{"id":6839,"date":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:36:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6839"},"modified":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T00:12:33","slug":"non-complicato-voluto-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-complicato-voluto-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Non \u00e8 cos\u00ec complicato - Se volesse stare con te, starebbe con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 una cosa che fa molto male sapere, ma bisogna ammettere a se stessi che \u00e8 sempre meglio essere feriti dalla verit\u00e0 che confortati dalle bugie.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9, prima o poi, la verit\u00e0<\/a> verr\u00e0 fuori e se verr\u00e0 fuori pi\u00f9 tardi far\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 male che se venisse fuori prima. E la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. Se volesse stare con te, starebbe con te.<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s much easier to believe it\u2019s just complicated. I know it hurts a little less to blame it on the timing, to blame it on anything else, just so you wouldn\u2019t have to blame it on him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you kept waiting for so long.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why hope never left your side and that\u2019s why you were able to make yourself believe that one day it just wouldn\u2019t be complicated anymore and that finally, the waiting would be worthwhile.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio cos\u00ec che hai continuato a spezzarti pezzo per pezzo. Perch\u00e9 con lui non avrebbe mai smesso di essere complicato.<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti modi in cui questo potrebbe andare.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe essere uno stronzo che ha solo bisogno di usarti per far ingelosire qualcuno, o forse \u00e8 semplicemente un uomo tossico<\/a> che ha bisogno di qualcuno su cui proiettare le sue insicurezze. Forse eri solo un semplice oggetto di scena per occupare il suo tempo.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore sarebbe se fosse un bravo ragazzo che avete dovuto lasciare andare.<\/p>\n

He could be the person who makes you feel good about yourself but doesn\u2019t really feel the same way you do. Or he could like you, but still not think you\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n

It could be that he\u2019d be with you if there wasn\u2019t this other person with him.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Regardless of what the scenario is, if he wanted you, he wouldn\u2019t need to think about it, and if he really wanted to be with you, it would just be instinct for him to choose you.<\/p>\n

And since you\u2019re thinking it\u2019s complicated while it seems he has no intention of choosing you, you might have to face the ugly reality:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated actually. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop making excuses for him and justifying his actions.<\/a><\/p>\n

Pensate per un attimo a voi stessi e a come vi comportate. \u00c8 davvero cos\u00ec complicato nella vostra vita? Se voleste qualcuno, trovereste delle scuse o lottereste per lui?<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t allow somebody who you want in your life to think he\u2019s not your priority or that you wouldn\u2019t allow anything to stand in your way and there is nothing stopping him from doing the same.<\/p>\n

Aspettatevi la sua mancanza di volont\u00e0, naturalmente.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There are two ways that you can allow this to go and no matter which one you choose, you\u2019re going to get heartbroken either way.<\/p>\n

Ma il lato positivo \u00e8 che si pu\u00f2 scegliere di spezzare il cuore solo una volta, invece che rompendolo ancora e ancora<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You will keep breaking your heart if you keep justifying his actions. You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep choosing a man who isn\u2019t likely to choose you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep breaking your heart if you keep waiting for the one you\u2019re almost sure won\u2019t ever come to you in the way you\u2019d like him to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma il cuore si spezza solo una volta se si decide di essere sinceri con se stessi. Ci si spezza il cuore una sola volta se si decide di non ingannare pi\u00f9 se stessi.<\/p>\n

Se scegliete voi stessi come priorit\u00e0, vi spezzate una sola volta. Spezzate il vostro cuore solo per questa volta e andate avanti dopo aver accettato:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that complicated. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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