{"id":68398,"date":"2020-05-13T16:05:07","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68398"},"modified":"2021-09-10T09:37:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-10T09:37:30","slug":"relazione-a-distanza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-a-distanza\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cose da sapere prima di iniziare una relazione a distanza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sapete come si dice \"lontano dagli occhi, lontano dal cuore\"?<\/p>\n<p>Anche se molte persone credono a questo detto, una delle citazioni pi\u00f9 famose su come iniziare una relazione a distanza ci insegna qualcosa di completamente diverso. Dice:<\/p>\n<p>\u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/true-love\/coupled-up\/9-segni-di-vero-amore-uomo\/\">Il vero amore<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean being inseparable. It means being separated and nothing changes\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Well, this is exactly what you should focus on if you\u2019re about to begin a relationship long distance.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, nonostante il suo lato romantico, mantenere una relazione di coppia non \u00e8 tutto rose e fiori.<\/p>\n<p>Anzi, spesso \u00e8 stressante e difficile da gestire.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here; to tell you everything you need to know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Allacciate le cinture, continuate a leggere e armatevi di tanta pazienza! Buona fortuna!<\/p>\n<h2>1. Sar\u00e0 diversa da tutte le altre relazioni.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68468 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna in abito rosso che messaggia al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/young-woman-texting-on-phone-768x504.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; being in a long distance relationship is nowhere similar to being in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you might have had a bunch of boyfriends or girlfriends before but trust me, in this relationship, it will feel like you\u2019re doing everything for the first time ever.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should magically forget all about your previous experiences when it comes to romance.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, preparatevi che questa volta le cose saranno diverse.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, be aware of the fact that this journey won\u2019t be easy. I\u2019m not saying this to scare you off.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio invece che siate pronti al cento per cento per ci\u00f2 che verr\u00e0 dopo.<\/p>\n<p>Decidere di iniziare una relazione a distanza \u00e8 una scelta difficile e comporta numerose responsabilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, mantenere il successo e la salute allo stesso tempo \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/p>\n<p>Sia voi che il vostro partner dovrete fare molti sacrifici per far funzionare nel modo giusto la vostra relazione a distanza.<\/p>\n<p>In many situations, you\u2019ll feel like a little, lost child without anyone to guide you.<\/p>\n<p>However, all of this doesn\u2019t mean that long distance relationships aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, questo vi porter\u00e0 molti problemi, non c'\u00e8 dubbio.<\/p>\n<p>However, if the love is real and if what you two have is meant to last, I promise you that you\u2019ll succeed in preserving your romance.<\/p>\n<p>This means that you\u2019ll have to decide whether this is something you\u2019re ready for.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you can guarantee that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life with this person. After all, you can never know what the future brings.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, bisogna riflettere bene e decidere se questa persona \u00e8 degna di tutte le difficolt\u00e0 che inevitabilmente si presenteranno.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, dovete capire se \u00e8 una persona con cui volete iniziare questo viaggio.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t be the bad guy if you give up now.<\/p>\n<p>After all, it\u2019s better to be honest and back out in time than to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-colpa-sua-se-ti-ha-illuso-ma-e-colpa-tua-se-glielo-hai-permesso\/\">guida su<\/a> entrambi per mezzo anno solo per capire che questo tipo di storia d'amore non fa per voi.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Sometimes you\u2019ll feel alone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68469 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Triste e solitaria donna afroamericana seduta sulla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve come to the number one thing you should know before starting a long distance relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It means that, despite all of the obstacles, you\u2019ve come to terms with yourself and your loved one.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve both clearly made a decision to give your story a shot.<\/p>\n<p>Well, if that is the case, the first thing you need to know is that there will be times when you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-ti-meriti-un-uomo-che-ti-faccia-sentire-sola-in-una-relazione\/\">sentirsi soli<\/a>soprattutto nei momenti difficili.