{"id":68853,"date":"2020-05-13T15:44:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:44:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68853"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:46:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:46:23","slug":"mia-moglie-mi-odia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mia-moglie-mi-odia\/","title":{"rendered":"Mia moglie mi odia: 10 motivi per cui e come ribaltare la situazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problemi di matrimonio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are one thing but thinking to yourself: \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My wife hates me,\u2019<\/span><\/i> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e8 di un altro livello. Vi siete mai fermati a pensare a cosa vi ha portato qui?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Dopo tanti <\/b><b>anni di matrimonio<\/b><b>, things don&#8217;t just fall apart on their own. <\/b><b>Matrimoni felici<\/b><b> turn sour for a multitude of reasons and I&#8217;m about to break it down for you step by step.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il tuo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moglie vuole<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a man who&#8217;ll stick by her side no matter what. She wants a man who won&#8217;t mess with her <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e continuare a chiamarla <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fratello<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s a certain line you just don&#8217;t cross.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m going to assume that you haven&#8217;t tried <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consulenza matrimoniale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yet? If that&#8217;s the case, you need to hear this even more than you think.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho vissuto la mia stessa situazione con il mio <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex marito<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Per questo motivo posso spiegarvelo per esperienza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se volete rendere il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moglie si sente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> amato di nuovo e tornare ad essere uno di quelli beatamente felici <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">coppie sposate<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, stick around. You&#8217;re gonna wanna hear this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-differenza-tra-cotta-e-amore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> La differenza tra cotta e amore: 22 distinzioni chiave<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>10 Ways You Lost Your Wife&#8217;s Love<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. You don&#8217;t spend enough time with her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71443 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con joystick seduto vicino a donna annoiata su divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E no, oziare nella stessa stanza mentre ognuno di voi scorre le pagine di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e ascolta <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">podcast<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t count.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m talking about quality time together. I&#8217;m talking about taking her out dancing until the early hours of the morning.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che vi siete presi il tempo di farla sentire speciale? Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che avete iniziato un'attivit\u00e0 comune? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Problemi di relazione<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> derivano dal fatto che uno o entrambi i partner non si impegnano.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sapete che si dice sempre che il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">piccole cose<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> mean the most? Well, they ain&#8217;t lying! It takes so little to make her happy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando smettete di provarci, lei inizia a risentirsi e a sentirsi frustrata. E se vi rifiutate di andare a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">terapia di coppia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> quando lo propone, cosa dovrebbe pensare?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In her mind, you just don&#8217;t care anymore. And bit by bit, she grows weary of that\u2014hence the newfound budding hatred.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Lasciate a lei tutte le decisioni da prendere<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69040 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"uomo seduto sul molo vicino al faro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E sai come la fa sentire questo? Come se dovesse portare i pantaloni nella relazione. E lasciate che ve lo dica, questo pu\u00f2 diventare stancante.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ha sposato un uomo adulto, non un ragazzo immaturo, giusto?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quindi, quando vi rifiutate di partecipare a qualsiasi decisione importante, lei si sente come se dovesse portare tutto il peso da sola. Deve sempre essere lei a comandare, il che lascia poco spazio alla spontaneit\u00e0 e al divertimento.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So che potreste pensare a voi stessi: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La amo<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, that&#8217;s why I leave all the decisions up to her. I know she&#8217;ll make the right call.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that&#8217;s just an excuse that lets you off the hook and burdens her more than she deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife is a woman first and foremost. She&#8217;s not your mother and it&#8217;s not her job to take care of you. Start acting like a man or your marriage will go down the drain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A un certo punto, le persone si stancano troppo di dover essere sempre al massimo. Sua moglie merita di lasciarsi andare e che lei si occupi di tutto per una volta.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. You don&#8217;t stay true to your word<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69041 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in camicia blu che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo un po' di tempo, vi siete talmente abituati all'idea di averla accanto nella buona e nella cattiva sorte, che avete iniziato a darlo per scontato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what if you don&#8217;t keep your promises every now and again? So what if you disappoint her from time to time. She&#8217;s supposed to be okay with it because it&#8217;s her job, right?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t think so! The moment you start thinking like that is the moment it all starts going to hell.