We don\u2019t want to know our loved one or our friend isn\u2019t as good of a person as we imagine them to be.<\/p>\n
Siamo tutti vittime della nostra mente e del nostro ego che giocano con noi, facendoci credere che tutto ci\u00f2 che percepiamo come vero sia assolutamente vero.<\/p>\n
Ci vogliono anni, molti anni, per conoscere davvero qualcuno.<\/p>\n
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A volte ci troviamo a un certo punto della nostra vita in cui abbiamo bisogno di bont\u00e0. Incontriamo una persona e abbiamo bisogno che sia buona e all'improvviso lo diventa.<\/p>\n
Abbiamo bisogno che un ragazzo sia la nostra anima gemella e ci facciamo credere che lo sia. Abbiamo bisogno di avere un vero amico e la persona pi\u00f9 conveniente della nostra vita diventa solo questo nella nostra mente.<\/p>\n
We recognize in people the things we\u2019re desperately searching for.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, we see people as we are, not as they are, because that\u2019s the only way we know.<\/strong><\/p>\n People don\u2019t have to persuade us to see them a certain way. We choose how we see them anyway.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why those among us who are the best possible people they can be get easily deceived. They get hurt by people because they suppose everyone is as good as they are.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, non tutti vi tratteranno come voi trattate loro. There are some times when there\u2019s so much more to know that isn\u2019t tied to our direct experiences with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Some people are so much more or so much less than we give them credit for. We create our image of a person based on the experiences we\u2019ve had with them.<\/p>\n Luckily, or sadly, depending on your point of view, the experiences they share with us aren\u2019t their only experiences in life. This is why it takes so much time to know someone.<\/p>\n Dobbiamo passare molto tempo con loro per ripercorrere tutte le nostre storie e avere l'opportunit\u00e0 di fare molte esperienze diverse insieme.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the only way to truly get to know someone.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t trust your opinion of someone if you have just met them. Yes, there are instincts and there is intuition but before you follow them, ask yourself if your \u2018intuition\u2019 is telling you what you want to hear. Because our mind works in wondrous ways.<\/p>\n A volte vediamo una persona come qualcosa che pu\u00f2 essere piuttosto che come qualcosa che \u00e8 realmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Spesso nella vita vediamo le persone attraverso il prisma del loro potenziale e delle loro possibilit\u00e0. Ad essere brutali, pochissime persone raggiungono il loro pieno potenziale.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s say you\u2019re in a relationship. Your boyfriend has some wonderful traits but also many flaws which, in the future, he can correct if he\u2019d only try to.<\/p>\n You just know he has it in him to be the most gentle, loving guy there is. The truth is, you\u2019re looking at him through your \u2018unachieved potential\u2019 goggles and chances are he\u2019s never ever going to change.<\/p>\n La parte pi\u00f9 bella di tutto questo \u00e8 che a volte le persone possono sorprenderci per quanto sono straordinarie.<\/strong><\/p>\n You might have met those people when they were at their lowest or maybe you were at your lowest and didn\u2019t see things clearly.<\/p>\n Yes, some people in your life are going to prove themselves to be so amazing that you won\u2019t believe it. You\u2019ll wonder how you didn\u2019t see them as those lovely persons before.<\/p>\n That\u2019s just it, we\u2019re not always able to create a completely true image of someone in our mind.<\/p>\n Circondatevi di persone che vi fanno stare bene, che sono oneste e gentili e che sperano nel meglio.<\/strong><\/p>\n The truth is, we\u2019re all on this crazy ride together and the best we can do is love each other and hope things work out for us.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Yes, I know what\u2019s going through your mind right now: \u2018\u2019Of course, people aren\u2019t always who we think they are. Everyone has a limited perception.\u2019\u2019 Bear with me though. Has it ever happened to you to lose a friend over something they did that you thought to be impossible for them to do? 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