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who lives in the same city as you do or in an hour\u2019s drive away, this person is constantly physically present in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Uscite insieme e passate molto del vostro tempo libero insieme.<\/p>\n<p>In media, questo tipo di coppie si vedono poche volte alla settimana.<\/p>\n<p>However, things won\u2019t go that way once you start a long distance relationship in which you and your partner live in different cities.<\/p>\n<p>In effetti, passerete pi\u00f9 tempo separati che insieme.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, your partner is usually a short drive away from you.<\/p>\n<p>You can call them to come over whenever you\u2019re feeling down, you can go by their house to see them just for a few moments when you miss them and they can run to you whenever you want them around.<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re in a long-term relationship, you won\u2019t have your significant other next to you when you need them the most; at least, not physically.<\/p>\n<p>Also, be aware that you\u2019ll spend many of the important dates by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You probably won\u2019t manage to arrange a get-together every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/auguri-di-compleanno-per-la-sorella\/\">compleanno<\/a>, Valentine\u2019s Day or anniversary and you\u2019ll be going without your plus-one to some weddings and other important events.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019re taken and in a committed relationship, sometimes you\u2019ll feel more single than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, qui non c'\u00e8 spontaneit\u00e0. Almeno, non quella a cui sono abituate le coppie medie.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner can\u2019t appear in front of your window just to see you, they can\u2019t surprise you for a quick lunch on your break from work and you can\u2019t go out for a night drive which will last half an hour to clear your thoughts when you\u2019re both busy.<\/p>\n<p>You and your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend will have to see each other according to a strict schedule so you\u2019ll have to plan your date nights in advance.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u00c8 necessario stabilire alcune regole di base<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68472 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card.jpg\" alt=\"Persona che tiene in mano un cartoncino marrone con il testo There are rules scritto sopra\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/person-holding-brown-card-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei consigli pi\u00f9 importanti per un rapporto di coppia \u00e8 quello di stabilire delle regole di base fin dall'inizio della relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this applies to all other romances as well. However, something like is especially significant in relationships in which you two are not constantly present in each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you have to be clear about what\u2019s acceptable for each one of you.<\/p>\n<p>It is important to note that you\u2019ll both have to have social lives outside of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should allow your partner to control your entire existence but you have to determine what\u2019s okay and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>Ad esempio, dovete sapere dove e con chi si trova l'altra persona in ogni momento e vi informerete a vicenda su dove trascorrete tutto il vostro tempo senza di lei oppure no.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 importante se si vogliono evitare inutili <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/modi-per-combattere-la-gelosia\/\">gelosia<\/a> di diventare un problema.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that people in long-term relationships are more unfaithful than the rest of the world but a lack of trust in this case is much more common.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have no idea what the other person is doing in their city. As far as you\u2019re concerned, they could have a secret life you have no clue about.<\/p>\n<p>La seconda questione da concordare \u00e8 l'orario e l'organizzazione degli incontri. Chi visiter\u00e0 chi?<\/p>\n<p>Quanto spesso vi vedrete? Ci sono date importanti durante l'anno in cui volete che il vostro partner sia accanto a voi?<\/p>\n<p>Quanto spesso dovreste parlare al telefono? Come funzioner\u00e0 la vostra relazione a distanza?<\/p>\n<p>I know that you might think that all of these rules will kill the spontaneity; after all, it\u2019s anything but romantic to have a scheduled goodnight Skype or Facetime video chat every evening.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, se volete che le cose funzionino, queste regole di base sono obbligatorie.<\/p>\n<h2>4. La comunicazione \u00e8 fondamentale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72590 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Donna felice che parla al cellulare vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-talking-on-phone-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La comunicazione \u00e8 fondamentale per ogni relazione, soprattutto per quelle sentimentali.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, quando si tratta di un amore a distanza, \u00e8 il fattore numero uno da cui dipende il suo successo.