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dovete trattarla come avete fatto con gli altri. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prima volta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you met her. You have to put in the effort to stay true to your word, even when you don&#8217;t feel like it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unless you do, you&#8217;re going to make her feel like she&#8217;s just not worthy of your time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I know that&#8217;s not what you want! If you promise to take her out, then do it. If you promise to pick her up on the rainiest of days, get off your behind and do it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ha bisogno di sapere che pu\u00f2 contare su di voi <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sempre<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! If she can&#8217;t, how do you expect her to stay?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/citazioni-di-vendetta-da-leggere-assolutamente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Citazioni sulla vendetta: 140+ citazioni sulla vendetta da leggere assolutamente<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>4. Manca la direzione nella vita<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69071 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con berretto appoggiato al muro di mattoni\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-leaning-on-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You used to be full of hopes and dreams. There were so many boxes you couldn&#8217;t wait to check but somehow, none of it ended up happening.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi siete sposati, vi siete sistemati e, giorno dopo giorno, avete smesso di seguire i vostri sogni. Non avete pi\u00f9 una direzione nella vita, e questo fa s\u00ec che la vostra <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moglie si sente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> come se dovesse portarti in braccio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clearly, this isn&#8217;t a pleasant feeling for either of you but making your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moglie si sente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> like it&#8217;s her job to fulfill you isn&#8217;t fair.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start taking charge of your life. Start doing something other than complaining and lounging around. You&#8217;re never going to reach your goals just sitting on your behind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your lack of passion makes your wife resent you more and more each day. She can&#8217;t be the only one taking care of your little family. Chip in and start doing your part.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find your calling and start being proactive. Your wife needs to know that you can be a good role model for your kids one day. And now, it doesn&#8217;t seem like that&#8217;s the case at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Hai smesso di cercare di conquistarla<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69077 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia in scala di grigi di un uomo seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ogni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">essere umano<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> desidera sentirsi amata e seguita. A prescindere da ci\u00f2 che vi dir\u00e0, fidatevi, vuole che le dimostriate che ci tenete.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vuole sentire queste tre parole il pi\u00f9 spesso possibile e ha bisogno di essere corteggiata di tanto in tanto.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t forget that marriage takes work every day of the week. You can&#8217;t just stop trying the moment you say, &#8221;I do.&#8221; That&#8217;s when your journey starts and you should never take your foot off the pedal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Portatela ad un appuntamento romantico! Comprarle dei fiori senza alcun motivo. Lasciarle un bigliettino d'amore nella giacca. Fatela sentire speciale.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basta cos\u00ec poco per strapparle un sorriso sincero. La tua mancanza di tentativi sta cominciando a influenzarla negativamente, ed \u00e8 per questo che hai iniziato a sentirti come se il tuo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la moglie odia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> voi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se volete <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consigli sulle relazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco qui: Amate vostra moglie come l'avete amata nella fase della luna di miele e non smettete mai di dimostrarle che ci tenete.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Si chiede molto e si d\u00e0 poco in cambio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69081 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-cliff.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in camicia grigia seduto su una scogliera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-cliff.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-cliff-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-on-cliff-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il matrimonio \u00e8 una questione di reciprocit\u00e0, basta chiedere <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consulenti matrimoniali<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Se vi aspettate qualcosa da vostra moglie, dovete essere in grado di fornire lo stesso a lei e viceversa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s about giving and taking but never one more than the other.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you understand what I mean? My gut tells me that you&#8217;ve been taking a lot more than you&#8217;re ready to give. Does that sound familiar? Have you been taking advantage of your wife&#8217;s kindness lately?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you been expecting her to move mountains for you but when she asks you to do the dishes, you can&#8217;t be bothered? I&#8217;m sure I don&#8217;t have to keep going. You get the gist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you&#8217;re wondering why she started hating you, this may have been one of the reasons. You don&#8217;t give as much as you&#8217;re ready to take.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife deserves all the care, attention and time she gives you. Don&#8217;t ever think otherwise. Do nice things without expecting anything in return. Give her 80% when she can&#8217;t give more than 20%.