{"id":6907,"date":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T13:24:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6907"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:54:00","slug":"perso-non-scelto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perso-non-scelto\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi hai perso quando non mi hai scelto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ecco, hai ottenuto quello che volevi e mi hai perso per sempre. Ricordo ancora quel giorno in cui stavi lottando per scegliere tra me e lei.<\/p>\n<p>E ti ricordi cosa ti ho detto?<\/p>\n<p><strong>That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quindi smettila di far finta che ti importi di me, adesso. La tua indecisione \u00e8 una decisione. E io ho deciso. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/shannon-colleary\/post_9797_b_7813314.html\" rel=\"noopener\">I don\u2019t want a toxic man next to me.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want a guy who can\u2019t decide what he wants in life. I want someone who is down to earth, the one who has eyes for me only and the one who will be my support.<\/p>\n<p>E tutto questo lo cercavo in te, ma non sei mai riuscito a darmelo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ero la ragazza di cui avevi sempre bisogno, ma allo stesso tempo ero quella che continuavi a ferire in continuazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you had loved me once so you kept pushing me from you. In those days when you kept coming back to me, you were actually running away from me, but at that time you couldn\u2019t realize that.<\/p>\n<p>In un momento mi mostravi tutto il tuo amore e in quello successivo mostravi il tuo vero volto. Eri uno stronzo sotto mentite spoglie e io ero cos\u00ec ubriaca d'amore da comprare tutte le tue stronzate.<\/p>\n<p>E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/the-mission\/40-things-about-life-i-wish-i-could-travel-back-in-time-and-tell-myself-e52f2effa3ab\" rel=\"noopener\">Ero l\u00ec ogni volta che tornavi.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Forse sei un uomo buono, ma per me sei stato un uomo cattivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am just mad at myself for staying with you all this time. I couldn\u2019t believe that you were breaking my heart piece by piece, every single day.<\/p>\n<p>E te lo lasciavo fare perch\u00e9 ero follemente innamorata di te. Dopo tutto quello che abbiamo passato, mi dispiace che tu mi abbia spezzato e che non mi riprender\u00f2 mai.<\/p>\n<p>But in all this pain I couldn\u2019t believe that someone else could love me, as imperfect as I am.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I have someone new in my life. It took me so much time to realize that I wasn\u2019t guilty of that disaster that happened to us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ho imparato che anche se sono rotta, con l'uomo giusto posso essere riparata.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Forse non completamente, ma abbastanza da fidarsi delle persone e innamorarsi di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>Il tuo primo errore \u00e8 stato lasciarmi. E il secondo \u00e8 stato farmi credere che non avrei potuto sopravvivere senza di te. Quindi, in qualche modo, voglio ringraziarti per avermi mostrato che posso fare molto meglio.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/treat-woman-101\" rel=\"noopener\">Mi hai mostrato come una donna non dovrebbe MAI essere trattata<\/a>. You showed me that you weren\u2019t the right man for me and I am glad that I finally realized that. In the end, I just want to say why I never tried to beg you not to leave me.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi, anche se ti amavo con tutto il cuore, ero abbastanza orgoglioso da non chiederti di restare con me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il mondo \u00e8 grande e io ho molto da offrire. Peccato che tu l'abbia capito troppo tardi!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51324\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/herway.net-8-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here you go now, you got what you wanted, and you lost me forever. I still remember that day when you were struggling to choose between me and her. And do you remember what I said to you? That you should choose her because if you ever loved me you wouldn\u2019t have to make any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6909,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/thanh-tran-334583.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}