<\/p>\n<p>You see, couples like this don\u2019t have the \u2018regular\u2019 things everyone else in love has. In fact, they only depend on the talking part and if that doesn\u2019t work, nothing else will either.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, dovete diventare un eccellente ascoltatore, anche se non lo siete mai stati prima.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll need to learn how to understand whatever your partner is trying to tell you.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete permettere loro di esprimersi e di parlarvi dei loro sentimenti, pensieri, desideri e paure.<\/p>\n<p>When they\u2019re the one talking, there is no interrupting and imposing your own opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing you\u2019ll have to work on is your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/personality-types\/8-modi-in-cui-gli-empatici-amano-in-modo-diverso\/\">capacit\u00e0 empatiche<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s hard to fully comprehend the person sitting next to you, let alone someone you\u2019re talking to over the phone or someone you\u2019re texting or emailing; after all, this person is not physically present by your side.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t monitor their behavior and it will take you a lot more time to truly understand their points of view regarding certain things.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, to become an excellent listener overnight, you\u2019ll also have to improve your talking skills.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che questo non \u00e8 un tipo di relazione in cui si pu\u00f2 fare pace quel giorno o quando l'altro vi abbraccia.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s time to forget about ignoring them when you\u2019re angry. There is no <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-modi-a-prova-di-bomba-per-affrontare-il-ghosting\/\">fantasma<\/a> e nessun trattamento silenzioso.<\/p>\n<p>Niente aggressivit\u00e0 passiva o giochi mentali simili. So che ognuna di queste cose sembra innocua all'inizio e purtroppo fanno parte di ogni relazione moderna.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, nel vostro caso, non essere onesti e non riuscire a comunicare in modo sano pu\u00f2 essere fatale per la vostra storia d'amore.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t wake up next to your partner the next morning after you ignored them last night.<\/p>\n<p>Se scegliete di non rispondere ai messaggi che vi mandano dopo una discussione, un giorno le cose possono rimanere cos\u00ec e potreste non riconciliarvi mai.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s crucial to be completely honest about your thoughts and emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that your partner doesn\u2019t have the possibility to conclude anything about your feelings besides what you openly tell them.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Il denaro pu\u00f2 diventare un problema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar.jpg\" alt=\"Vaso di denaro rovesciato\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/money-jar-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il denaro dovrebbe essere la cosa meno importante quando si parla di relazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Where love is real, you\u2019ll stay next to each other through the greatest wealth and the worst poverty.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, purtroppo, in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/true-love\/coupled-up\/relazione-a-distanza-ultimo-test-amore\/\">relazioni a distanza<\/a>, il denaro pu\u00f2 diventare un problema serio.<\/p>\n<p>Per essere precisi, la mancanza di denaro pu\u00f2 rappresentare un ostacolo apparentemente invalicabile per il futuro della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenere una relazione di coppia \u00e8 costoso. Oltre al tempo e all'energia, servono anche i soldi per vedere il partner che potrebbe vivere dall'altra parte del Paese o addirittura in un altro continente.<\/p>\n<p>Esistono infatti coppie che passano un anno intero a risparmiare i soldi per i biglietti aerei, in modo da poter visitare la persona amata durante l'estate.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; something like this requires a lot of sacrifice.<\/p>\n<p>There will be times when you\u2019ll probably question your decision.<\/p>\n<p>You might not see it now but there will come a moment when you\u2019ll ask yourself why you needed all of this when you could have led a much easier life.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, un altro problema che riguarda il denaro \u00e8 il vostro futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Se avete intenzione di andare a vivere insieme, \u00e8 necessario che entrambi abbiate una fonte di reddito stabile.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, se entrambi avete gi\u00e0 una vita definita nelle vostre attuali citt\u00e0, questo diventa un po' complicato.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, significa che uno dei due deve lasciare il proprio lavoro e trovarne uno nuovo da qualche altra parte.<\/p>\n<p>Per molte coppie tutto questo sembra troppo. Le persone non sono pronte ad affrontare l'ignoto e a dipendere emotivamente dal partner finch\u00e9 non si sono sistemate.<\/p>\n<p>That is perfectly okay. It means that you\u2019re mature enough to think about other things besides this enormous love that you two share.