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s what marriage is. Balancing each other out without ever expecting to get something back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/citazioni-sullessere-feriti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Citazioni su come essere feriti: oltre 100 citazioni per aiutarvi ad affrontare il dolore<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. You&#8217;re too flirtatious with other women<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71444 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna con cappello in piedi all&#039;aperto e sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-standing-outdoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A woman needs her man to have eyes for her and only her. No, you can&#8217;t be all over other girls&#8217; behinds and expect to get away with it. Why? Because it&#8217;s disrespectful to the woman you married.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensateci in questo modo. Come vi sentireste se vostra moglie continuasse a buttarsi su quel barista sexy? Come vi sentireste se la vedeste guardare lussuriosamente un estraneo a caso?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not too good, right? Well, that&#8217;s exactly how she feels when you stare at every hot girl when you&#8217;re out for coffee.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To you, it might be just innocent staring. But to her, it&#8217;s a sign that she&#8217;s not worthy of your attention.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come puoi aspettarti che le vada bene? Come puoi aspettarti di mancarle di rispetto in pubblico in questo modo e non farla sentire uno schifo?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus your attention on your wife and stop making her feel invisible. Otherwise, she&#8217;s going to make herself scarce!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. Vi aspettate che sia una moglie casalinga<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71445 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-rolling-dough.jpg\" alt=\"donna che stende la pasta per il forno in cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-rolling-dough.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-rolling-dough-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-rolling-dough-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questa potrebbe essere una delle cose peggiori che un uomo possa aspettarsi da una donna. Lasciate che vi istruisca rapidamente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First, she&#8217;s a woman with needs, interests and hobbies. Her sole purpose on this earth isn&#8217;t to provide you with love, food and care. She&#8217;s going to be a good wife but she&#8217;s also going to do things that make <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lei <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">felice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She&#8217;s going to go out with her best friends and have a wild night on the town. She&#8217;s going to take up a hobby she loves and dedicate a chunk of time to maintaining her <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">salute mentale<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She&#8217;s going to do whatever the hell she wants, without letting anyone tell her she can&#8217;t. That includes you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So think really hard about the way you treat her. Do you let her have her freedom or do you think we&#8217;re still in the discriminatory 1950s?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. You don&#8217;t treat her family with respect<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71452 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che litigano seduti sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-arguing-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife&#8217;s family (her mom, dad, siblings, etc.) is sacred. They are her rock and you should always keep that in mind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I understand that in-laws can be tricky but that shouldn&#8217;t mean you stop trying. If you love your wife, you should make sure to extend that love to her family and closest friends too.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siate pi\u00f9 grandi e chiamateli per primi. Invitateli a pranzo e sforzatevi di creare un rapporto pi\u00f9 profondo con loro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t have to see them every single day but making an effort every now and again shouldn&#8217;t be too hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to show her you love her is by ensuring a loving relationship with her loved ones. You don&#8217;t have to be as thick as thieves; just close enough so that you can sit down for a meal and have a pleasant time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can tell you from experience that having your spouse and your family on the outs is extremely difficult so if there&#8217;s a possibility of a better relationship with them, seize it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. Dai la priorit\u00e0 ai tuoi amici rispetto a lei<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71446 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/men-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"cinque uomini seduti sul divano al chiuso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/men-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/men-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/men-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t get me wrong; maintaining a close relationship with your friends is an admirable thing! Especially as you get older. It becomes so difficult to remain close to the people you cherish.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, while it&#8217;s nice that you still put your friends first after all this time, don&#8217;t you think your wife deserves the same?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She&#8217;s your partner through life. She&#8217;s the one who listens to your worries and problems. She&#8217;s the one holding your hand as you&#8217;re struggling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She&#8217;s the one waking up next to you each morning. So it should go without saying that she deserves to be at the very top of your list.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you should stop caring about your friends in no way, shape or form. All I&#8217;m trying to say is to make some room for your wife! She deserves your time more than anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, you&#8217;re a grown-up. You should be able to have your priorities straight. She deserves <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">che <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">molto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/tutto-accade-per-una-ragione-citazioni\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tutto accade per una ragione: 58 parole di saggezza che ispirano<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">10 passi per riconquistare il suo amore<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t worry, there\u2019s hope for you yet. Being here means that you\u2019re ready to put in the effort and show your wife there\u2019s a reason she chose you. So here\u2019s how you\u2019ll do it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Smettere di buttarla gi\u00f9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69274 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-on-hill.