{"id":68016,"date":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68016"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","slug":"cose-da-interrompere-cose-da-iniziare-a-fare-se-si-e-alla-ricerca-dellamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-da-interrompere-cose-da-iniziare-a-fare-se-si-e-alla-ricerca-dellamore\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cose da smettere e 4 cose da iniziare a fare se state cercando l'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

STOP<\/h2>\n

1. …choosing the guy you know is unavailable<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno schema autosabotante che molte donne seguono.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter the reason for him being unavailable, don\u2019t choose him. If you can see he\u2019s emotionally distanced, stop pursuing a relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s one of the boys who are open about never wanting to get married or have a committed relationship – don\u2019t let yourself fall for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that you constantly lose interest in guys who were unavailable and then become available – work on this issue.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …looking for romance and look for partnership instead<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

There is a certain type of guy or a certain type of situation that will probably attract you if you\u2019re looking for romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your thoughts and ideas of love consist of incredibly romantic, passionate scenarios – you might be on the wrong track.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re searching for love<\/a>Dovreste smettere di equiparare l'amore al romanticismo e iniziare a vederlo come una partnership. Questo cambier\u00e0 la vostra percezione e influenzer\u00e0 il modo in cui sceglierete i vostri potenziali partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you know you\u2019re looking for a person who will become your partner and be there for you for better or for worse, you\u2019ll think twice when you\u2019re choosing the one to be with.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …focusing on your phone so much<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Seriously, adjust your focus elsewhere. While there\u2019s a chance you\u2019ll find love online, the old fashioned ways work better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, if you\u2019re constantly following different people\u2019s lives, it might seem to you that their love lives are amazing.<\/span><\/p>\n

It may seem to you like they\u2019re continuously celebrating their love and enjoying every single moment of their romance and this can give you false expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, stop following other people\u2019s lives and trying to recreate other people\u2019s love stories. Instead, get up, go out, and try to create your own, unique story.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …thinking the perfect relationship won\u2019t require work<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Talking about false expectations, movies and books might have given you the idea that true love requires no work. Well, that\u2019s false.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sebbene il vero amore sia semplice e si possa sentire il legame con la propria anima gemella, le relazioni richiedono sempre un lavoro.<\/span><\/p>\n

You spend so much time with someone and share so much it\u2019s impossible for it to always go perfectly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, people change with time and the relationship changes with them. Both partners need to be equally ready to compromise and get used to each other and each other\u2019s needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, questo significa che dovreste smettere di aspettarvi che tutto fili sempre liscio e smettere di sprecare buone relazioni solo perch\u00e9 si verifica un piccolo problema. <\/span><\/p>\n

INIZIO<\/h2>\n

1. …enjoying time on your own<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Prima di trovare la persona con cui condividere la vita, bisogna imparare ad amare lo stare da soli. Godetevi il vostro tempo da soli. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t enjoy your own company, you can\u2019t really expect anyone else to, either.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many benefits to being single and you should take advantage of all of them, because once you find your soulmate you\u2019ll be taken forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …building up your confidence<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Essere sicuri di s\u00e9 \u00e8 importante per il proprio benessere e attira anche gli altri. Pensate alle vostre caratteristiche migliori e ricordatele a voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se ci sono cose da migliorare, fatele. Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi fa sentire bene con voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to become aware of your own worth so others don\u2019t make you think you\u2019re worth less than you actually are.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …understanding your own needs<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Before you enter a relationship and while you\u2019re still searching for love you should use that time to think about your actual wants and needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

What is it you\u2019re looking for in a partner? What are some things he simply needs to be\/do? What are some things he should never do?<\/span><\/p>\n

Che tipo di persona \u00e8 in grado di soddisfare le vostre esigenze? <\/span><\/p>\n

Scavate nella vostra mente, pensate alle vostre relazioni passate e a dove sono andate male e decidete in che modo avete bisogno di essere amati e quale tipo di persona pu\u00f2 darvi il tipo di amore che meritate.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …going to places people with the same interests as you go to<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Gli opposti si attraggono, ma anche avere degli interessi comuni rafforza una relazione. Inoltre, rende pi\u00f9 facile l'inizio di una relazione, perch\u00e9 offre qualcosa di cui parlare e su cui creare un legame.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have any particular interests (and everyone does), go to places where you\u2019ll find people with those same interests. If you like books – visit libraries, if you like tennis – go play on a public court, you see where I\u2019m going with this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Frequentare luoghi in cui \u00e8 possibile trovare persone simili a voi in un modo o nell'altro vi dar\u00e0 l'opportunit\u00e0 di instaurare un rapporto con qualcuno che sar\u00e0 in grado di capirvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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STOP 1. …choosing the guy you know is unavailable This is a self-sabotaging pattern many women follow. No matter the reason for him being unavailable, don\u2019t choose him. If you can see he\u2019s emotionally distanced, stop pursuing a relationship with him. If he\u2019s one of the boys who are open about never wanting to get…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":68037,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68016","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/4-Things-To-Stop-4-Things-To-Start-Doing-If-You\u2019re-Searching-For-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68016","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=68016"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68016\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=68016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=68016"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=68016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}