<\/p>\n<p>After all, no matter how romantic you are, you can\u2019t live out of love, right? Nevertheless, I want to give you hope.<\/p>\n<p>If what you two have is real and meant to be, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a way out of this problem as well.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Dovete darvi spazio l'un l'altro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"Donna felice che messaggia sul suo telefono con il bicchiere di vino nella mano opposta\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/happy-woman-texting-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, so when you read the title of this section, you\u2019ll think of it as the most unnecessary piece of advice you got here.<\/p>\n<p>Dopotutto, voi e il vostro partner vivete lontani, vi vedete a malapena di persona e la vostra relazione si basa principalmente su telefonate e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/messages\/texts\/100-messaggi-damore-adorabili-e-dolci-da-inviare-al-tuo-ragazzo\/\">messaggi di testo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Despite that, I\u2019m advising you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/brokenhearted\/perche-gli-uomini-hanno-bisogno-di-spazio-in-una-relazione-e-come-affrontarlo\/\">lasciarsi spazio l'un l'altro<\/a>. Sembra ridicolo, vero?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s actually not, if you look at things from a different point of view. What you need to give each other is some cyber space.<\/p>\n<p>So che vorreste passare tutto il vostro tempo libero a mandare messaggi alla persona amata, a guardare il suo volto attraverso una webcam o a sentire la sua voce al telefono.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, there is a chance of you two suffocating each other even without being physically present in one another\u2019s lives as well.<\/p>\n<p>For example, don\u2019t expect them to talk to you all the time when they\u2019re online. Don\u2019t push them to reduce their entire online activity to being in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be needy and clingy. Don\u2019t obsess over every single thing they post on social media, don\u2019t stalk their online status and don\u2019t create a drama when they leave you on read.<\/p>\n<p>Che vi piaccia o meno ammetterlo, questa persona ha una vita propria al di fuori della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Hanno una famiglia e degli amici e, cosa pi\u00f9 importante, dovrebbero avere un po' di tempo libero.<\/p>\n<p>So, please don\u2019t freak out if your partner is not in the mood to chat with you 24\/7.<\/p>\n<p>In that case, you\u2019ll only chase them away from you because nobody likes to feel like they\u2019re being too pressured to do anything.<\/p>\n<p>Accettate il fatto che in un determinato momento potrebbero preferire scorrere senza meta i social media o guardare Netflix e rilassarsi da soli.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you feel their lack of attention, it\u2019s something you should definitely point out.<\/p>\n<p>Just try finding a balance between ignoring each other and being at one another\u2019s throats all the time.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Dovete avere un piano per il futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68481 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"Donna sorridente in top arancione che messaggia al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/smiling-woman-texting-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing if your relationship is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-uomo-non-vi-prende-affatto-sul-serio\/\">non serio<\/a>. In that case, it is perfectly okay if you and your loved one don\u2019t have any plans for settling down in the future.<\/p>\n<p>In questo modo, potrete continuare a vedervi un paio di volte all'anno senza alcun impegno, finch\u00e9 uno o entrambi non si stuferanno o non troveranno qualcuno pi\u00f9 vicino a loro.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you really love each other and think that this is the real deal, I assume that you don\u2019t want to remain long distance partners for the rest of your lives.<\/p>\n<p>Questo vale soprattutto se avete intenzione di sposarvi e avere figli.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, esistono coppie sposate che vivono in luoghi diversi del mondo, ma crescere i figli in questo modo \u00e8 quasi impossibile.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, questo tipo di sistemazione \u00e8 incredibilmente costosa, difficile da mantenere e solitamente riservata alle celebrit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, se siete una coppia a distanza di tipo medio, presumo che voi e il vostro partner abbiate la speranza di andare a vivere insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, cose del genere richiedono una pianificazione dettagliata e non sono cos\u00ec facili da realizzare.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, nessuno vi dice che dovreste iniziare a parlare di questi argomenti fin dal primo giorno della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you still don\u2019t know where things are headed and how long you two will stick together.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, quando vedete che la vostra storia d'amore sta diventando seria, questi sono sicuramente gli argomenti di cui dovete iniziare a parlare il prima possibile.