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in piedi su una collina vicino all&#039;acqua durante il giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-on-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-on-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-standing-on-hill-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is full of roadblocks and inconveniences. No matter how well it\u2019s going for you, there will always be something to complain about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This includes both life in general and married life. One day, you\u2019ll be having a bad day and you\u2019ll let your stress and anxiety get the better of you and react really poorly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ma il fatto \u00e8 che si pu\u00f2 sempre scegliere come farsi condizionare dalle cose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si pu\u00f2 fare un respiro profondo, rendersi conto di quanto sia insignificante questo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">piccola cosa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is in the great scheme of things and just shrug it off. Or you can choose to react the way your instincts dictate and affect your wife\u2019s mood as well.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nothing can be perfect all the time. Things won&#8217;t always be exactly the way you want them to be every single day of the week.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But life is about finding ways to see a glimmer of hope in a negative situation. It&#8217;s about finding little joys amidst a turbulent situation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife deserves a man who won&#8217;t constantly bring her down. She needs a man who will lift her spirits and show her there&#8217;s always something to look forward to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A man who won&#8217;t knock her down if things don&#8217;t always go to plan.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Puoi essere tu quell'uomo?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Essere presenti per raccoglierla quando cade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69277 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti su una panchina e abbracciati\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A modern woman is all about self-confidence and power. She knows how to get what she wants and she doesn&#8217;t need a man to help her get there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the thing is, just because she doesn&#8217;t <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">necessit\u00e0 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a man, doesn&#8217;t mean she doesn&#8217;t <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desiderare<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> uno! Vedete la differenza?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The key is to show her how proud you are of her perseverance and ability to make things happen for herself. But at the same time, you need to let her know that it&#8217;s okay to lean on you as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you think she can&#8217;t do it. This simply provides her with a safety blanket for when things become too challenging.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be the wind beneath her wings and push her forward when she wants to give up. Give her a word of encouragement when she&#8217;s at the end of her strength.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because she&#8217;s a badass boss does not mean she doesn&#8217;t want a man by her side. Let her know you&#8217;ve got her back through good days and bad but don&#8217;t <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mai<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> di perseguire i suoi sogni.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Lavorare sulle cattive abitudini che la infastidiscono<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69283 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia in scala di grigi di un uomo che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-looking-through-window-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all have bad habits and it&#8217;s impossible to expect anyone to just snap out of it and change for another person. But what you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pu\u00f2 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e8 provare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there are currently a few things your wife resents, try to change them if they&#8217;re affecting your marriage so deeply.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo potrebbe riferirsi alla vostra pigrizia, alla vostra mancanza di considerazione o al fatto che la date per scontata. Scegliete voi e lavorate attivamente per migliorare i vostri modi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s not that difficult to be the kind of man your wife believed she was marrying. Simply be the guy she fell in love with all those years ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You cannot keep doing (or not doing) things that you know aren&#8217;t right and wonder why your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la moglie odia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> voi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She hates you because of your lack of will to be better. She hates you because you can&#8217;t be bothered to take out the trash while she has a million things on her plate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Smetti di lamentarti e di trovare scuse per essere un cattivo marito. Il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moglie vuole<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> an equal partner who won&#8217;t make her life more challenging than it already is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t think she&#8217;s asking for much, do you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-dimenticare-qualcuno\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come dimenticare qualcuno? 26 modi per velocizzare il processo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>4. Be a masculine man (but don&#8217;t reduce her role in the process)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69287 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-kneeling-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna inginocchiati nel letto accanto alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-kneeling-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-kneeling-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-kneeling-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s been a lot of talk about female empowerment, equality and independence in the last few years. And rightfully so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Per tanto tempo, le donne sono state ridotte a una posizione inferiore rispetto agli uomini e hanno affrontato silenziosamente molte avversit\u00e0 e molte ingiustizie a causa del loro genere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s about time we took matters into our own hands and did something about it. There&#8217;s a long way to go but things are finally starting to look up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Detto questo, spero che capiate che non vi sto assolutamente incoraggiando a comportarvi come l'uomo sempre capace che ha solo bisogno di una donna che si occupi di lui e della casa.