{"id":69383,"date":"2020-05-13T16:13:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T16:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=69383"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:39:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:39:36","slug":"5-cose-nascoste-dietro-la-maschera-di-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-nascoste-dietro-la-maschera-di-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose nascoste dietro la maschera di un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se avete mai avuto a che fare con una persona narcisista, sapete quanto queste persone possano essere pericolose.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re perfectly aware that they have the power to ruin your mental and emotional health \u2013 that their actions leave inerasable scars on their victims.<\/p>\n<p>However, the trick about narcissists is that they don\u2019t appear as toxic as they really are when you first meet them.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, le persone che soffrono di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-sure-signs-you-are-suffering-from-narcissistic-victim-syndrome\/\">NPD<\/a> indossano maschere che li aiutano a nascondere il loro vero io.<\/p>\n<p>Queste maschere sono in realt\u00e0 le personalit\u00e0 che i narcisisti creano per inserirsi nel mondo e attirare le loro vittime con pi\u00f9 facilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Un codardo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72602 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di uomo che tiene una sciarpa nera sul collo e sul viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-holding-scarf-on-his-neck-and-face-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Looking at things at first, you might think that your narcissist is a brave man. He represents himself as courageous \u2013 someone without fears and who gets the job done.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa. Infatti, i narcisisti sono i pi\u00f9 grandi codardi in circolazione.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about the usual type of cowardice here.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that this man is scared of the dark or monsters under the bed.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that they\u2019re emotionally weak and fragile.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, invece di lavorare sui loro problemi, i narcisisti faranno di tutto per mascherare la loro natura vigliacca e tenerla nascosta.<\/p>\n<p>Every narcissist\u2019s biggest fear is that people will see his true personality.<\/p>\n<p>That someone will see right through him and he\u2019ll be exposed in front of the entire world.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, this man fears himself more than anyone else. He is terrified of his emotions he can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, \u00e8 un codardo in termini di assunzione di responsabilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo preferisce scappare da tutto piuttosto che affrontare le conseguenze delle sue azioni come un vero adulto.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Un bugiardo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72603 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto in bianco e nero di un uomo in camera oscura\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/black-and-white-portreit-of-a-man-in-dark-room-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che ci piaccia o meno ammetterlo, tutti noi mentiamo di tanto in tanto. Diciamo bugie innocenti e bianche che ci aiutano a uscire da certe situazioni.<\/p>\n<p>A volte mentiamo per proteggere i nostri cari.<\/p>\n<p>We hide the awful truth and present it differently because that\u2019s the only way to stop another person\u2019s heart from getting broken.<\/p>\n<p>Even though lying is never acceptable, narcissists are not merely \u201cregular\u201d liars.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, la loro intera vita si basa sull'inganno.<\/p>\n<p>Queste persone sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-segnali-rivelatori-di-un-appuntamento-con-un-bugiardo-compulsivo\/\">bugiardi compulsivi<\/a>. Usano mezze verit\u00e0 e vi diranno solo le cose che fanno comodo a loro.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Un bullo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72604 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo arrabbiato che urla contro una donna triste seduta sul divano con le mani sulle orecchie\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/angry-man-shouting-at-woman-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Avete presente i bulli del liceo che si vedono nei film?<\/p>\n<p>O forse avete vissuto un'esperienza simile quando eravate pi\u00f9 giovani.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona narcisista \u00e8 il prototipo del bullo. Tuttavia, questo lato \u00e8 accuratamente nascosto dietro la maschera.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si incontra per la prima volta un narcisista, egli finge di essere il vostro pi\u00f9 grande sostenitore.<\/p>\n<p>This man acts like his goal is to boost your self-esteem, when he\u2019s actually doing the complete opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Finge di volervi ispirare a diventare migliori. Vi convince che vi sta criticando per il vostro bene.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s a front. A narcissist is actually a bully who uses every opportunity he gets to humiliate his victims.<\/p>\n<p>Vi metter\u00e0 in cattiva luce e vi far\u00e0 sentire senza valore. Vi insulter\u00e0 e cercher\u00e0 di farvi perdere tutto il rispetto per voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Il motivo per cui i narcisisti si comportano cos\u00ec \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 piuttosto semplice.<\/p>\n<p>Mettere la sua vittima sotto di s\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unico modo per quest'uomo di sentirsi meglio con se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>In fondo, sa di essere lui a non essere sufficiente.<\/p>\n<p>He knows that you\u2019re better than him and he needs to remove that advantage of yours.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\">4. Un cercatore di attenzioni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72605 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di un bel giovane che indossa camicia e gilet\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/handsome-young-man-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I narcisisti hanno bisogno di attenzione come noi abbiamo bisogno di aria. \u00c8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante che li muove e li alimenta.<\/p>\n<p>Queste persone hanno un'incredibile voglia di essere sotto i riflettori.<\/p>\n<p>They want to be recognized, since it\u2019s the only way for them to feel significant and worthy.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, il narcisista sceglie sempre le sue vittime in base alla loro reazione.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 interessato a fare il prepotente con qualcuno che non gli d\u00e0 alcun riscontro.<\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di uomo crede di essere migliore di tutti gli altri. Tuttavia, ha bisogno di conferme.<\/p>\n<p>Ha bisogno che voi lo elogiate. Ha bisogno che la sua vittima lo ammiri per sentirsi importante.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Un manipolatore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72608 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto in bianco e nero di uomo con camicia bianca su sfondo nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-wearing-white-shirt-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Infine, ogni <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-modi-per-individuare-il-manipolatore-narcisista\/\">Il narcisista \u00e8 un manipolatore<\/a>. Anche se pu\u00f2 sembrare una persona onesta, in realt\u00e0 sta facendo di tutto per ingannare la vostra mente e farvi credere cose che non sono vere.<\/p>\n<p>Quest'uomo vi inganner\u00e0. Vi metter\u00e0 in cattiva luce e capovolger\u00e0 la verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, he will make his victims feel guilty for the things he\u2019s done to them.<\/p>\n<p>Stravolger\u00e0 la loro percezione della realt\u00e0 e continuer\u00e0 a manipolarli finch\u00e9 ne avr\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-72610 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 cose nascoste dietro la maschera di un narcisista\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-pinterest-1-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever been involved with a narcissistic person, you know how dangerous these people can be. You\u2019re perfectly aware that they have the power to ruin your mental and emotional health \u2013 that their actions leave inerasable scars on their victims. However, the trick about narcissists is that they don\u2019t appear as toxic as&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":72601,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-69383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/5-things-hidden-behind-a-narcissists-mask-1.jpg",800,508,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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