{"id":6835,"date":"2020-07-16T10:17:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6835"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:02:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:02:50","slug":"la-ragazza-delle-lettere-si-prende-cura-di-tutti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-si-prende-cura-di-tutti\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera alla ragazza che si prende cura di tutti tranne che di se stessa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mio caro,<\/strong><\/p>\n

So che state facendo del vostro meglio per soddisfare tutte le persone che vi circondano. Ma in tutto questo disordine, state dimenticando di prendersi cura di s\u00e9.<\/a> Quindi fermatevi un attimo e respirate.<\/p>\n

Your life mission is not to save the world, so don\u2019t do it, okay? Take some time for yourself only and enjoy the things that you didn\u2019t have time to do for a while. Listen to your favorite song or go to the movies with your friends. But don\u2019t let other people\u2019s problems affect you so badly.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to save all of them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they want to, they can change their own lives. So, just leave them to handle their problems alone. Because you can\u2019t carry all their problems on your shoulders. If you continue doing that, you will burn out. And then you won\u2019t be good to yourself or to your friends.<\/p>\n

Forse lo fai per allontanarti dai tuoi problemi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 facile dare consigli che riceverli e seguirli nella propria vita. Forse siete cos\u00ec concentrati sugli altri<\/a> che si dimenticano i propri problemi e si pensa che in qualche modo, come per magia, svaniranno.<\/p>\n

Forse \u00e8 solo il vostro modo di gestire tutto lo stress accumulato dentro di voi.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you want to save the world, you can\u2019t do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are not a hero who will save all those who suffer or take their pain away. Your heart is too small to store all those feelings. You will end up in tears, completely broken because you didn\u2019t think about yourself in time.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Please, remember that some things can\u2019t be fixed. The same is with people. Some of them don\u2019t want to be fixed and some of them are simply not ready to do that yet. So let it go. It is okay to let it go and leave others to decide about their lives.<\/p>\n

Si ripongono aspettative elevate, pensando che se si \u00e8 bravi, gli altri la penseranno allo stesso modo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But in most cases that is not true. People are self-centered and selfish and most of them wouldn\u2019t help you if they saw you suffering.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to help everyone but there are times when you need to say, \u2018No.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dovete fare di voi stessi una priorit\u00e0 e non un'opzione.<\/a> Because if you don\u2019t do it, nobody else will. If you continue doing all this you will lose yourself in the chaos.<\/p>\n

And once you lose yourself, it is difficult to be the old you again. So, be smart. Help people but don\u2019t forget to help yourself in the first place. And every time you feel like not getting out of your home, stay there. You need yourself and others can wait.<\/p>\n

Quello che avete fatto \u00e8 straordinario e vorrei solo che ci fossero pi\u00f9 persone come voi in questo posto crudele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vorrei che tutti coloro che hai aiutato cos\u00ec tante volte ti prendessero per mano e attraversassero la vita con te quando stai attraversando una brutta fase della tua vita. Vorrei che gli altri fossero cos\u00ec attenti e premurosi come lei.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You are worthy. You are amazing. And above all, your heart is made out of gold. I hope you will find a person who will be with you in better or worse, treating you like a queen, because that\u2019s what you are – a queen.<\/p>\n

Spero che qualcuno veda la luminosit\u00e0 e l'onest\u00e0 nei vostri occhi e vi offra lo stesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And I hope he will be worth the wait. So, continue doing what you are the best at – spreading the love and affection – but don\u2019t forget to keep some of that for yourself.<\/p>\n

Il mondo \u00e8 fortunato ad avere una persona come lei!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con amore,
\nUno che c'\u00e8 stato<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My Dear, I know that you are giving your best to satisfy all those people around you. But in all that mess, you are forgetting to take care of yourself. So just stop for a second and breathe. Your life mission is not to save the world, so don\u2019t do it, okay? Take some time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":114721,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Takes-Care-Of-Everyone-But-Herself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114721"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}