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What I&#8217;m referring to is bringing out that masculine energy that makes her feel like a desirable woman. Be a man in a way where you show her how incredibly lucky you feel to be with her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Portate le cose in camera da letto e mostratele tutto quello che volete farle. Per una volta, lasciatele perdere il controllo e soddisfatela come merita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A woman needs to feel sexy and wanted. Just don&#8217;t cross a line in the process and you&#8217;re good to go.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Trovare modi unici per sorprenderla<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69289 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con fiori in mano davanti a una donna in piedi vicino al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-flowers.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&#8217;s a better way to show her you&#8217;re still the man she fell for than surprising her with the things she loves most?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show her you know her better than she thinks and try to read her mind. No, I don&#8217;t mean actually read it, just try to think of something that&#8217;ll instantly put a smile on her face. Especially on a bad day!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pu\u00f2 essere semplice come regalarle una scatola di cioccolatini che adora, comprarle il pi\u00f9 bel bouquet delle sue rose rosse preferite o organizzare un weekend fuori porta nel suo resort preferito!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is the way to a woman&#8217;s heart. Little surprises mean so much! Allow her to see that there&#8217;s still hope for your marriage\u2014and then some.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ha solo bisogno di passare del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con voi per far tornare la scintilla che avete perso lungo la strada. Prendete l'iniziativa e siate quell'uomo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t give up on her. Chase her, pursue her and love her every single day of the week. Be relentless and I promise you she&#8217;ll ease up on you in no time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Andate in terapia matrimoniale se vostra moglie vi chiede di farlo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69300 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-with-therapist.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano con il terapeuta seduti sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-with-therapist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-with-therapist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-talking-with-therapist-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se vostra moglie \u00e8 irremovibile nel volere che andiate a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">terapia di coppia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, that means that she still wants to fight for you; don&#8217;t you see that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 chiaro che lei vuole lavorare sui vostri problemi e fare gli aggiustamenti necessari per salvare il vostro matrimonio. Tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 incontrarla a met\u00e0 strada.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tenetele la mano quando entrate in quell'ufficio e ascoltate davvero quello che il vostro terapeuta ha da dirvi. Ascoltate, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">matrimoni felici<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> don&#8217;t just happen and stay that way without effort on both parts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 necessario innaffiare quotidianamente la relazione per farla prosperare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thinking: \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mia moglie mi odia<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u2019 then just shrugging it off isn&#8217;t going to help anyone. But do you know what will? Effort, commitment and persistence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you&#8217;ve hit a bump in the road but you can overcome it. Simply open your mind enough to see how easy it can be to make a positive change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/citazioni-sugli-amanti-segreti-frasi-sulla-vita-amorosa-segreta\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Citazioni sugli amanti segreti: 75+ frasi emotive su una vita amorosa segreta<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. Mostrare un'abbondante forza emotiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71449 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-hugging-woman-2.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con la barba che abbraccia una donna vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-hugging-woman-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-hugging-woman-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-hugging-woman-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand that your wife doesn&#8217;t have to stay with you if she&#8217;s not happy. We&#8217;re no longer living in times where getting a divorce is shameful. It&#8217;s no longer a taboo to move on from a marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, a woman will do whatever she pleases without conforming to anyone&#8217;s needs so be mindful of that as you go on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le donne sono profondamente attratte dagli uomini con <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un senso di determinazione profondamente radicato e la volont\u00e0 di riuscire, che rientrano tutti nella forza emotiva.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being able to differentiate between things that deserve your attention and those that don&#8217;t is hot. Being self-confident but never too cocky is extremely desirable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dimostrare ambizione e perseguire i propri sogni a prescindere dagli ostacoli che si incontrano \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che ammirevole.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife needs a man who can check these boxes. A man who doesn&#8217;t get discouraged at the first sight of trouble.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t explode with anger and insecurities when things don&#8217;t go your way. Be an emotionally strong man she can always depend on.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. Suggerite degli hobby da praticare in coppia.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69313 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-riding-boat.