{"id":6818,"date":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6818"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","slug":"il-ragazzo-della-lettera-lascia-andare-la-ragazza-giusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-della-lettera-lascia-andare-la-ragazza-giusta\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera al ragazzo che ha lasciato andare la ragazza giusta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non capisci, vero?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Non siete ancora consapevoli del fatto che lasciate andare la ragazza che era quella giusta.<\/a> Quella che potevi presentare ai tuoi genitori e quella che non ti vergognavi di mostrare in pubblico. Vedete, era una donna da amare.<\/p>\n

Ma siete stati cos\u00ec ciechi da non vedere ci\u00f2 che avevate accanto a voi. E ora, dovresti pagare per i tuoi peccati. Dovresti pagare per tutto il dolore che hai causato alla persona giusta.<\/p>\n

You were selfish enough to forbid her to smile when you were sad, as you didn\u2019t want to see that she was having a good time without you.<\/p>\n

Hai pensato solo a te stesso e ai tuoi bisogni.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

And her? Like any woman in love, she blindly listened to all that you had to say. She respected all your decisions, even if she didn\u2019t like them. She suffered to prove to you how big her love was.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t even want to fight for her. Instead of that, you were fighting with her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Every single day was a battle without an end. And every time it broke her heart to pieces. She couldn\u2019t understand that a man who she loved so much could hurt her so tremendously. She couldn\u2019t understand that you had the power to ruin her day by saying only a sentence.<\/p>\n

Le tue brutte parole le hanno spezzato il cuore, ma lei era ancora in piedi, fingendo che tutto andasse bene, mentre dentro di s\u00e9 cadeva a pezzi.<\/a><\/p>\n

When I stop and think now, I don\u2019t get how a man can be so stupid and blind.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t he see that the woman next to him accepted all his imperfections and that she is still there?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Why doesn\u2019t he respect a woman like that? That is the least he can do. But no! His fucking ego doesn\u2019t let him do it. That\u2019s why he hurt her, pushed her to the boundary of losing her mind, just like you did to her. Did you think it would change something if you hurt her? Did you think she would finally be a puppet in your hands while you were the master puppet, making her do everything that you wanted?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have a clue what you were thinking but one thing is for sure – you shouldn\u2019t have let the right one go.<\/a><\/p>\n

So che ora ti senti in colpa. So che ci sono pensieri che continuano a venire quando sei a letto da solo. E ti chiedi se ci sarebbe potuto essere un altro modo per finire tutto.<\/p>\n

Poteva essere diverso?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You see, it could have been way different if you\u2019d had the guts to love her sincerely. But since you are fucked up, you can\u2019t love anyone without hurting them.<\/p>\n

E avresti dovuto dirglielo. Avresti dovuto dirle che non eri pronto per una ragazza perfetta, come lo era lei. Ed era chiarissimo che lei ti amava con tutto il cuore.<\/p>\n

She showed you that so many times while you just neglected her, because you took her for granted, thinking that she would stay no matter what you did. You see, you were wrong. A good woman is always aware of her worth and she won\u2019t settle for less than she deserves.<\/p>\n

Ora, dopo tanti anni senza di lei, state ancora soffrendo, cercando di trovare l'amore in luoghi oscuri.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Cercate donne per avventure di una notte, ma dovete sapere che non vi ameranno mai come ha fatto lei. Ora c'\u00e8 un altro uomo nella sua vita, quello che non la d\u00e0 per scontata. L'uomo che \u00e8 quello giusto per lei.<\/p>\n

Colui che \u00e8 il suo amante, amico e anima gemella allo stesso tempo.<\/a> And no, she doesn\u2019t think about you anymore. She decided to leave the past where it belongs.Yo<\/em><\/strong>Pu\u00f2 mancare, ma non torner\u00e0 mai da chi l'ha abbandonata.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

You can call but she will never pick up. You can fall apart but she won\u2019t see it, because she finally realized that you were never enough for her. She realized that you couldn\u2019t give her all that love and affection that she desperately needed.<\/p>\n

Ora, sii un vero uomo e affronta il dolore. Solo per un attimo, sentiti come si \u00e8 sentita lei quando l'hai lasciata distrutta e sola. E piangi come ha fatto lei. Nessuno vedr\u00e0 le tue lacrime, ma almeno imparerai come non trattare una donna che ti ama. E un giorno, quando finalmente andrai avanti, spero che riuscirai a perdonare te stesso per tutto quello che le hai fatto.<\/p>\n

Because, darling, you can bet that she won\u2019t!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t get it, do you? You are still not aware of the fact that you let go of the girl who was the right one. The one you could introduce to your parents and the one who you were not ashamed to show in public. You see, she was a woman to love. But…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":123554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Let-The-Right-Girl-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6818"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}