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you both have some vision of arranging your relationship in the future and now is the time to reach a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>Affinch\u00e9 questi sogni non rimangano solo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/basta-con-le-parole-dolci-e-le-promesse-vuote-voglio-onesta-e-impegno\/\">parole vuote<\/a>, it\u2019s important to plan them in detail.<\/p>\n<p>Dove vivrete? Uno di voi due lascer\u00e0 il suo attuale luogo di residenza o troverete una terza citt\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>Quando pensate che tutto questo possa accadere? Qual \u00e8 la data finale entro la quale il vostro amore a distanza dovrebbe avere la sua risoluzione definitiva?<\/p>\n<p>Set a goal and work toward it with joint efforts if you\u2019re really serious about this relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Il contatto fisico \u00e8 limitato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68482 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo e donna seduti schiena contro schiena vicino a una grande finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-and-woman-sitting-back-to-back-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei primi problemi che molte coppie a distanza devono affrontare dopo un paio di mesi di storia d'amore \u00e8 la mancanza di contatto fisico.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this might not seem so important when love is real, it actually can represent a big deal if you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re getting yourself into.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about sleeping next to each other here. I\u2019m talking about a lack of closeness and physical presence as well.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re starting a long distance relationship, be aware that you won\u2019t have your boyfriend or girlfriend to kiss you whenever you feel like it.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be able to find comfort in their soothing arms when you\u2019re feeling low and you won\u2019t have the pleasure of waking up to seeing their sleepy face every morning.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have many possibilities other couples think as normal and usually take for granted. There is no walking with each other, holding hands.<\/p>\n<p>Niente abbracci e niente profumo dei loro capelli. In effetti, nelle relazioni a distanza, ognuna di queste cose diventa un lusso.<\/p>\n<p>Diventa qualcosa che si sogna per settimane o addirittura mesi.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, il fatto che il contatto fisico sia limitato a volte allontana le persone.<\/p>\n<p>In fin dei conti, tutti noi abbiamo istinti primordiali, tra cui quello di essere fisicamente vicini ai nostri cari e di poterli toccare.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you; this is a test for all long distance couples. Some people simply can\u2019t stand it and the part in which they miss their partner so much to the point where they decide to call it quits.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re both strong enough, you\u2019ll see all of this as nothing but another stepstone toward your final destination.<\/p>\n<p>La lontananza fisica vi far\u00e0 crescere spiritualmente e la mancanza dell'altro vi far\u00e0 apprezzare ancora di pi\u00f9 i momenti passati insieme.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Dovreste condividere interessi comuni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68483 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message.jpg\" alt=\"Anche se siamo lontani sar\u00f2 sempre con te messaggio scritto sulla lavagna nera\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/even-if-we-are-apart-message-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Being in this type of relationship will be even harder if you two don\u2019t share common interests.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m not saying that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/motivi-per-uscire-con-il-vostro-opposto-polare\/\"> opposti<\/a> can\u2019t attract and last together, not being similar to your partner will give you more hard times when you\u2019re not together.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have little physical contact. You have no or only a few mutual friends, you don\u2019t go together to events and you don\u2019t share your daily routines.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, cosa resta da dire? Ho una soluzione anche per questo.<\/p>\n<p>For starters, engage in each other\u2019s interests. If your partner is a football fan, watch a game they\u2019re watching so you can comment on it later.<\/p>\n<p>Leggete un libro insieme e parlatene. Iniziate a imparare insieme una nuova lingua o praticate insieme uno sport (ognuno dalla propria parte del mondo).<\/p>\n<p>Hit the gym and become each other\u2019s motivation to get fit. Even if you two have different tastes in music, books, movies or art, try finding common ground.<\/p>\n<p>You see where I\u2019m going with this, right? Basically, even if you\u2019re not into the same things your partner is, show interest in them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should lie about your preferences to have a topic to talk about with them.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, per amore del vostro amore e per il bene della vostra relazione, impegnatevi in alcune cose che li rendono felici e aspettatevi lo stesso trattamento in cambio.