{"id":6802,"date":"2017-10-13T14:13:04","date_gmt":"2017-10-13T14:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6802"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:40:23","slug":"tempo-di-smettere-di-cercare-la-chiusura-nei-posti-sbagliati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tempo-di-smettere-di-cercare-la-chiusura-nei-posti-sbagliati\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 ora di smetterla di cercare la chiusura nei posti sbagliati"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe demand closure as though our lives were put together as neatly as novels, but the fact of the matter is they\u2019re not. In real life, relationships are messy and poorly written, ending too early or too late, and sometimes in the middle of a sentence.\u201d<\/em> Beau Taplin<\/strong><\/p>\n

La maggior parte di noi desidera una chiusura dopo la fine di una relazione.<\/a> We always want to get to the bottom of things. We want to know the real reason, because all the words said at the end seem vague and unclear and they don\u2019t seem like enough.<\/p>\n

The worst thing is when people you were with refuse to give you clear explanations. You can\u2019t help like feeling there are some loose ends and that even though the relationship is over, it hasn\u2019t ended yet – at least not for you.<\/p>\n

Non siete in grado di capirlo. Hai fatto di tutto per far funzionare le cose. Hai rispettato la persona con cui stavi. L'hai amata pi\u00f9 di quanto le parole possano descrivere.<\/p>\n

And they leave without giving an explanation. At least they don\u2019t give an explanation you are satisfied with or one that you believe in.<\/p>\n

Iniziate a pensare che, dopo tutto il tempo trascorso insieme, non siete degni di una spiegazione. Dopo <\/em>tutti you\u2019ve been through. After all the time and effort invested into that one person. Haven\u2019t you deserved more? More than them cowardly and silently leaving you?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"\u00c8<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa che si pu\u00f2 fare quando le cose non vengono dette \u00e8 dirle a se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In primo luogo, \u00e8 necessario rendersi conto che Alcune cose \u00e8 meglio non dirle.<\/a><\/strong> Forse, se si ricevessero le risposte giuste da quella persona, farebbe pi\u00f9 danni.<\/p>\n

In secondo luogo, alcune persone sono destinate a essere passeggeri temporanei della vostra vita.<\/strong> That doesn\u2019t mean you were just a stop along the way. It means you needed each other for that certain period of time.
\nSome people are not meant to stay forever – they are just there to keep you company and teach you some things about life and love, till your forever person comes.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, bisogna affrontare il fatto che le cose a volte accadono e basta.<\/strong> Forse non si stanno evolvendo nel modo in cui volevate. Forse la rottura \u00e8 avvenuta quando meno ve lo aspettavate. Ma difficilmente si pu\u00f2 essere pronti per la fine di una relazione. La cosa da fare, allora, \u00e8 rendersi conto che non tutto \u00e8 nelle nostre mani e che la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 lasciar perdere e andare avanti.<\/a><\/p>\n

Riconoscerete di essere andati avanti semplicemente sentendovi liberi, senza pensare al passato e senza provare alcuna emozione per quella persona. Vi piacer\u00e0 la sensazione liberatoria di non preoccuparvi pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

You have to realize that it\u2019s all up to you. Make peace with the fact that nobody can grant you closure. There is no explanation that would be adequate enough to make you feel better. Things end and they hurt for as long as they have to till you eventually see that you are the one who had to let it go.<\/p>\n

L'unica persona che pu\u00f2 garantirvi la chiusura siete voi.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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