019s sober.<\/p>\n

Ti spinge in fondo alla sua mente e ti lascia l\u00ec finch\u00e9 riesce a trattenerti.<\/p>\n

She fights you and she doesn\u2019t allow herself to feel you.<\/b><\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t allow her sober self to ever think of you. <\/b>She doesn\u2019t allow herself to feel you and she tries so hard to put you in the past where you actually belong.<\/p>\n

But once her sobriety leaves, once a few beers mixed with a few shots of tequila kick in, she can\u2019t be held responsible for her actions.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata troppo forte per troppo tempo<\/b>.  <\/a>Ha lottato con le unghie e con i denti con se stessa, vuole non volerti, vuole dimenticarti e vuole solo andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Vuole vivere la vita che merita, senza il peso di aspettare qualcuno che potrebbe non arrivare mai. Ma tutto questo svanisce quando il suo ragionamento si offusca un po'.<\/p>\n

\"bruna<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9, once she isn\u2019t sober anymore, her mind arguments start.<\/b> Inizia a chiedersi se la vostra separazione sia stata una buona idea.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t escape the feeling that she could\u2019ve done something more and that if she had, you two could\u2019ve made it work out.<\/p>\n

She starts questioning your words, like when you said that she wasn\u2019t the one for you or that you weren\u2019t good enough for her or that you two were not right for each other.<\/p>\n

If she wasn\u2019t the one for you, how come she was able to bring you to your knees?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you weren\u2019t the one for her, how come she hates the idea of being free?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you weren\u2019t right for each other, why have you been through what you\u2019ve been through?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

All that she is sober, she stops being when she\u2019s drunk. <\/b>Smette di essere forte.<\/p>\n

She stops being rational. She starts listening to her heart and she dents her own pride. And then she\u2019s all yours again. And then you\u2019re more than present in her life.<\/p>\n

Ha ancora qualche bicchiere per dimenticarti, ma l'unica cosa che dimentica \u00e8 il suo orgoglio.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

So when her drunk fingers and her drunk mind let her heart take the lead, when she calls you or texts you, she\u2019ll fight it as much as she can, but just in case she can\u2019t\u2026<\/p>\n

In case she calls you drunk, don\u2019t hold her responsible for it. Her love isn\u2019t water under the bridge yet.<\/p>\n

Ti sente ancora, ti vuole ancora e spera ancora che non averti sia solo un brutto sogno che finir\u00e0 da un momento all'altro.<\/p>\n

When she calls you drunk, don\u2019t hold her responsible for it. You are the one responsible for all her pain, for all her sleepless nights, for all her unrequited love, so why should you blame her for one missed call or one unreturned message?<\/p>\n

You know, at the end of the day, no matter what happens, you have been been and you\u2019ll always be her everything\u2026 <\/b><\/p>\n

She might get up every morning ready to make the best of the day, she might make everything work for her, she might have other men falling at her feet, but you\u2019ll always be the one she calls when she\u2019s drunk<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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