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Bisogna essere creativi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68494 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"Donna tatuata con capelli blu e maglietta nera vicino a un muro di mattoni\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/tattooed-woman-with-blue-hair-in-black-t-shirt-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Among the other skills you\u2019ll have to adopt to make your long distance relationship work, creativity is also one of them.<\/p>\n<p>When you have a \u2018regular\u2019 relationship, after a while, you forget about imagination.<\/p>\n<p>Smettete di pianificare tutti i vostri appuntamenti in anticipo e la maggior parte di essi si trasforma in una tazza di caff\u00e8 al vostro bar preferito o in una serata Netflix and chill.<\/p>\n<p>However, when it comes to an LDR, this is no longer an option. That\u2019s why you\u2019ll both have to become extra creative about your dates.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re at the beginning of your romance, it\u2019s more than enough to talk on the phone with your loved one, to text them all the time and to see them over Skype video chat.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, che lo si voglia ammettere o meno, dopo un paio di mesi pu\u00f2 diventare noioso.<\/p>\n<p>Allo stesso modo in cui altre coppie cadono in una routine, questi messaggi di testo e queste telefonate diventeranno anche la vostra routine.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need some innovative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/20-idee-sorprendenti-e-carine-per-un-appuntamento-a-tarda-notte\/\">idee per l'appuntamento<\/a> per rendere pi\u00f9 interessante la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Ad esempio, potete andare a cena fuori (ognuno nella propria citt\u00e0). Prendete i vostri telefoni e metteteli sul tavolo di fronte a voi.<\/p>\n<p>Pretend that you\u2019re together and that this is a fancy dinner date. Dress up like you\u2019re really going out for a romantic get-together with your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>This can become a regular thing when it comes to concerts, clubbing or sports events. Don\u2019t worry about people looking at you strangely.<\/p>\n<p>Fidatevi di me: la maggior parte di loro lo trover\u00e0 incredibilmente carino. Inoltre, la vostra felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 la vostra priorit\u00e0 numero uno. Quindi, chi se ne frega di qualche sguardo strano?<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, ricordate quei libri che dovreste leggere insieme? Beh, potete organizzare un club del libro tutto vostro.<\/p>\n<p>Set one night in the month where you\u2019ll discuss what you\u2019ve read. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that this is an awesome date idea for long distance couples.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you don\u2019t have to feel like you\u2019re an outcast at all the events you go to without your plus-one. Take your partner with you by phone and send them a piece of atmosphere over the camera.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for physical touch. You can\u2019t sleep or cuddle together but you can put your phone next to your pillow and listen to each other\u2019s peaceful breathing.<\/p>\n<h2>11. \u00c8 necessario discutere di persona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68497 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che litiga seduta su un divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-fighting-while-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014all couples fight, without exception.<\/p>\n<p>Those who tell you otherwise are either lying in an attempt to present their relationship as perfect as it can be or they don\u2019t care for each other to the point where they don\u2019t even put any extra effort into resolving their issues.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, senza dubbio, anche voi e il vostro partner a distanza litigherete.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, l'importante \u00e8 fare un ulteriore sforzo per lasciare questi litigi per quando vi vedrete di persona.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should sweep things under the carpet just to maintain your relationship long distance.<\/p>\n<p>Lavorate invece sui vostri problemi, ma quando si tratta di argomenti seri, essenziali per il futuro della vostra relazione, risolveteli guardandosi in faccia.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, dovreste stabilire delle regole di base anche per quanto riguarda i combattimenti.<\/p>\n<p>Non si riaggancia il telefono finch\u00e9 non si \u00e8 discusso di tutto ci\u00f2 che c'\u00e8 da discutere.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, non ci sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/testi-di-rottura\/\">rotture tramite messaggi di testo<\/a>, e-mail o telefonate.<\/p>\n<p>If one of you wants to get out of the relationship, you\u2019ll have to be brave enough to tell the other person that straightforwardly. After all, this is fair.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s quite different talking in person.<\/p>\n<p>You sense the person\u2019s vibe, you see their nonverbal gestures and body language signs, hear the tone of their voice and you can touch them and feel whatever their feeling with more ease.