{"id":6823,"date":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6823"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","slug":"le-amicizie-non-sono-destinate-a-durare-una-stagione-della-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-amicizie-non-sono-destinate-a-durare-una-stagione-della-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"Alcune amicizie non sono destinate a durare pi\u00f9 di una stagione della vostra vita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/judith-johnson\/when-your-partner-becomes_b_6542624.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> qualcuno che era cos\u00ec vicino a te ora \u00e8 un estraneo<\/a>. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever.<\/p>\n<p>Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something difficult we need to cope with and let go of.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you and your childhood friend grow up to be two completely different individuals who can\u2019t get along so well anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Hanging out and talking isn\u2019t as easy as it used to be. Once you might\u2019ve had a lot of things in common, a variety of different topics. Now the conversation is forced and you have a lot of moments of awkward silence.<\/p>\n<p>You often meet new friends in school, in your studies, at work or near to where you live. Your timetables are similar and it\u2019s convenient and easy for you guys to spend time together. When things change, friendship changes too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You drift apart because it\u2019s not so convenient to spend time together anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2015\/10\/how-friendships-change-over-time-in-adulthood\/411466\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Ora gli orari devono essere modificati e bisogna trovare il tempo per gli amici.<\/a> \u00c8 qui che si capisce se era solo una convenienza e non una vera amica.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111989 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una bionda triste siede alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, if she was a true friend, you would make an effort, you would stay in touch and give the best of you to make it work. If not, then it\u2019s just not worth crying over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anche le relazioni possono ostacolare l'amicizia.<\/strong> Quando alcuni dei nostri amici si innamorano, scelgono di passare tutto il loro tempo con l'altro, quindi tendono a perdere di vista voi.<\/p>\n<p>They just don\u2019t have the time, unless they are having troubles in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>In questa situazione, torneranno strisciando da voi, perch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 una spalla su cui piangere come la vostra. Questa situazione diventa molto presto vecchia. Vi sentite usati e l'amicizia \u00e8 destinata a finire.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There are times when you don\u2019t really know the people you are friends with.<\/strong> Dopo un po' mostrano il loro vero volto.<\/p>\n<p>Oppure si scopre che sono due facce e non si riesce mai a conoscerle veramente. Vi siete fidati di loro per tutto e vi hanno tradito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111990 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"una donna triste seduta in riva al mare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might feel like the biggest fool, you weren\u2019t just good friends in this case. They were meant to be in your life to teach you a lesson and make you grow. Be grateful for the experience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le amicizie vanno lavorate.<\/strong> Friends aren\u2019t the ones who are there only when it\u2019s convenient or when they have nothing better to do. They will find the time and make an effort and they will expect the same from you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Gli amici sono presenti nelle difficolt\u00e0 e nel dolore. Sono presenti nella beatitudine e nella felicit\u00e0. Sono l\u00ec per condividere tutto con voi. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holly-riordan\/2017\/10\/even-though-we-go-weeks-without-seeing-each-other-youre-still-my-best-friend\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Se non \u00e8 cos\u00ec, allora non sono mai stati il vostro vero <\/a><\/em>amici<em> per cominciare.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Never regret any of your past friendships. Don\u2019t burden yourself with what you could\u2019ve, should\u2019ve, would\u2019ve done to change things or make a friendship last.<\/p>\n<p>Alcune persone non sono destinate a stare con voi fino alla fine dei vostri giorni.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dovevano essere una stagione di passaggio nella vostra vita e niente di pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Solo se siete abbastanza fortunati troverete almeno un amico che sar\u00e0 presente in tutte le vostre stagioni e avrete un'amicizia che durer\u00e0 per tutta la vita. <\/strong>vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111992 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Alcune amicizie non sono destinate a durare pi\u00f9 di una stagione della vostra vita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how someone who was so close to you is a stranger now. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever. Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":111987,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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