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna in barca vicino alla montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-riding-boat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-riding-boat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-riding-boat-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensate che il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la moglie odia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> voi, vero? Sapete qual \u00e8 il modo pi\u00f9 semplice per far s\u00ec che lei vi ami di nuovo? Fare cose insieme! Ma non cose che <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">voi <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ma piuttosto qualcosa di cui potete godere come coppia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about your wife&#8217;s preferences. What does she enjoy most? When you get to the bottom of that, let it inspire you to develop new, mutual goals!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If life&#8217;s circumstances have affected you in a way that means you have grown apart over time, this could be your way to reconnect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find new things you want to achieve together and make sure it&#8217;s something that will result in both of you feeling happy, excited and positive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will allow you to gain more insight into your wife&#8217;s psyche and see what it is that truly makes her heart beat.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you genuinely care enough to salvage your marriage, you won&#8217;t take this lightly. This could be the turning point for your marriage. All you need to do is show her that you&#8217;re committed to being the man she fell for.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Fate quello che vi chiede senza lamentarvi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69331 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-cleaning-plate.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che pulisce un piatto bianco in cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-cleaning-plate.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-cleaning-plate-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-cleaning-plate-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m going to take a wild guess here and assume that your wife takes care of most of the household chores. Am I right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ti \u00e8 mai venuto in mente che presentarti per lei (senza che lei ti debba pregare) ti fa guadagnare punti matrimonio? (Scioccante, lo so.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clear the table after you&#8217;re done with your meal. Wash the dishes before she gets to tell you to do it. Take out the trash. Pick up your clothes from the dry cleaner&#8217;s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All of these things make her life substantially easier and you literally don&#8217;t have to do anything but just lend her a hand. Don&#8217;t complain when she asks you to do any of these things. Better yet\u2014beat her to it!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non riesco a spiegare quanto significhi quando un uomo fa queste cose. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">piccole cose<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Significa molto per il vostro matrimonio.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you know, a marital union doesn&#8217;t end just like that. It takes a while for things to fall apart and your inability to see this in time could result in divorce.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t let it get this far and take care of your wife and your marriage and be an equal partner to her.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10. Mostrarle amore sia nei giorni buoni che in quelli cattivi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69336 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-hugging-near-tree-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia e bacia la donna sulla fronte vicino alle foglie di un albero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-hugging-near-tree-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-hugging-near-tree-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/couple-hugging-near-tree-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She won&#8217;t always be so easy to love. There will be days when all she&#8217;ll want to do is curl up in bed and be by herself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t let her feel alone during her times of need. Recognize when she&#8217;s not feeling like herself and be there for her. Tell her what she needs to hear, offer to do her chores or make her a hot meal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be the good husband she needs you to be. Tell her that you love her when she&#8217;s being difficult to love. Be kind to her when she&#8217;s being unkind to herself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Realize that when she&#8217;s lashing out at you, it could be a reflection of her own issues that she&#8217;s not sharing. And tell her it&#8217;s okay. We all struggle but we all deserve to be loved regardless!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The secret to a good marriage is being there for your partner even when they&#8217;re pushing you away. Loving them even when they don&#8217;t love themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A marriage is about balancing each other out and being there just like you promised the day you said, &#8221;I do.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Put an end to thoughts like: \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My wife hates me,\u2019<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and start acting in a way that will allow her to see you&#8217;re still the man of her dreams.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you really care as much as you think you do, you won&#8217;t take this lightly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Perseguitatela, amatela e guardate solo a lei. In fin dei conti, tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole \u00e8 sapere che vi interessa ancora.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSo it\u2019s not gonna be easy. It\u2019s going to be really hard; we\u2019re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. You and me\u2026 every day.\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 Nicholas Sparks&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/imparare-ad-amare-di-nuovo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imparare ad amare di nuovo: 12 modi collaudati per riaprire il cuore<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69342 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mia moglie mi odia 10 motivi per cui e come ribaltare la situazione\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage problems are one thing but thinking to yourself: \u2018My wife hates me,\u2019 is on a whole other level. Have you ever stopped to think about what led you here? After so many years of marriage, things don&#8217;t just fall apart on their own. Happy marriages turn sour for a multitude of reasons and I&#8217;m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":71397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/My-Wife-Hates-Me-10-Reasons-Why-And-How-To-Turn-Things-Around.png",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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