<\/p>\n<h2>12. Jealousy can be a problem\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68499 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Bella ragazza seduta sulla finestra che dipinge con il dito un cuore sul vetro\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/beautiful-girl-sitting-on-the-window-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una certa dose di carineria <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-modi-in-cui-la-gelosia-distrugge-le-relazioni\/\">gelosia<\/a> \u00e8 perfettamente naturale in ogni relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p>When you love another person, it is normal that you can\u2019t remain indifferent to the possibility of them being with someone else. It is reasonable that you\u2019re scared of losing them.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, questa paura si intensifica ancora di pi\u00f9 quando si trascorre la maggior parte del tempo lontani l'uno dall'altro.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che le persone tendono a essere pi\u00f9 infedeli nelle relazioni a distanza.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, crescono spiritualmente a prescindere dalla persona che \u00e8 fisicamente lontana da loro.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, in these circumstances, it\u2019s much easier to fall in love with someone new.<\/p>\n<p>You miss your significant other, you miss them being gentle with you and you miss their kisses, so you run into a third person\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m not trying to justify affairs here.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi accorgete di esservi disinnamorati del vostro partner o se iniziate ad apprezzare qualcun altro, dovete dirglielo chiaramente prima di iniziare una nuova relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that, knowing all of this, jealousy is a common issue between long distance couples.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you have no control over your boyfriend or girlfriend\u2019s actions or behavior.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know if they are flirting with someone else or if they even have another secret relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>13. \u2026 but trust is essential<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68500 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface.jpg\" alt=\"Testo fiduciario scritto su superficie marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/trust-text-on-brown-surface-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In fact, the only thing you do have is their word. You can\u2019t check up on them when you suspect something and you don\u2019t get to spend most of your partner\u2019s free time with them.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, \u00e8 sufficiente affidarsi a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-cose-che-dimostra-che-ci-si-puo-fidare-completamente-di-lui\/\">fidarsi di loro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you like to admit it or not, believing in your significant other\u2019s words will have to do it and it will have to be enough. Otherwise, you\u2019ll make your relationship a living nightmare for both of you.<\/p>\n<p>Dopotutto, l'ultima cosa che volete fare \u00e8 passare le giornate facendo del vostro meglio per stalkerare il vostro ragazzo o la vostra ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to make a bunch of fake Facebook or Instagram profiles where you\u2019ll add all of his friends and check their tags, likes and photos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to install <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/domande-di-tinder-da-porre-al-proprio-match-di-tinder\/\">Tinder<\/a> o altre app di incontri online per verificare se \u00e8 fedele.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at things like this, there is certainly a way to control your partner\u2019s movement.<\/p>\n<p>However, living like this won\u2019t get you anywhere and it will only bring trouble to the both of you. Instead, the best thing to do is to relax.<\/p>\n<p>Non ha senso ossessionarsi per alcune cose che potrebbero accadere.<\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 destinato a essere sar\u00e0. L'unica scelta che avete \u00e8 quella di fidarvi di chi avete scelto come persona per sempre.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you can\u2019t seem to trust them, maybe it\u2019s time to ask yourself whether you two have a future together in the first place and if starting a long distance relationship was the right choice.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68505 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"13 cose da sapere prima di iniziare una relazione a distanza pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know how they say out of sight, out of mind? Even though many people believe this saying, one of the most famous starting a long distance relationship quotes teaches us something completely different. It says: \u2018True love doesn\u2019t mean being inseparable. It means being separated and nothing changes\u2019. Well, this is exactly what you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":68466,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/13-things-to-know-before-starting-a-long-distance-relationship.jpg",800,503,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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