{"id":6813,"date":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6813"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","slug":"la-bellezza-dellessere-spezzati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-bellezza-dellessere-spezzati\/","title":{"rendered":"La bellezza dell'essere rotti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>We\u2019re all a bit broken, aren\u2019t we?<\/strong> And we\u2019re still beautiful human beings who deserve to see that there is more to life than things and people who broke us. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/caseygueren\/breakups-suck?utm_term=.vmJ7mlwXO#.qyXlj9GYM\" rel=\"noopener\">Quando si rompe<\/a>, the story doesn\u2019t end. It\u2019s where your story starts, in fact.<\/p>\n<p>When you get broken, and it usually happens when you trust somebody with your whole heart, you feel like it\u2019s the end of the world. You repeatedly say how you can\u2019t do it anymore and you question the meaning of everything.<\/p>\n<p>All you have inside are dark thoughts because there isn\u2019t space for happiness when you get broken. There is only dark and dark is so damn scary when you\u2019re broken.<\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019re left alone in the dark room, all that you\u2019ve been through, all the demons start flooding your mind, whether in the form of a person or your insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>And there isn\u2019t anything you can do other than to let it overwhelm you. That\u2019s why you feel like you\u2019re choking. No matter how hard you swim, you\u2019re still sinking.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121280 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down.jpg\" alt=\"la donna si siede su una sedia a testa bassa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I wish there was a magic wand to heal broken people, but there isn\u2019t<\/strong>. E qualsiasi consiglio vi dia potrebbe non essere applicabile. L'unica costante che guarisce le rotture \u00e8 il tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Avete bisogno di tempo per guarire. Avete bisogno di tempo per elaborare ci\u00f2 che vi \u00e8 successo. Avete bisogno di tempo per pensare con chiarezza a ci\u00f2 che avete passato esattamente e di tempo per riuscire a riflettere sulle lezioni che avete imparato una volta che vi siete rotti. C'\u00e8 tanta bellezza nel tempo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, you loved and you got broken and that\u2019s fucking heroic if you ask me.<\/strong> Despite knowing that there are bad people who\u2019ll take your heart and squeeze the life out of it with their bare hands before your own eyes, you still did it.<\/p>\n<p>Avete amato pur sapendo che era meglio cos\u00ec e siete stati spezzati. Sei rimasto con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ha-mai-lasciato-lividi-corpo-cuore\/\">un cuore pieno di crepe<\/a>occhi pieni di lacrime e la testa piena di paure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Despite your demons, you get up every morning and you fight through the day like only you can. You fight each new day that tries to break you again. You might be broken, but you\u2019re still a warrior, you\u2019re still a hero.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121282 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"una donna si siede per terra accanto alla finestra e beve un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehopeline.com\/35-getting-over-a-broken-heart-part-4\" rel=\"noopener\">Il lato oscuro dell'essere spezzati<\/a> is that the world doesn\u2019t stop for you. But that\u2019s also the beauty of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you get broken, you hit rock bottom, but you don\u2019t have to stay there.<\/strong> Proprio l\u00ec, in fondo, avete la possibilit\u00e0 di ricominciare tutto da capo. Avete l'opportunit\u00e0 di iniziare il vostro viaggio verso la cima e di assicurarvi che questa volta lo facciate bene.<\/p>\n<p>When you get broken, you become an empty shell. But eventually, if you decide to fight it, you can create the new beautiful pearl. You can be everything you\u2019ve never been.<\/p>\n<p>Si pu\u00f2 imparare a vedere il mondo con occhi diversi e che i pezzi rotti possono aggiungere pi\u00f9 valore alla propria vita se si impara a usarli. Dopo aver subito una rottura, il dolore \u00e8 inevitabile, ma la quantit\u00e0 di sofferenza dipende da voi.<\/p>\n<p>The more you allow yourself to feel, the quicker you\u2019ll get over it. Just try to look at it as one episode of your life &#8211; the whole show doesn\u2019t need to be about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121284 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con i capelli biondi e crespi si affaccia alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you get broken, your love gets broken, too. But what you don\u2019t know is that once broken, you will always be able to love harder than before. Once you\u2019ve been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si finisce per amare di nuovo, si finisce per avere altre persone per riempire le crepe causate da una persona. Si finisce per sposare una persona meravigliosa che promette di amarti per sempre. Si finisce per avere dei figli e per recuperare la vita che si \u00e8 lasciata quando si \u00e8 rotto.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni giorno diventi un po' meno spezzato, perch\u00e9 ogni volta che qualcun altro ti ama, le tue crepe si riempiono di amore dorato. E ogni volta che qualcuno diverso dalla persona che vi ha spezzato decide di riversare altro amore nel vostro cuore spezzato, questo finisce per essere pi\u00f9 bello e pi\u00f9 splendente che mai.<\/p>\n<p>Never-broken hearts don\u2019t shine like broken ones, because there are no cracks to pour love into. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/mariem-sherif\/2017\/02\/your-brokenness-is-beautiful\/\" rel=\"noopener\">And that\u2019s the most beautiful part about it.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Dormite serenamente. Hai dato il massimo. Hai amato con il cuore. Il tuo cuore pieno di lividi \u00e8 solo un segno che hai vissuto e amato senza trattenersi. Non molte persone hanno il coraggio di farlo.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121281 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La bellezza dell&#039;essere rotti\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019re all a bit broken, aren\u2019t we? And we\u2019re still beautiful human beings who deserve to see that there is more to life than things and people who broke us. When you get broken, the story doesn\u2019t end. It\u2019s where your story starts, in fact. When you get broken, and it usually happens when you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121279,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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